The Conscious Lee - The Professor, Activist, Content Creator

This week's halfisode is audio of the IGLive that I did with Andrew Duffer yesterday. I asked him ten random questions. We laughed. I cried. It was great. It is available for your viewing pleasure on my Instagram account. Thanks so much to all who joined. You can find Andrew Duffer on: https://www.instagram.com/andrewjduffer/ https://twitter.com/andrewjduffer https://www.facebook.com/AndrewJDuffer/ https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewjduffer Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/ Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye Have a story, question or comment you'd like for us to answer or read on the show? Want to be our monthly featured artist? Email us at: T42PodChat@gmail.com If you are looking for counseling or need to reach out for any kind of help please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources: Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline: The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

8 Jan 202253min

Part two of a two part episode. We continue with our chat and touch on Drag Race, Gender Reveals (no offense meant), heteronormative culture, hygiene adn many many many other subjects. You can find Andrew Duffer on: https://www.instagram.com/andrewjduffer/ https://twitter.com/andrewjduffer https://www.facebook.com/AndrewJDuffer/ https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewjduffer Song: "Hurricane" by EVVAN from the EP "Home" Purchase or listen to everything EVVAN at https://killphonicdistro.lnk.to/Home Find Evvan on: https://www.instagram.com/evvanmusic/ https://twitter.com/evvanmusic https://www.facebook.com/EvvanMusic/ Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/ Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye Have a story, question or comment you'd like for us to answer or read on the show? Want to be our monthly featured artist? Email us at: T42PodChat@gmail.com If you are looking for counseling or need to reach out for any kind of help please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources: Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline: The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

6 Jan 20221h 10min

Happy New Year! There's no better way to return than with a guest who is hot tea royalty! Today Toks discusses content creation, bad contracts, Krista Allen, growing up gay in a small town and Pedialyte with the king of Tea Time himself! Part one of a two part episode> part two will be released on Thursday, January 6th.  You can find Andrew Duffer on: https://www.instagram.com/andrewjduffer/ https://twitter.com/andrewjduffer Have a story, question or comment you'd like for us to answer or read on the show? Want to be our monthly featured artist? Email us at: T42PodChat@gmail.com   If you  are looking for counseling or need to reach out for any kind of help please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources:   Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7)   National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7)   LGBTQ suicide hotline:  The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7)   National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available.   National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help)   Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255   Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location. https://www.facebook.com/AndrewJDuffer/ https://www.tiktok.com/@andrewjduffer   Song: "I'm Not Done Yet" by EVVAN from the EP "Home" iTunes: https://music.apple.com/us/album/home-ep/1555098661 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/track/1lPYQEVmZ9HpYGgiCyRk9f?si=0b88505ca6cf44ef Find Evvan on: https://www.instagram.com/evvanmusic/ https://twitter.com/evvanmusic https://www.facebook.com/EvvanMusic/ Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/ Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye

4 Jan 20221h 18min

In this episode Bree and Toks chat about all things Christmas AKA somethings Christmas and all the things those things remind them of. They talk favorite Christmas films, Christmas traditions (appropriate and not) and the weekly Quinn family meeting. Find Bree: @MsBree on Instagram or @BreeWilliamson on Twitter To do something wonderful for a family in need you can adopt a family this Christmas! Please go to: http://dpss.lacounty.gov/wps/portal/dpss/main/programs-and-services/volunteer-services/adopt-a-family/ If you would like to help the humans and animals affected and displaced by the Woolsey Fire please donate to one of the following organizations. Please remember that they will all still need donations even after the fires are out. Non-profit organizations are always helping those who are in crisis. Every dollar counts! And for the activists in your life we assure you that a donation made in their name is the perfect Christmas present! We thank you for your generosity! Love and Leashes https://www.laloveandleashes.com/donate To adopt: https://www.laloveandleashes.com/adopt Instagram and Twitter: @LALoveLeashes https://www.facebook.com/LALoveLeashes/ Animal Hope and Wellness https://animalhopeandwellness.org/ways-to-donate/ Instagram: @AnimalHopeAndWellness Twitter: @AnimalHopeandW1 https://www.facebook.com/animalhopeandwellness/ The Humane Society of Ventura County (also see LAIST article below) https://www.hsvc.org/donate Instagram and Twitter: @hsvc_ojai https://www.facebook.com/hsvc.org/ Deity Animal Rescue (Deity Dogs + Goods) https://www.deitydogsandgoods.com/donate Or donate on Venmo: @deityanimalrescue Instagram: @deityanimalrescue Twitter: @deityjewels Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/deityanimalrescue/ To fill out a form to adopt or foster please go to:https://www.deitydogsandgoods.com/copy-of-apply-to-adopt To listen to our episode with Deity fhttps://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tea-for-two/id1213246578?mt=2&i=1000416928730ounder Ellen Ballon Dante please click here: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tea-for-two/id1213246578?mt=2&i=1000416928730 East Valley Animal Shelter and West Valley Animal Shelter http://www.laanimalservices.com/donate/ Instagram: @LAAnimalServices Twitter:@LACityPets https://www.facebook.com/LAAnimalServices/ I Stand With My Pack https://istandwithmypack.org/donate/ Instagram: @istandwithmypack Twitter: @iswmp https://www.facebook.com/IStandWithMyPack/ Here is the article/list I found by LAIST with links: "Wildfires are hitting Southern California hard, with thousands forced to evacuate and thousands of acres burned. Here's how you can help, from making a donation to volunteering. HOW TO MAKE A DONATION A number of organizations are helping wildfire victims. The Red Cross, perhaps the most well-known, is providing both shelter and emotional support for evacuees. You can visit RedCross.org, call 1-800-RED-CROSS, or text REDCROSS to 90999 to make an automatic $10 donation. The United Way of Greater Los Angeles is accepting donations to its Disaster Relief Fundto help those affected by the Southern California fires. They're partnering with United Way of Ventura County. The Salvation Army Ventura Corps wildfire relief fund is also accepting donations to go toward California wildfire relief. The California Fire Foundation is a nonprofit that is distributing emergency funds to fire victims through its SAVE program. That includes firefighters distributing prepaid credit cards to help victims in the immediate aftermath of the fire. Google is helping people make a donation. Donations through Google will be directed through the Center for Disaster Philanthropy— you can read more about that here. The Entertainment Industry Foundation is raising money through its Fire Relief Fund to help those affected. The organizations that will benefit, but last year they gave to the L.A. Fire Department, L.A. Kitchen, and the Humane Society of Ventura County. Facebook also has a Crisis Response pagefor the Woolsey Fire, which includes fundraising through GlobalGiving to help those affected by the fire. HOW TO DONATE TO HELP ANIMALS The Humane Society of Ventura County is accepting animals evacuating from the Hill and Woolsey fires, and they're also looking for support. You can donate to the organization here or purchase needed items through their Amazon Wish List here. The Los Angeles County Animal Care Foundation is providing animals shelter from the Woolsey and Hill fires. They're accepting donations through the Noah's Legacy Fund. The Pasadena Humane Society said it took in 15 dogs, 12 cats, five rabbits, four hamsters and two mice over the course of the weekend. It is accepting donations, up to $3,000 of which will be matched through a gift from the Elizabeth M. Falk Foundation. OTHER ACTIONS YOU CAN TAKE Adopt a pet. The L.A. County Department of Animal Care and Control is asking people to go to their nearest animal care center and adopt during this emergency. They note that their Agoura Animal Care Center was evacuated Friday morning, but their other centers remain open. Help your neighborhood plan for a future disaster. L.A. County has a five-step Neighborhood Action Kit to help you and your neighbors make a plan. They note that, in major disasters, 70 percent of victims are rescued by their neighbors rather than professional responders. Apply to volunteer with the Humane Society of Ventura County, though they are currently only accepting trained volunteers to help with evacuated animals. Apply to become a Red Cross volunteer." If the links above don't work for you please go to the article: http://www.laist.com/2018/11/09/southern_california_woolsey_hill_wildfires_how_to_help.php Thanks so much for listening! Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/ Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye Thanks for listening! If you like or love what you hear please take the time to rate us five stars on iTunes and leave a little review if you have time! If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: T42PodChat@gmail.com Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources: Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline: The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

4 Dec 20181h 53min

If any of you are into fashion in film and tv you will love today's guest! Today Toks chats with Jennifer May Nickel. They talk elephants, architecture and doing what you love. To follow Toks and/ or the podcast on social media head to @ToksOlagundoye on Twitter and/ or @tolykay on Instagram and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye or check out her website at www.ToksOlagundoye.com Find Jennifer: @JenniferMayDesigns on Instagram To donate to David Sheldrick Wildlife Trust and find out what they do please go to https://www.sheldrickwildlifetrust.org/asp/orphans.asp and please follow them at @DSWT on Instagram and Twitter or on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/thedswt/ To donate to Elephant Nature Park or to find out what they do or how to visit them go to https://www.elephantnaturepark.org/ and follow them at @ElephantNaturePark on Instagram and @ElephantNatureP on Twitter and on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/TheElephantNaturePark/ To check out what I Stand With My Pack does, to donate, to foster or to adopt please go to https://istandwithmypack.org/donate/ and follow them at Instagram: @istandwithmypack Twitter: @iswmp and Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/IStandWithMyPack/ To follow the incredible, fierce and gorgeous Aleksandra Schiffer please go to @TheAnimalBabe on Instagram To help victims of the Woolsey Fire please go to the notes for either of our previous two episodes. Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/ Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye Thanks for listening! If you like or love what you hear please take the time to rate us five stars on iTunes and leave a little review if you have time! If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: T42PodChat@gmail.com Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources: Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline: The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

27 Nov 20181h 2min

If you listened to our last episode you know who Bree Williamson is. If you didn't you probably still know who Bree Williamson is. For the few of guy who don't she is a phenomenal human being and incredible Emmy nominated actress known for shows like General Hospital, One Life To Live, Haven and Private Eyes. She was also on an episode of Castle, which is how she and Toks met. And now they're buddies. Toks enjoys her conversations with Bree so much that she thought you might also be enthralled by her opinions, kindness and sass. And here it is, the first episode of Tea For Two With Bree! We will be doing an episode with each other at least once a month. We kick it off this week with the true history of Thanksgiving, why most people believe Turkey is the center of the traditional meal, the reasons we do and don't enjoy travel that time of year and many more things, some of which have to do with Thanksgiving (we are prone to tangents)! We don't always agree, but we're always kind about it and we always listen to each other, respect each other and learn from each other; life lessons we all need. Hope you enjoy the episode! Historical information about the origins of Thanksgiving as we know it can be found in the "Turkey For The Birds" episode of Food For Thought from November 22nd, 2017. Food For Thought is an amazing podcast hosted by Colleen Patrick-Goudreau. If you would like to listen to the episode you can find it here: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/food-for-thought-the-joys-and-benefits-of-living-vegan/id147907532?mt=2&i=1000395150125 To follow Toks and/ or the podcast on social media head to @ToksOlagundoye on Twitter and/ or @tolykay on Instagram and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye or check out her website at www.ToksOlagundoye.com To follow Bree Williamson please go to @MsBree on Instagram or @BreeWilliamson on Twitter To show thanks for the abundance in your own life you can do something wonderful for a family in need and adopt a family this Christmas! Please go to: http://dpss.lacounty.gov/wps/portal/dpss/main/programs-and-services/volunteer-services/adopt-a-family/ If you would like to give thanks by giving aid to the humans and animals affected and displaced by the Woolsey Fire and Camp Fire please donate to one of the following organizations. Please remember that they will all still need donations even after the fires are out and will, specifically for these disasters, for several weeks. Non-profit organizations are always helping those who are in crisis. Every dollar counts! We thank you for your generosity! Love and Leashes https://www.laloveandleashes.com/donate To adopt: https://www.laloveandleashes.com/adopt Instagram and Twitter: @LALoveLeashes https://www.facebook.com/LALoveLeashes/ Animal Hope and Wellness https://animalhopeandwellness.org/ways-to-donate/ Instagram: @AnimalHopeAndWellness Twitter: @AnimalHopeandW1 https://www.facebook.com/animalhopeandwellness/ The Humane Society of Ventura County (also see LAIST article below) https://www.hsvc.org/donate Instagram and Twitter: @hsvc_ojai https://www.facebook.com/hsvc.org/ Deity Animal Rescue (Deity Dogs + Goods) https://www.deitydogsandgoods.com/donate Or donate on Venmo: @deityanimalrescue Instagram: @deityanimalrescue Twitter: @deityjewels Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/deityanimalrescue/ To fill out a form to adopt or foster please go to:https://www.deitydogsandgoods.com/copy-of-apply-to-adopt To listen to our episode with Deity fhttps://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tea-for-two/id1213246578?mt=2&i=1000416928730ounder Ellen Ballon Dante please click here: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tea-for-two/id1213246578?mt=2&i=1000416928730 East Valley Animal Shelter and West Valley Animal Shelter http://www.laanimalservices.com/donate/ Instagram: @LAAnimalServices Twitter:@LACityPets https://www.facebook.com/LAAnimalServices/ I Stand With My Pack https://istandwithmypack.org/donate/ Instagram: @istandwithmypack Twitter: @iswmp https://www.facebook.com/IStandWithMyPack/ Here is the article/list I found by LAIST with links: "Wildfires are hitting Southern California hard, with thousands forced to evacuate and thousands of acres burned. Here's how you can help, from making a donation to volunteering. HOW TO MAKE A DONATION A number of organizations are helping wildfire victims. The Red Cross, perhaps the most well-known, is providing both shelter and emotional support for evacuees. You can visit RedCross.org, call 1-800-RED-CROSS, or text REDCROSS to 90999 to make an automatic $10 donation. The United Way of Greater Los Angeles is accepting donations to its Disaster Relief Fundto help those affected by the Southern California fires. They're partnering with United Way of Ventura County. The Salvation Army Ventura Corps wildfire relief fund is also accepting donations to go toward California wildfire relief. The California Fire Foundation is a nonprofit that is distributing emergency funds to fire victims through its SAVE program. That includes firefighters distributing prepaid credit cards to help victims in the immediate aftermath of the fire. Google is helping people make a donation. Donations through Google will be directed through the Center for Disaster Philanthropy— you can read more about that here. The Entertainment Industry Foundation is raising money through its Fire Relief Fund to help those affected. The organizations that will benefit, but last year they gave to the L.A. Fire Department, L.A. Kitchen, and the Humane Society of Ventura County. Facebook also has a Crisis Response pagefor the Woolsey Fire, which includes fundraising through GlobalGiving to help those affected by the fire. HOW TO DONATE TO HELP ANIMALS The Humane Society of Ventura County is accepting animals evacuating from the Hill and Woolsey fires, and they're also looking for support. You can donate to the organization here or purchase needed items through their Amazon Wish List here. The Los Angeles County Animal Care Foundation is providing animals shelter from the Woolsey and Hill fires. They're accepting donations through the Noah's Legacy Fund. The Pasadena Humane Society said it took in 15 dogs, 12 cats, five rabbits, four hamsters and two mice over the course of the weekend. It is accepting donations, up to $3,000 of which will be matched through a gift from the Elizabeth M. Falk Foundation. OTHER ACTIONS YOU CAN TAKE Adopt a pet. The L.A. County Department of Animal Care and Control is asking people to go to their nearest animal care center and adopt during this emergency. They note that their Agoura Animal Care Center was evacuated Friday morning, but their other centers remain open. Help your neighborhood plan for a future disaster. L.A. County has a five-step Neighborhood Action Kit to help you and your neighbors make a plan. They note that, in major disasters, 70 percent of victims are rescued by their neighbors rather than professional responders. Apply to volunteer with the Humane Society of Ventura County, though they are currently only accepting trained volunteers to help with evacuated animals. Apply to become a Red Cross volunteer." If the links above don't work for you please go to the article: http://www.laist.com/2018/11/09/southern_california_woolsey_hill_wildfires_how_to_help.php For anyone in Canada: Family and Children's Services Ontario http://www.familyandchildren.ca/how-to-give/give Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/ Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye Thanks for listening! If you like or love what you hear please take the time to rate us five stars on iTunes and leave a little review if you have time! If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: T42PodChat@gmail.com Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources: Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline: The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

20 Nov 20181h 11min

Today, Toks sits down with one of the best gifts that being in the show Castle has ever given her: Bree Williamson! The two met while filming and this episode of the podcast is a glimpse into their friendship. Toks and Bree talk Emmys, Hallowe'en and the Woolsey Fire. They also reveal an awesome new project! And stay tuned after the interview for some awesome music by The Sadies. A great song entitled "Tell Her What I Said"! And maybe check out the video on YouTube; Bree's Husband, Mike Roberts, won a Juno for directing it! #PowerCouple To follow Toks and/ or the podcast on social media head to @ToksOlagundoye on Twitter and/ or @tolykay on Instagram and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye or check out her website at www.ToksOlagundoye.com To follow Bree Williamson please go to @MsBree on Instagram or @BreeWilliamson on Twitter To do something wonderful for a family in need you can adopt a family this Christmas! Please go to: http://dpss.lacounty.gov/wps/portal/dpss/main/programs-and-services/volunteer-services/adopt-a-family/ If you would like to help the humans and animals affected and displaced by the Woolsey Fire please donate to one of the following organizations. Please remember that they will all still need donations even after the fires are out. Non-profit organizations are always helping those who are in crisis. Every dollar counts! We thank you for your generosity! Love and Leashes https://www.laloveandleashes.com/donate To adopt: https://www.laloveandleashes.com/adopt Instagram and Twitter: @LALoveLeashes https://www.facebook.com/LALoveLeashes/ Animal Hope and Wellness https://animalhopeandwellness.org/ways-to-donate/ Instagram: @AnimalHopeAndWellness Twitter: @AnimalHopeandW1 https://www.facebook.com/animalhopeandwellness/ The Humane Society of Ventura County (also see LAIST article below) https://www.hsvc.org/donate Instagram and Twitter: @hsvc_ojai https://www.facebook.com/hsvc.org/ Deity Animal Rescue (Deity Dogs + Goods) https://www.deitydogsandgoods.com/donate Or donate on Venmo: @deityanimalrescue Instagram: @deityanimalrescue Twitter: @deityjewels Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/deityanimalrescue/ To fill out a form to adopt or foster please go to:https://www.deitydogsandgoods.com/copy-of-apply-to-adopt To listen to our episode with Deity fhttps://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tea-for-two/id1213246578?mt=2&i=1000416928730ounder Ellen Ballon Dante please click here: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/tea-for-two/id1213246578?mt=2&i=1000416928730 East Valley Animal Shelter and West Valley Animal Shelter http://www.laanimalservices.com/donate/ Instagram: @LAAnimalServices Twitter:@LACityPets https://www.facebook.com/LAAnimalServices/ I Stand With My Pack https://istandwithmypack.org/donate/ Instagram: @istandwithmypack Twitter: @iswmp https://www.facebook.com/IStandWithMyPack/ Here is the article/list I found by LAIST with links: "Wildfires are hitting Southern California hard, with thousands forced to evacuate and thousands of acres burned. Here's how you can help, from making a donation to volunteering. HOW TO MAKE A DONATION A number of organizations are helping wildfire victims. The Red Cross, perhaps the most well-known, is providing both shelter and emotional support for evacuees. You can visit RedCross.org, call 1-800-RED-CROSS, or text REDCROSS to 90999 to make an automatic $10 donation. The United Way of Greater Los Angeles is accepting donations to its Disaster Relief Fundto help those affected by the Southern California fires. They're partnering with United Way of Ventura County. The Salvation Army Ventura Corps wildfire relief fund is also accepting donations to go toward California wildfire relief. The California Fire Foundation is a nonprofit that is distributing emergency funds to fire victims through its SAVE program. That includes firefighters distributing prepaid credit cards to help victims in the immediate aftermath of the fire. Google is helping people make a donation. Donations through Google will be directed through the Center for Disaster Philanthropy— you can read more about that here. The Entertainment Industry Foundation is raising money through its Fire Relief Fund to help those affected. The organizations that will benefit, but last year they gave to the L.A. Fire Department, L.A. Kitchen, and the Humane Society of Ventura County. Facebook also has a Crisis Response pagefor the Woolsey Fire, which includes fundraising through GlobalGiving to help those affected by the fire. HOW TO DONATE TO HELP ANIMALS The Humane Society of Ventura County is accepting animals evacuating from the Hill and Woolsey fires, and they're also looking for support. You can donate to the organization here or purchase needed items through their Amazon Wish List here. The Los Angeles County Animal Care Foundation is providing animals shelter from the Woolsey and Hill fires. They're accepting donations through the Noah's Legacy Fund. The Pasadena Humane Society said it took in 15 dogs, 12 cats, five rabbits, four hamsters and two mice over the course of the weekend. It is accepting donations, up to $3,000 of which will be matched through a gift from the Elizabeth M. Falk Foundation. OTHER ACTIONS YOU CAN TAKE Adopt a pet. The L.A. County Department of Animal Care and Control is asking people to go to their nearest animal care center and adopt during this emergency. They note that their Agoura Animal Care Center was evacuated Friday morning, but their other centers remain open. Help your neighborhood plan for a future disaster. L.A. County has a five-step Neighborhood Action Kit to help you and your neighbors make a plan. They note that, in major disasters, 70 percent of victims are rescued by their neighbors rather than professional responders. Apply to volunteer with the Humane Society of Ventura County, though they are currently only accepting trained volunteers to help with evacuated animals. Apply to become a Red Cross volunteer." If the links above don't work for you please go to the article: http://www.laist.com/2018/11/09/southern_california_woolsey_hill_wildfires_how_to_help.php For anyone in Canada: Family and Children's Services Ontario http://www.familyandchildren.ca/how-to-give/give Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/ Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye Thanks for listening! If you like or love what you hear please take the time to rate us five stars on iTunes and leave a little review if you have time! If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: T42PodChat@gmail.com Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources: Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline: The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

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Today, Toks and El Hubbo are tardy. Toks blames "The Bachelorette". Today the two chat about Dog Days, being charitable and what to watch this summer! To follow Toks and/ or the podcast on social media head to @ToksOlagundoye on Twitter and/ or @tolykay on Instagram and find her on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye or check out her website at www.ToksOlagundoye.com To get tickets for "Dog Days" at theatre near you go to https://www.dogdaysthefilm.com/ To purchase the Adopt Love tee, which benefits the Petco Foundation please go to www.omaze.com/dogdays If you are in LA and want to see great theatre please go and see The Echo Theater's production of Molly Smith Metzler's "Cry It Out" at the Atwater Village Theater. It plays until August 19th. To get tickets go to www.echotheatercompany.com To check out Deity Jewels and Deity Animal Rescue go to https://deityjewels.squarespace.com/ Find Toks on: https://www.instagram.com/ToksOlagundoye https://twitter.com/ToksOlagundoye https://www.facebook.com/ToksOlagundoye/ Get/send a personal message (or join Toks's fan club on Cameo for exclusive content): https://www.cameo.com/toksolagundoye Get extra content and merch from by supporting the podcast on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Toksolagundoye Thanks for listening! If you like or love what you hear please take the time to rate us five stars on iTunes and leave a little review if you have time! If you have a question, comment or story get in touch and we will answer/ read it on the podcast: T42PodChat@gmail.com Life is hard, you're doing your best and are not alone. If you are looking for counseling or want to reach out for any kind of support please try one of the following resources: Psychology Today therapist finder: www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists • Talk Space: talkspace.com • Better Help: betterhelp.com • Or call one of these numbers to talk to someone about how you are feeling or to ask them to recommend resources: Dating Abuse and Domestic Violence hotline: Love Is Respect: 1-866-331-9474 (24/7) National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 (24/7) LGBTQ suicide hotline: The Trevor Project: 866-488-7386 (24/7) National Eating Disorder Association: 1-800-931-2237 (Mon-Thur 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (EST)) Crisis Text Line for everyone: Text SUPPORT to 741-741 24/7 help is available. National Alliance onMental Illness: 1-800-950-6264 (Mon- Fri 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.) Sexual Assault Hotline: Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network: 1-800-656-4673 (RAINN offers 24/7 help) Veterans Crisis Line Veterans Association: 1-800-273-8255 Visit www.suicide.org/suicide-hotlines.html for local phone numbers specific to your location.

8 Aug 201824min