We’re Giving Up Performative Sex

We’re Giving Up Performative Sex

We all experience performance anxiety in bed from time to time. We get in our heads, we worry we’re not hot / good / skilled enough, and sometimes we try to be people we’re not during sex. That’s why today’s episode is about identifying different types of performance anxiety, so that we can show up more confident and relaxed for sex. First I talk through O-blockers: common reasons your orgasm and overall pleasure hit a limit. Next I bring up popular “personas” people adopt in bed, like the cool girl/guy who’s down for whatever (even when you’re actually not) and the super dominant, in-charge lover (even when you’re actually more submissive). Finally, I give you strategies to increase your sexual confidence and take all of your sexual anxiety questions. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why performative sex is killing your pleasure—and how to stop. How to ditch “porn mode” and tap into real turn-ons. The secret to being fully present (and having better orgasms). Show Notes: For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 off your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code SWE. Buy The Smart Sex New Paperback Cover Now! Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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SWE: Divorced Dating Tips

SWE: Divorced Dating Tips

Emily has a sexual dream about 80-year-old Oscar winner Christopher Plummer. Menace goes to Disneyland again and drunk dials Emily's assistant. Emily talks about America’s pubic hair trends and how to start dating after a divorce. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 Feb 201245min

SWE: American Gangbang

SWE: American Gangbang

Emily interviews formerporn director Sam Benjamin talks about his new book American Gangbang: A Love Story. He describes what’s its like sleeping with porn stars, directing amateur porn, and the golden shower rule. Also, if he directed Emily’s dream porno it would involve a cop. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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SWE: Breaking Bad (Relationships)

SWE: Breaking Bad (Relationships)

People get into the same bad relationships over and over again. Emily talks about how it’s important to recognize your patterns, whether you fall for the bad boy or a momma’s boy. Also, how not to appear needy but still tell someone what you want. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

22 Feb 201242min

SWE: Beating around the Bush

SWE: Beating around the Bush

Emily discusses pubic grooming, the 70's porn bush, and two-toned pubes. Cosmo has a curious take on manscaping, and Emily journeys into a brave new world of butthole bleaching and vajazzling. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

21 Feb 201247min

SWE: Do's and Don'ts

SWE: Do's and Don'ts

Today Emily lays out the do's and dont's of sex and relationships, and states definitively that penis size doesn't matter... well, sometimes... Going after married men, not letting your man know how much you love your vibrator and Menace declares his undying hatred for feet. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

15 Feb 201234min

SWE: V-Day & Night

SWE: V-Day & Night

Emily and Menace discuss all things Valentine's - from self-love to better oral sex, to where not to get your gifts wrapped. A listener is still stumped about where to find porn, and Emily has a profound love for Red Lobster. Plus, learn how to finally achieve an orgasm, how to break up on Valentine's Day, and be aghast but not really that surprised when Menace reveals what everyone asks him about Emily. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

14 Feb 201248min

SWE: Vibrating Valentine

SWE: Vibrating Valentine

Emily lives in a hoarder’s house of sex toys and needs help. Emily also talks about Being predictable in bed, “Baby Daddy” mysteries, penis pumps, and hanging nude self-portraits in your house. Jimmyjane founder Ethan Imboden talks about Valentine's Day gift ideas and how to introduce a vibrator into your relationship. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10 Feb 20121h

SWE: Date me Online

SWE: Date me Online

okCupid founder Sam Yagen shares online dating profile secrets, Louis Vuitton condoms, breaking up with someone on their birthday, the Don Drapers of the world have low sperm counts, icy hot for your clitoris, is bad sex a good reason to get a divorce? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

9 Feb 201248min

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