Was This A Red Flag Or Is My Internalized Homophobia Showing?
U Up?21 Feb 2024

Was This A Red Flag Or Is My Internalized Homophobia Showing?

It’s the Worst Day of the Year, which happens to be the day Jared Freid was born! The episode starts with reflecting on Jordana’s unhinged rant that gave today its special name and how he feels entering his personal new year. Then, Emma Willmann, host of Ask Men Anything, returns and shares revelations she's gained as a lesbian questioning men on everything. Next, they hear from a listener in need of guidance on an internal debate. After having sex with the guy she’s been dating, he casually mentions being queer, and she wonders why he would not be direct about such a big part of his identity. Is it internalized homophobia making her question a non-issue, or was there a better way to go about this conversation? Jared, Jordana, and Emma debate all sides of a relatable issue in today's modern dating world. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How To Tell If It’s A One-Sided Setup

How To Tell If It’s A One-Sided Setup

J&J are back in the studio and it’s Jordana’s birthday eve! Before they jump right in, Jared shares a recent text exchange between him and a woman he dated years ago so Jordana can give her impartial opinion. Next, they read an email questioning why a neighbor gave his info and expressed interest if he never intended for anything to happen. The Awkward Sexual Encounter gets messy. Then, the second emailer is trying to get out of the “family zone” with her best friend’s brother. The episode ends with a round of Red Flag or Deal Breaker about Instagram Stories, wedding dates, and stealing date ideas. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

13 Sep 20231h 20min

Nothing Good Comes From Keeping Your Ex Around

Nothing Good Comes From Keeping Your Ex Around

This Sunday Special has Jared heated! The episode starts with a “Petty or Prudent?” submission about an ex’s mom asking for her gift back. Then, a listener reaches out about a difficult choice: should she marry her boyfriend who could give her the life she wants, or should she give life a second go with her ex-husband? Jared and Jordana talk through the messy situation, including a message directly to one of the people involved–and it’s not the listener. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

10 Sep 202333min

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want Kids, But He’s A Father

My Boyfriend Doesn’t Want Kids, But He’s A Father

Before solving dating again, J&J are catching up after a short break. Jordana gives the rundown of her week in Italia, and Jared talks about the big star he got to meet after his Netflix debut. The first emailer is debating whether they should use dating business cards to market themselves to potential singles. The Awkward Sexual Encounter gets too hot to handle. Then, the second emailer wonders what say she has in her boyfriend’s lack of involvement in his toddler’s life. The episode ends with a round of Red Flag or Deal Breaker about lying about height, holding hands on a first date, and STI test results. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

6 Sep 20231h 9min

Sometimes, You’ve Got To Take The “L”

Sometimes, You’ve Got To Take The “L”

We’re ushering in September with a Sunday Special, and J&J are dubbing fall as the better season to be in the dating game. We know all too well that communication is a core element in dating successfully, and this episode focus on getting lost in translation. They play a round of “Petty or Prudent?” about a misplaced passport. Then, a listener questions if she’s been doing dating all wrong after she called out a fizzled dating prospect, and he fired back. If it seems like they both ghosted, who's at fault? Jared and Jordana read the texts and take sides. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

3 Sep 202331min

Lightning Round: How Do I Know If They’re “The One”

Lightning Round: How Do I Know If They’re “The One”

Jared and Jordana are celebrating summer’s end with a Lightning Round episode, but first, Jordana has a surprise for Jared. Still reeling from his special’s Netflix debut, Jared shares his appreciation for the outpouring of support he’s received from all of you. Then, J&J get back to saving dating with a range of topics from sex talks and whether you should be dating at all to long-distance relationships and how to keep cultural differences from impacting your parents’ first impression. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

30 Aug 20231h 20min

Does Cheating Once Make You A Cheater For Life?

Does Cheating Once Make You A Cheater For Life?

Jared and Jordana are back for another Sunday Special, and this week, they’re starting with a round of “Petty or Prudent?” that pissed Jared off the more he thought about it. Next, an emailer asks if she should be worried about the past indiscretions of a guy she’s seeing. Can a cheater be reformed or is she at risk of the same fate? J&J discuss her worries, red flags, and how to address the elephant in the room. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

27 Aug 202329min

Who’s Responsible For Texting After The Date?

Who’s Responsible For Texting After The Date?

J&J are back in the studio and, this week, they’re both on a high! Jordana is fresh off her biggest move to date and Jared is mere hours into his Netflix debut. The first emailer is questioning whether his ghosting habit got him banned from Hinge. The Awkward Sexual Encounter involves a case of mistaken identity. Then, our second emailer wants to start a family in the next few years, but her boyfriend is a few years younger and unsure of where he's at. Should a mismatch of timelines be an immediate deal breaker, or is there time to figure things out? The episode ends with a round of “Thirsty or Nah?” about overzealous pickup lines, canceling a date due to a cold, and helping with a move. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

23 Aug 20231h 10min

My Exes Don’t Exist To Me Ft. Sasheer Zamata

My Exes Don’t Exist To Me Ft. Sasheer Zamata

Comedian and actress Sasheer Zamata joins J&J for this Sunday Special. She and Jared both released comedy specials this month, so they trade insights from the comic’s perspective. Then, Sasheer shares elements of her comedy background. Next, they play a round of “Petty or Prudent?” about exes’ pics on dating apps, keeping gifts, and returning cards. Guest: Sasheer Zamata, @thesheertruth Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

20 Aug 202340min

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