How to Nail the First Date Look
In this episode of U Up?, Jordana and Jared get cozy (Jordana’s new super soft tomato-knit top yes plz) and tackle the fine line between a compliment and a fashion read. “Comfortable” isn’t always a compliment! From decoding the art of dressing for a first date (hint: you only need one killer outfit) to unpacking the emotional baggage of co-parenting and overly close ex-relationships, they cover it all. Listener dilemmas spark juicy discussions about red flags, cringey sexual phrasing, and what it really means when your date goes through your purse. It’s a full rundown of fashion, feelings, and the fine print of modern dating. Tune in for real talk, relationship strategy, and a healthy dose of laughter! Check it out on YT too!👉 https://youtu.be/gPiif2pcZC8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
18 Juni 1h 23min
Hinge Warned Me She Was a Scammer!
This week’s Friday Feels kicks off with Jared reading a wild email straight from Hinge warning him that he may have matched with a scammer, which shocks Jordana but begs the question, did she have big boobs? From there, J&J spiral into a hilarious breakdown of dating app red flags and how scams somehow still get the swipe! Jordana defends her claim that eating tuna on a plane isn’t a crime, a lot of people love tuna! Then it’s time for some truly petty (or prudent?) listener emails, including one woman who stayed rent-free in her ex’s house and pulled off a stealth open house heist. Another listener hooked up with her downstairs neighbor and is now dodging plans, clingy texts, and sunburn lotion requests! Tune in on YouTube too! 👉 https://youtu.be/wzbXie8USpE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
13 Juni 40min
Speed Dating Tips You Need to Know for a Second Date!
Jared’s back from his first official week in Delray Beach, and Jordana wastes no time roasting his full Florida transformation complete with Joe Dirt vibes and surprise gifts for the crew (check out on YT!) In this ep, J&J weigh in on a Couples Court case where a boyfriend suggests his girlfriend ditch the hair dye to cut costs, sparking a convo about appearance, control, and whether your partner gets a say. Then, they dive into the age-old question: are women funny? A listener’s date doesn’t laugh at her (objectively great) jokes but loves Joe Rogan, and the hot takes start flying. Another emailer preps for a speed dating event and asks how to talk about her dating history without killing the vibe. And finally, it’s a Red Flag or Deal Breaker that involves a 3D anime boob mousepad and a very confused boyfriend! Tune in for a hilarious show and hot takes! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
11 Juni 1h 34min
Tired of the Apps? Try This Summer Challenge
Summer is here as Jared shares his 4-step plan to beat dating app burnout, including why taking yourself out to dinner alone might be the reset you need! Then, J&J dive into a wild “Petty or Prudent?” email from a listener who exposed her cheating ex in a Facebook group, was it justified or just messy? They unpack the fine line between closure and revenge. Later, a married listener asks how to be a better wingwoman for her single sister without overselling or making things awkward. From dating drama to sisterly love, this episode is packed with laughs, real advice, and plenty of hot takes for summer! Watch full ep here 👉 https://youtu.be/qJCrvMeT6Cs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
6 Juni 26min
His Mom Helped Him Break Up!
Jared and Jordana unpack the emotional rollercoaster of casual dating with a 30-year-old man who swears he’s not looking for anything serious, but still plans elaborate dates that scream boyfriend energy. They ask: is it really casual if it feels that intentional? Then things get hilariously weird with a naked farmer, some questionable yoga rules, and a date who’s just trying to process it all. Plus, the hosts share the texting abbreviations that give them the instant ick—WYA, prolly, and NMU—and debate what your texts reveal about your dating potential. In Red Flag or Dealbreaker, they dissect a mistaken identity double date, a pasta-at-brunch breakup, and a guy using AI to scale his love life like a startup. With summer vibes, emotional honesty, and plenty of laughs, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating modern dating chaos! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
4 Juni 1h 18min
Where Are All the Eligible Men?
From the scarcity of eligible men to the rise of sober dating, J&J explore in this Friday Feels ep how gender dynamics and societal shifts are reshaping the current dating landscape! The hosts unpack why ambitious women feel like they're settling and why men seem overwhelmed by options. Listener emails spark juicy debates, like whether it’s a red flag to bring your own Crystal Light to a date, and if saying “I love you” for the first time during sex means anything. With honest insights and hilarious moments J&J give their unfiltered takes! 👉https://youtu.be/dBD_46ZWYbU Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
30 Maj 34min
Divorce Drama: Should the Side Piece Pay?
J&J discuss scheduling conflicts and vet visit blunder to confessions of infidelity and the emotional fallout that follows! They read listener emails that unpack cheating dilemmas, post-divorce pettiness, and the struggles of physical incompatibility in otherwise perfect relationships. With signature humor and honesty, the hosts explore red flags, dealbreakers, and the importance of communication in both romantic and platonic relationships. From the aftermath of a wine spill to the complexities of being the only woman at a bachelor party, no dating dilemma is off-limits. Tune in for relationship advice that’s equal parts therapy session and group chat energy, always with a comedic twist! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
28 Maj 1h 16min
Matchmaker's Guide to 'The One' ft. Matchmaker Maria
In this Friday Feels, we're joined by Matchmaker Maria, author of Ask a Matchmaker: A No-Nonsense Guide to Finding Love. Maria returns to the show to dive into her viral “12-Date Rule,” a dating method that promotes emotional connection before physical intimacy. The results? Over 500+ engagements from a single U Up? episode alone! Who knows how many more overall! She even dishes on how she once tried to set Jared up on a date. For those skeptical about matchmaking, Maria shares insider tips on spotting industry red flags, recognizing legit certifications, and avoiding the fakes. They also explore Chapter 11 of her book, the “Relationship Roadmap,” a practical guide to getting from date one to planning your wedding. Whether you're single, dating, or knee-deep in the apps, this episode is full of no-nonsense advice that could seriously transform your love life! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
23 Maj 1h 10min
