#420 Intimacy 2.0: Love and Dating in the Future

What are double penetration (DP) and vaginal fisting all about and why are people into it? Is it just something we see in porn or are people actually doing these things in real life? What are the do's and don'ts to having successful, pleasurable DP or fisting experiences? From toys to techniques to personal stories from wild experiences, repeat guest Rain DeGrey explains all this and so much more. About our guest: Rain DeGrey is an international educator, writer, presenter, podcaster and performer that has been writing articles and teaching classes focusing on kink, relationships, and sex education since 2009. After getting her start as a fetish model, Pro Domme, and competitive wrestler, she was motivated to branch out into education, something she is extremely passionate about. Demystifying sexuality and presenting in a clear humorous way are trademarks of her teaching style. She believes strongly in making sex education fun and engaging. To learn more visit raindegrey.com Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! We only have one spot left so sigh up ASAP here Other links: Get the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at aprilamy.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

1 Aug 20231h 16min

Breakups suck! How can I heal from a breakup or divorce without the breakup breaking me? What of my ex quickly moves on to some else? What is a "toxic relationship", and what are the signs someone might be in one? Why do so many people find themselves in toxic relationships? What if I know my relationship is not good for me? How can I exit a painful relationship and rebuild my self-worth after?  About our guest: Meleah is a certified trauma-informed relationship mentor, specializing in feminine embodiment, intimacy and cultivating healthy relationships. She is the founder of Radiant Relationship Academy, a mentorship program that has supported hundreds of women in attracting and sustaining healthy love. Meleah's work focuses on supporting women as they heal from past pain that impacts their love life, attracting and deepening healthy love, and developing the skills for a lasting, fulfilling relationship. Instagram: www.instagram.com/meleah_manning Website: www.sistersthatstray.com/rra Only one spot left! Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links from our awesome sponsors: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX15 at purepleasureshop.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless

25 Juli 20231h 19min

What are some of the reasons why soft cocks happen (in other words, why do they sometimes have difficulty getting hard)? When it comes to soft cocks, or sex in general, why is it important to expand our definition of sex? What are some of the ways and techniques for both self and partnered sex and pleasure with a soft cock? Michelle Renee, creator of Soft Cock Week discusses all this and more. Hurray for soft cocks! About our guest: Michelle Renee (she/her), is an intimacy guide based in San Diego, California, offering human connection ranging from platonic nurturing touch (as a professional cuddler) to surrogate partner therapy. She's been connecting with clients since 2015. Michelle is a co-founder of Embrace, a professional resource group for surrogate partners and collaborating clinicians. In 2022 she launched Soft Cock Week, a week of education, normalization, and celebration of the flaccid phallus. Her passion is working with clients with a history of trauma and supporting them in establishing safety in themselves and others. She’s also focused on bringing touch and talk professionals together so that we can learn from each other and elevate our industries. Learn more about Michelle at MeetMichelleRenee.com Get big discounts on sex toys and free online workshops by donating to our favorite cause, the Embrace Surrogate Partner Therapy Group. Donate now here: embracespt.org/gifts Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! We only have one spot left so sigh up ASAP here Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at www.calm.com/shameless Get the pleasure and heath benefits from pumping up your bits at aprilamy.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

18 Juli 20231h 6min

What is a Sex IQ, and how do I know what my sex IQ is? What are the 5 pillars of someone’s sex IQ, and how can people can apply them to have “smarter”, hotter sex? Why is "communication lubrication", "me time we time", and the brain our largest sex organ? Repeat guest, dear friend and Shameless Sex's number one podcast idol Dr. Emily Morse of the Sex With Emily podcast discusses all this and so much more. About our guest: Dr. Emily Morse is a doctor of human sexuality and the host of the award-winning #1 sexuality podcast, “Sex With Emily,” which has been on air for nearly two decades. She is a MasterClass instructor on sex and communication and was previously a radio host and executive producer on SiriusXM, and recently released her second book SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure. She has been profiled in The New York Times, Forbes, and Men’s Health and has been featured by The Today Show, Conan, Entertainment Tonight, Glamour, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, and elsewhere. Dr. Morse’s mission is to liberate the conversation about sex and pleasure. Her candid conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. She lives in California. To learn more go to sexwithemily.com Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links from our awesome sponsors: Get 20% off some of our absolute favorite sex toys by Fun Factory with code shameless at us.funfactory.com Get silky skin from some of our favorite adorable razors from Athena Club by visiting a Target store near you Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

11 Juli 20231h 8min

What is Urogynecology? Why does pelvic organ prolapse happen, how does this affect sex, and what are some of the options or procedures available? How does hormone optimization fit into this? If I have a hysterectomy will my sex drive be gone forever? What about penis-owner’s sexual health optimization? What can they do and what should they know ASAP? Dr. Castillo and Remy Paille NP answer all this and more. About our guests: Dr. Castillo is a Fellowship-trained Female Pelvic Medicine specialist. As founder and director of Swan Medical Intimate Wellness in Los Gatos, CA, he is dedicated to improving common quality of life conditions that affect millions of women. Dr Castillo completed his OB/GYN residency at St Barnabas Medical Center in NJ then went on to complete a three year Fellowship in Reconstructive Pelvic Surgery and Female Pelvic Medicine at the Cleveland Clinic Foundation. After 5 years of clinical practice at Kaiser Permanente where his duties involved overseeing resident research and education and teaching medical students as Assistant Clinical Professor of Stanford University, Dr Castillo created the first private Intimate Wellness Center in the San Francisco Bay Area. Dr Castillo is actively involved in clinical research and is on several women’s health advisory boards to help shape new emerging therapies and advanced treatment protocols that address commonly experienced conditions that occur as a consequence of childbirth, aging, and menopause that impact intimacy and quality of life. Dr Castillo aims to optimize health through root-cause treatments for the common symptoms associated with aging. He is committed to empowering women to embrace their vitality and erase the stigma of Female Sexual Health through educational events, seminars and compassionate care. Remy Paille is an Adult Gerontology Nurse Practitioner working alongside Dr. Castillo at Swan Medical Intimate Wellness in Los Gatos. Remy has years of experience working as a Primary Care Provider (PCP) as well as in acute care and integrative therapy related environments, and has a deep passion for Functional Medicine, as well as pelvic health and intimate wellness. To learn more visit swanmd.com To learn more about Layla Martin's coaching program click here or go to https://tinyurl.com/ShamelessSex To learn more about Midori's Forte Femme training go to fortefemme.com Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links from our awesome sponsors: Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Get silky skin from some of our favorite adorable razors from Athena Club by visiting a Target store near you Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

4 Juli 20231h 26min

We’re excited to introduce you to one of our favorite podcasts in the Pleasure Podcasts Network, called Multiamory. Multiamory explores the ins and outs of non-traditional relationships. Whether you're curious about polyamory, open relationships, or just want to approach your monogamous relationships more intentionally, the Multiamory Podcast has got you covered. This is a short clip from Multiamory episode 394: 50 Ways to Handle Jealousy. It's the beginning of a full 2-part discussion of 50 different personal tools and techniques for having a better relationship to jealousy. This clip just covers the first 4 tools but we hope it excites you to go checkout the full episodes, 394 and 395 of the Multiamory Podcast.

30 Juni 202319min

What is the most common sexual health issue that men/penis owners are experiencing or concerned with? What can go wrong if penis owners don’t acknowledge their (sexual) health problems and seek help? Why is searching for “my dick can’t get hard” or “lump in my balls” on the internet a problem? How can penis owners safely get good, accurate information online? How can they overcome cock-related health shame or embarrassment when it comes to addressing their sexual health concerns? And what advice do you have for partners or loved ones who want to support men in dealing with sexual health stigmas? About our guests: Dr. Kevin Chu grew up in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania and attended the University of California - Berkeley for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at New York Medical College and his urology residency training and fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at the University of Miami. Currently, Dr. Chu is a private practice, men’s health specialist in Los Angeles. He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health and is the current co-host of the men’s health podcast Man Up: A Doctor’s Guide to Men’s Health. Dr. Justin Dubin grew up in Wayne NJ and attended Johns Hopkins University for undergraduate school. He completed medical school at Rutgers Robert Wood Johnson and his urology residency training at the University of Miami. Currently, Dr. Dubin is completing his fellowship in Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine at Northwestern University and will be starting up as the Director of Men’s Health at Memorial Health Systems in Hollywood Florida. Dr. Dubin is passionate about men’s health and education with the goal of improving both the lives of men and their partners. He has published multiple papers on both male infertility and sexual health, has been quoted in the NY Times, USA TODAY, Insider, and Men’s Health and is the current co-host of the men’s health podcast Man Up: A Doctor’s Guide to Men’s Health. To learn more go to themanuppod.com Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links: Start meditating now with 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at www.calm.com/shameless Turbo charge your sex life and beyond AND get 15% off and other freebies with code SHAMELESS by going to Viiahemp.com Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at  OMGyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

27 Juni 20231h 24min

What are some of the best ways to up my handjob skills? What about blowjobs? How can I conquer the cock with my mouth? How does pleasuring the taint and balls come into the mix? Any differences between hand jobs on circumcised vs uncircumcised cocks? And how can I learn about how my partner likes to be pleasured? Dr. Sadie Allison aka the Penis Genius answers all this and more. About our guest: Dr. Sadie Allison is founder of Tickle Kitty Inc., a sexologist, sex educator and bestselling author going on two decades now. She is also known as “America’s Pleasure Coach” and her mission is to empower others to embrace a deeper enjoyment of their sexuality through education, inspiration and honest, straight-talk advice. Her 6 award-winning, illustrated sex books include: Tickle His Pickle, Ride ‘Em Cowgirl!, Tickle Your Fancy, Tickle My Tush, Toygasms! and The Mystery of the Undercover Clitoris. Each has won the coveted IPPY Best Sexuality Book award and together they’ve sold 2 Million copies. To accompany her sex-technique books, Sadie also created a female body-safe personal lubricant, Slippery Kitty. Tickle Kitty books can be found at Barnes & Noble, Amazon, thousands of sex toy shops and at TickleKitty.com, the company’s upscale sex toy boutique. Digital eBook versions are also available for Kindle and all major eBook platforms. For over two decades, Dr. Sadie has been empowering others to embrace a deeper enjoyment of their sexuality through education, inspiration and honest, straight-talk advice. Her friendly, open persona lands her frequent guest spots on TV and radio, including FOX, Discovery Health, E!, Howard Stern and Loveline. She’s a sought-after speaker, and often quoted in Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, Men’s Health, WebMD and Healthline. In 2013, Dr. Sadie delivered a prestigious TEDx talk, Fearless Giving. Dr. Sadie's newest venture involves launching the CBD sexual wellness brand, GoLove CBD Serum, creating the FIRST doctor-formulated, science-based water-based serum with 200mg of organic CBD. GoLove is widely popular with women who experience painful sex (dyspareunia) as CBD’s properties can reduce inflammation and pain, calm the anxious mind, relax pelvic muscles and increase sensation and pleasure. Dr. Sadie holds degree in French, a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and is a member of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors (AASECT), the International Pelvic pain Society (IPPS) and the Entrepreneurs' Organization (EO), a dynamic, global, invitation-only membership organization.For more information visit: TickleKitty.com GoLoveCBD.com. AND you get 15% OFF your purchases with code SHAMELESSSEX! IG @drsadieallison @golovecbd @ticklekitty Other links: Join us November 1st-6th, 2023 for The Shameless Sex Retreat: Unleash Your Shameless Self - in Costa Rica! Spaces are limited to reserve your spot ASAP here Other links: Get 20% off some of our absolute favorite sex toys by Fun Factory with code shameless at us.funfactory.com Get 7 days free + 25% off your subscription to our new favorite relationship app at paired.com/shameless Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS10 on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get 10% off while mastering the art of pleasure at omgyes.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com

20 Juni 20231h 16min