Habitual Nutter with Flex Mami/Lillian Ahenkan
HABITUAL NUTTER This week Abbie is joined by Lillian Ahenkan akaFLEX MAMI!!!! Flex is an absolutely glorious human who has made critical thinking *cool* again with her card game REFLEX along with her incredible IG stories full of reddit threads, and her two podcasts (Bobo and Flex and Whatever I want). Flex and Abbie play REFLEX, asnwering a question each, then go on to answer a listener's question about her consistently lack lustre sex life (which inevitably leads the girls down a path comparing porn watching habits, duh.) They then chat about Flex's career, her journey with sexuality and how she got to the place that she is today and finish off with some quick fire questions from the podcast group! If you like It's A Lot, remember to rate and review on Apple Podcasts and share with a friend! You can find Flex at @flex.mami on Instagram, and all things Flex related can be found https://linktr.ee/flex.mami See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
7 Sep 20201h 35min
Lockdown Day 13: You Don't Need To Be In A Relationship
Abbie dissects a tweet that says the following: I'm the kind of girl that says I want a boyfriend but any time a guy tries to get to know me I'm like "nah not you"??? I'm the reason I'm fucking single". Lotsa issues but nothing we can examine! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
31 Aug 202015min
Lockdown Day 11: How To Deal With Slut Shaming From An Ex
Grrr!! This one is full of anger. A listener DMd Abbie a message asking how to deal with her D-Bag of an ex who is attempting to slut shame her. Gross. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29 Aug 202014min
Lockdown Day 10: Ghosting, Glugging And Girls
It's been a couple of days because Abbie needed a mental health break. Today Abbie rants about anti-vaxxers and conspiracy theorists in a very niche facebook group she is in. She gives advice on how to deal with being ghosted, how to just be "better" in bed (and how to deal with someone not being able to cum or get hard) and how to deal with being bisexual... even though she doesnt really know yet either. Here is the link to the Ask Abbie mentioned: https://www.popsugar.com.au/love/how-do-i-ask-for-what-i-really-want-in-bed-47723030 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28 Aug 202027min
Lockdown Day 6: Breaking A Dry Spell
Abbie talks about the anxiety of that first sexual encounter after a dry spell, and how to ease some of that anxiety! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24 Aug 20209min
Lockdown Day 4 & 5: Performative Actions Become Habits
Abbie had a break on Saturday so is giving you a 20 minute lockdown episode. She talks about femme men, performative actions that become habits and what that means for the body positivity movement being co-opted by thin white women (perhaps including herself) as well as the low down on going to therapy and finding a therapist for you! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23 Aug 202019min
Lockdown Day 3: Sexting And Nude Etiquette
Abbie has a laugh about a reply to a nude she received, then answers a question about sexting and sending nudes. Here is the link to Abbie's PopSugar article on sexting! https://www.popsugar.com.au/love/how-to-sext-someone-47331817 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21 Aug 202018min
Lockdown Day 2: Why WAP Is A Feminist Masterpiece
Abbie discusses WAP by Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion and all of the reasons why she loves the banger. If you don't agree, check your internalised misogyny. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20 Aug 202012min
