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J&J are back in the studio and with summer wedding season in full swing, they’ve got some tips for all the single wedding-goers out there. Jared ended up at the “discards table” last weekend, and he tells us why he wears his discard-badge proudly. Next, we hear from a listener whose long-term boyfriend agreed to get engaged by the end of the year… but not knowing when her ring will come is driving her crazy. How long should you wait for him to finally propose? The Awkward Sexual Encounter is a cautionary tale for anyone planning to gather around a bonfire this summer. We hear from a listener whose sleep habits are being affected by his girlfriend’s late-night snacking needs. Finally, they close things out with a new game called Flip Or Flop, presented by motorola. Thanks again to our presenting sponsor motorola! Reimagine the possibilities of what a flip phone can do and check out the new motorola razr+ now at motorola.com/us Become a UUp? With Benefits subscriber today at: subscribe.betches.com Check out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

21 Juni 20231h 9min

This week, J&J are joined by Betches’ favorite stylist (and Jordana’s BFF) Liza Lieberman for the Sunday Special. Before getting into your questions submitted via Instagram, they debate the influences of fashion on dating, and Liza shares lessons learned from her first date outfits worn at the start of her serious relationships. Next, they take on your questions ranging from first date outfits to hatfishing, whether Matchmaker Maria’s “Green Theory” really works and how comfortable you should be getting once you’re already in a relationship. They end the episode with a date outfit makeover of first date outfits worn by Liza, Jordana, Jared and submitted by you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

18 Juni 20231h 13min

The U Up?: With Benefits subscription is getting a glow up! Go to subscribe.betches.com and sign up for the annual subscription before the end of July to lock in the promotional rate. (If you're already subscribed on Spotify, our old platform is getting phased out, so act fast and don't miss an episode!) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

17 Juni 20232min

This week, J&J are decompressing after spending the past weekend at different weddings. They dish out their views on the perfect reception, Jordana confesses an embarrassing moment she had, and Jared feels the pressures of being a great brother and best man for his brother’s upcoming “I Do's.” Next, a listener writes in wondering how to save her relationship. It’s important to her boyfriend to have a partner that can keep up with his social justice interests, but if her heart isn’t in it, will their demise be her fault? The Awkward Sexual Encounter is a drunken wedding hookup. Then, another listener emails wants to know how to kindly reject matches on the apps. The episode ends with J&J playing a new game called “Express Your First Date Thoughts.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

14 Juni 20231h 9min

Jared and Jordana are back with another Sunday Special, and this week starts with an update from our 5/14 episode! A lawyer crushing on her colleague, but unsure if their differing sexualities, longtime friendship or distance between them would be issues, took their advice and reports back. Next, a listener reaches out with a deal reveal that’s still bothering her a month later. If everything seemed fine and they both want to be in a relationship, does that mean she was the problem? J&J discuss the confusion, pain and lessons hidden in the fine print of rejection. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11 Juni 202329min

In this week’s episode, J&J are reflecting on how their realities fits into the lives of their loved ones. Jordana realizes her nieces and nephews will eventually learn she’s not “Auntie JoJo” to the public and, during a reunion with his high school lacrosse team, Jared noticed he was the only single, childless alum in attendance. Next, they catch up on new love languages and discuss a Bumble match using pop culture to vet her dates. The Awkward Sexual Encounter is a memory between college sweethearts. The second email asks for advice on living with your SO. Lastly, the episode ends with a round of Faux Pas or Nah about misleading job titles on the apps, celebrity crushes, burping and J&J share their own faux pas. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

7 Juni 20231h 26min

It’s time for another Sunday Special and this week starts with Jared sharing more about his Euro trip… from hotel preferences to a w/Benefits tease about his dry spell. Next, a listener shares her concern over whether Jared’s so-called “10-monther timeline” is becoming her reality, or if she and her boyfriend are in it for the long haul. She has professed her love — and he hasn’t — but she’s still convinced that she sees it in his actions. So, how does she tell if he’ll come around or if the end is near? J&J break down the telltale signs of when all isn’t as it seems. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

4 Juni 202332min

Jared and Jordana are back in the studio after weeks of travel and touring to talk about the word on everyone’s minds and TVs: Scandoval. Jordana gives Jared the highlights of the Vanderpump Rules finale and reunion, and they debate the toll of being cheated on in such a grand scale. Then, they jump into an email about a guy having a great time seeing a fellow grad student, but he’s about to move across the country for 5 months. Is it fair to bring titles into play, or should they put a pause on the relationship potential between them? The Awkward Sexual Encounter pulls the plug on the breakup sex that could’ve been. Then, our second emailer shares a bizarre request from a one-night stand. J&J finish with a game of Red Flag or Deal Breaker about a shitty date, manners when you meet the parents, and settling the debate on whether a S.O. should take an upgraded seat when flying as a couple. Check out our latest promo codes here: https://betches.com/promo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

31 Maj 20231h 30min