3. Breaking Free from Perfectionism and Embracing Healthy Striving for a More Fulfilling Life

3. Breaking Free from Perfectionism and Embracing Healthy Striving for a More Fulfilling Life

Are you (or were you) the mom who volunteers for all the class parties, offers to organize every family event, and plans your own gatherings down to the T?

I get it. I used to be that mom until I started becoming more gentle with myself. In this episode, I break down the harmful effects of perfectionism.

Now, there's a difference between perfectionism and healthy striving. And as the name suggests, it is much healthier.

In today's episode of The Overwhelm Cure, you'll hear about how society sets unrealistic standards, only fueling our perfectionism. This leads us to be hard on ourselves and even impacts relationships.

Here's what you'll find in this episode:

  • The overwhelming impact of perfectionism on our lives and relationships

  • The pitfalls of striving for unattainable standards, leading to self-neglect and judgement towards others

  • The antidote to perfectionism and how to start using it today

  • Practical advice to help you start challenging your perfectionist thoughts, celebrate small successes, and embrace the joy of imperfection.

Have you signed up for my free Overwhelm Cure webinar yet? Save your spot!

Explore all my workshops and learn how to work with me privately at KimberlyKnull.com.

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction: Relating to Perfectionism

01:59 The Cost of Perfectionism

03:17 Healthy Striving vs. Perfectionism

05:08 Compassion and Self-Care

06:44 Overcoming Perfectionism

10:04 Learning from Mistakes

11:31 Talking Back to Perfectionism

14:00 Embracing Imperfection

14:56 Conclusion: Self-Worth and Compassion

Det här avsnittet är hämtat från ett öppet RSS-flöde och publiceras inte av Podme. Det kan innehålla reklam.

Avsnitt(151)

72: Care Less, Live More: How to Stop Hustling for Your Worthiness

72: Care Less, Live More: How to Stop Hustling for Your Worthiness

A little while ago, someone gave me a piece of advice. "Stop caring so much." My first reaction? Out of context, I wanted to argue. Don't we have a caring crisis? Shouldn't more people care more, not ...

5 Aug 23min

71: The "Have To" Trap: Why You're Exhausted, Resentful, and How to Get Out

71: The "Have To" Trap: Why You're Exhausted, Resentful, and How to Get Out

Do you ever feel like your life is being run by an invisible rulebook you never agreed to? I should post weekly. I have to work late. I'm supposed to do it this way. In this episode, I'm getting perso...

22 Juni 29min

70: You've Stopped Having Fun — And It's Affecting Everyone Around You

70: You've Stopped Having Fun — And It's Affecting Everyone Around You

Be honest — when was the last time someone described you as fun to be around? If that question makes you a little defensive, you're not alone. When we're overwhelmed, exhausted, and running on empty, ...

3 Juni 23min

69: What Confidence Really Looks Like (And Why Yours Might Be Armor)

69: What Confidence Really Looks Like (And Why Yours Might Be Armor)

Most of us want more confidence — but we're not always sure what that actually means. Some of the behaviours we associate with confidence, like arrogance, defensiveness, or endlessly proving ourselves...

20 Maj 28min

68: What Do You Really Want?

68: What Do You Really Want?

If I ask you what you want, you can probably rattle off a list: more time, less stress, a cleaner house, a vacation. But if I push past that and ask what you really want — the kind of life that actual...

11 Maj 20min

67: The Skills That Got You Here Won't Get You There: How Real Change Actually Happens

67: The Skills That Got You Here Won't Get You There: How Real Change Actually Happens

How do other people do it? It seems like there is a secret to creating lasting change that other people know, but is kept from us.  Unlock the secret of what it really takes to learn something new and...

5 Maj 23min

66: Stop Mindless Numbing: How to Choose Intentional Rest & Joy

66: Stop Mindless Numbing: How to Choose Intentional Rest & Joy

Are You Chronically Numbing? We've all been there: exhausted, stressed out, and reaching for a quick hit of dopamine — whether it's scrolling, eating, or binge-watching Netflix. These are numbing beha...

27 Apr 16min

65: Body Image: The #1 Shame Trigger for Women

65: Body Image: The #1 Shame Trigger for Women

Quiet the Negative Chatter: Stopping the Body Shame and Building Healthy Habits When the weather turns warm and the winter layers come off, the shame around body image can feel overwhelming. I was sho...

20 Apr 41min

Populärt inom Utbildning

historiepodden-se
rss-bara-en-till-om-missbruk-medberoende-2
det-skaver
nu-blir-det-historia
allt-du-velat-veta
harrisons-dramatiska-historia
johannes-hansen-podcast
not-fanny-anymore
rss-viktmedicinpodden
roda-vita-rosen
i-vantan-pa-katastrofen
rikatillsammans-om-privatekonomi-rikedom-i-livet
sa-in-i-sjalen
sektledare
rss-max-tant-med-max-villman
rss-autismandan
rss-traningsklubben
rss-i-skenet-av-blaljus
rss-basta-livet
sex-pa-riktigt-med-marika-smith