Ep 21 - Feeling guilty about spending? F*ck that!

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It’s time to address the elephant in the room. Spending money and feeling guilty.

As we all know, 98% of people do not feel comfortable talking about money. And certainly don’t feel comfortable confronting any of their unhealthy money beliefs

Let me quickly tell you -- If you feel guilt when you spend money, know you’re not alone. I used to feel such massive guilt for spending money.

Trust me, I know how you feel.

• I used to go out to dinner with friends and think to myself: Shit, I wonder how you’re going to be splitting the bill
• When on a date, I used to think about who would pay when the bill would come, focusing so much on the payment that I wouldn’t enjoy myself on the date...
• I used to show up to birthday dinners super late (after everyone ate), or show up and say things like “oh I just ate, I’ll just have water!” and then devour the free bread they would give….
• I used to go shopping and bring all my clothes home, only to feel so guilty that I would return most of them to reduce my credit card bill...

And while I’m not particularly proud of this old Scottie, I feel so much compassion and love for him. He was simply doing the best he could.

Almost every single logical human (not born into billions of dollars) has likely felt guilt around spending at some point in their lives

So just know, you’re not alone.

And I need you to know this: It is not your fault if you don’t have a great relationship with money

It’s simply just not your fault

However… (and this is a big however)

As an adult, it is now our responsibility to identify if our relationship with money is one we want to keep, or one we want to shift. And make the shift if desired.

Let me say it differently. You are not to blame for your current situation, but you can take ownership of your feelings and life and make a change if you desire to.

In one way or another, what I hear from my clients is this: I know I should be better with my money, but money stresses me out and makes me so anxious. I don't even know where to start.

And so the cycle continues.

I’m here to show you, this is not how life has to be.

What does this guilt do for you?

What would it feel like if you didn’t have this guilt?

If this resonates with you, and you want to explore repairing your relationship with money, let's talk. There’s so much here to work on, but just know, your journey is yours alone.

I’m here to help.

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