068: The Five Secrets (Part 4) — Inquiry

068: The Five Secrets (Part 4) — Inquiry

David and Fabrice discuss Inquiry, the third of the Five Secrets of Effective Communication. Inquiry means asking gentle, probing questions to learn more about what the other person is thinking and feeling.

David encourages listeners (that includes you!) to try using Inquiry five times each day, even in superficial interactions with people in any setting, such as the grocery store, and gives examples of how to do this. Although this will not be the deepest application of Inquiry, the practice will give you a clear understanding of how this technique works.

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015: The Five Secrets of Effective Communication (Part 2)

015: The Five Secrets of Effective Communication (Part 2)

If used skillfully, the Five Secrets can resolve nearly any relationship conflict and transform hostility, resentment and mistrust into intimacy and warmth, often with amazing speed. And although this...

19 Dec 201633min

014: The Five Secrets of Effective Communication (Part 1)

014: The Five Secrets of Effective Communication (Part 1)

Practically all of us have a friend, colleague, client, customer or family member we aren't getting along with very well. Perhaps the difficult person in your life is excessively critical of you, comp...

12 Dec 201638min

013: Ask David — Is Anxiety Inevitable?

013: Ask David — Is Anxiety Inevitable?

A fan points out that many of the examples in David's book, When Panic Attacks, are high functioning individuals with lots of education and good jobs. She asks Dr. Burns if depression and anxiety are ...

5 Dec 201625min

012: Negative and Positive Distortions (Part 3)

012: Negative and Positive Distortions (Part 3)

Discuss of "Should" Statements, Labeling, and Blame. Dr. Burns brings these distortions to life with a case of a severely depressed woman who felt profoundly guilty and devastated after her brother's ...

28 Nov 201625min

011: Negative and Positive Distortions (Part 2)

011: Negative and Positive Distortions (Part 2)

Three common distortions: Jumping to Conclusions (including Mind-Reading and Fortune-Telling), Magnification and Minimization (also called the Binocular Trick), and Emotional Reasoning.

21 Nov 201632min

010: Negative and Positive Distortions (Part 1)

010: Negative and Positive Distortions (Part 1)

Common thought distortions that trigger negative feelings: All-or-Nothing Thinking, Overgeneralization, Mental Filter, and Discounting the Positive.

18 Nov 201631min

009: Should I Try to Be Happy All the Time? Healthy vs. Unhealthy Emotions

009: Should I Try to Be Happy All the Time? Healthy vs. Unhealthy Emotions

When we're feeling depressed, anxious, or angry, should we accept our feelings or try to change them?

15 Nov 201631min

008: M = Methods (Part 2) — You Can CHANGE the Way You FEEL

008: M = Methods (Part 2) — You Can CHANGE the Way You FEEL

A session with a severely depressed, suicidal, hospitalized woman with rapidly cycling bipolar illness, who'd had 15 years of failed treatment with drugs and psychotherapy.

12 Nov 201633min

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