The Anxious To Secure PODCAST27 Feb 2025

27: How to Heal your 🖤 Anxious Attachment style (FAST) - Part 2

🖤 How to HEAL Your Anxious Attachment Style (PART 2) | From Anxious to Secure Attachment

You loved Part 1 SO much (our most downloaded episode ever!) and I know you've been waiting for this one...

In this episode, I'm sharing:

The ONE shift that stops the anxiety spiral ✨
Why it's so hard to stop depending on others (and what actually works)
How your brain can literally rewire for security
3 real habits that changed everything for me 🖤

Plus: The eye-opening moment in my tiny London apartment that made me realize why focusing on my partner was keeping me stuck

This one's for you if:

You're anxiously attached and over it
You can't feel okay unless they're okay
You want real change, not just band-aids
You're ready to choose yourself 🤍

Plus: My story about finally understanding my anxious attachment (and what changed everything)

If you're ready to stop feeling anxious and start feeling secure, this one's for you 🤍

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Chapters:

00:00 How to Heal Your Anxious Attachment Style (FAST) Part 2 00:27 How I healed my Anxious Attachment Style 5 Years Ago 00:56 The One Focus Area for Shifting Your Attachment Style: From Them to You 01:36 How long does it take to Heal Your Anxious Attachment Style? 02:50 The One Focus Area for Shifting Your Attachment Style: From Them to You 06:06 How to DETACH emotionally and WHY it's SO HARD 08:53 Why Repetition and Emotion Are the Key to Shifting Your Attachment Style 15:39 The One Focus Area for Shifting Your Attachment Style: From Them to You 18:16 Building 3 Habits for Secure Attachment 22:48 Thought habits 22:50 Transforming Thoughts and Emotions 24:36 Emotional Habit: Process Your Emotions ⚡ 26:37 Action Habit: Set Boundaries and Express Yourself 🌈 29:25 Final Words

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