We’re Giving Up Performative Sex

We’re Giving Up Performative Sex

We all experience performance anxiety in bed from time to time. We get in our heads, we worry we’re not hot / good / skilled enough, and sometimes we try to be people we’re not during sex. That’s why today’s episode is about identifying different types of performance anxiety, so that we can show up more confident and relaxed for sex. First I talk through O-blockers: common reasons your orgasm and overall pleasure hit a limit. Next I bring up popular “personas” people adopt in bed, like the cool girl/guy who’s down for whatever (even when you’re actually not) and the super dominant, in-charge lover (even when you’re actually more submissive). Finally, I give you strategies to increase your sexual confidence and take all of your sexual anxiety questions. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why performative sex is killing your pleasure—and how to stop. How to ditch “porn mode” and tap into real turn-ons. The secret to being fully present (and having better orgasms). Show Notes: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code SWE. Buy The Smart Sex New Paperback Cover Now! Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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SWE: Flirting for Dummies

SWE: Flirting for Dummies

Emily and Menace both have sex in the same weekend, but with different people of course. Menace has sex in the shower and the girl didn’t faint this time. A recipe for “panty droppers” a drink that might be true to it’s name,  flirting techniques and the sacred duties of the wingman. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

19 Mars 201238min

SWE: CAT position & doggie style

SWE: CAT position & doggie style

Emily shares the biggest sexting mistakes guy makes and whether you are a doggie style person or a CAT person. CAT position is all about clitoral stimulation in Missionary Position, whereas doggie style is more rough and animalistic. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

16 Mars 20121h 1min

SWE: Steak and Blowjob Day

SWE: Steak and Blowjob Day

It’s BJ & Steak Day. The holiday where women around America give their boyfriends oral sex while making steak at the same time. The holiday was created by angry men in reaction to V-Day, a holiday supposedly for women. Why the backlash guys?Also, oral sex tips, why enthusiasm trumps technique and humming on the hole. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

14 Mars 201224min

SWE: Sex, Intimacy and Orgasm

SWE: Sex, Intimacy and Orgasm

Emily and Menace get wet over the Container Store, guest Wendy Strgar talks love and intimacy, everybody poops...and everybody snoops, Dick Van Dyke is alive and still getting laid, how far you should go to please your partner, and using lubricant with someone you love. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

12 Mars 201237min

SWE: Sex Etiquette

SWE: Sex Etiquette

Emily shows women around the world how to prevent lipstick on the teeth and the best way to tell someone they have something on their face during a first date. Also, never prematurely “babe” someone on a date. Emily teaches male ejaculation etiquette, including keeping her in the loop on  your ejaculation plan. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

9 Mars 20121h 1min

SWE: Prostate Play

SWE: Prostate Play

Emily interviews Charlie Glickman from Good Vibrations who teaches listeners all about the prostate, from finding it to how to treat it. Many straight men don’t realize the untapped pleasure of the  prostate, or the male G-spot.In other news, Christina Hendrick's boobs and the end of the “Great Hand Job debate” might be in sight. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

7 Mars 201242min

SWE: Bringing Sexy Back

SWE: Bringing Sexy Back

Emily talks about self-esteem, its effects on your sex life, and how to get your game face on. Earthquakes, sexy shoes, ruining sex for others, enjoying masturbation more than intercourse, and Emily flirts with her exes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

5 Mars 201237min

SWE: Just the Tip

SWE: Just the Tip

Emily discusses all things oral sex, from consummation to cleanup. A show that’s so much more than “just the tip.”Also, couple massages, sleeping with your yoga teacher, birth control for men, and stuff you should never tell someone you’re dating. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

2 Mars 20121h 1min

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