6. “We can’t afford to live in NYC, but my wife doesn’t want to leave the city”

6. “We can’t afford to live in NYC, but my wife doesn’t want to leave the city”

Jessica grew up wealthy in New York City. She can't imagine her life anywhere that's not within walking distance to the coffee shop, the best schools, and her parents (who live two blocks away). Her husband, Nathaniel, is building his business and it’s been difficult getting it off the ground. For a while now, Jessica's been absorbing most finances and feels that the situation would improve if Nathaniel contributed just an extra $100 to living expenses. Jessica and Nathaniel struggle when it comes to communicating with each other. In fact, they spend 20 minutes answering my first question before I can get a word in. The truth is, They're both so fixated on telling their story, they do not realize that neither of them is listening. I hear anger, resentment, exhaustion… what do you hear? It takes a while to get to the numbers, but we start crunching after clearing some of the other issues. The results are extremely surprising. Sometimes, our attachment to the story we tell ourselves can cloud the reality in front of us. Moving is complicated, but it doesn't have to be a step back. Listen to see what to do when your financial reality doesn’t match the vision you had of your ideal life. Connect with Ramit Website Instagram Twitter Facebook YouTube Linkedin Produced by Crate Media.

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226. “She’s chasing FIRE. I want to enjoy life now.”

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225. “We’re losing $5k/mo. Where is it all going?”

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224. “I took on debt to help my family. Now she won’t marry me.”

224. “I took on debt to help my family. Now she won’t marry me.”

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223. “We make $81k/yr in our 30s. Is that enough?”

223. “We make $81k/yr in our 30s. Is that enough?”

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222. “My husband is my 4th child. Will he ever help?”

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221. “I’m almost 40 and still living paycheck to paycheck”

221. “I’m almost 40 and still living paycheck to paycheck”

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220. “I carry the baby, the bills, and the stress”

220. “I carry the baby, the bills, and the stress”

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219. “He’s so cheap it’s killing our joy”

219. “He’s so cheap it’s killing our joy”

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