147: Breaking Free from the Nice Guy Syndrome: A Conversation with Dr. Robert Glover

147: Breaking Free from the Nice Guy Syndrome: A Conversation with Dr. Robert Glover

In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host and guest Dr. Robert Glover delve into the complexities of male identity, the challenges of Nice Guy Syndrome, and the importance of community in personal growth. Dr. Glover shares his journey from being a 'nice guy' to understanding the deeper issues that men face in relationships and personal development. He emphasizes the need for men to embrace vulnerability, establish boundaries, and seek support from like-minded individuals. The conversation highlights the ongoing nature of self-improvement and the significance of authentic connections in overcoming personal struggles. In this conversation, Dr. Robert Glover discusses the importance of male connection and community, emphasizing how men's groups and retreats can transform lives. He explores the concept of boundaries, reframing them as tools for leadership and deeper relationships. Through personal anecdotes and insights, he highlights the necessity of experiencing community and the profound impact it can have on personal development and emotional health. Dr. Glover also shares a life-changing near-death experience that reshaped his perspective on life and fear.

Takeaways

  • The journey of self-improvement is ongoing and never truly finished.
  • Nice Guy Syndrome often stems from early life experiences and emotional memories.
  • Men need to learn to be vulnerable and open about their feelings.
  • Establishing boundaries is crucial for personal growth and healthy relationships.
  • Community support plays a vital role in overcoming personal challenges.
  • Men often overcorrect from being 'nice' to being overly assertive or selfish.
  • Authenticity is key to building trust in relationships.
  • Self-sacrificing behaviors can lead to decreased relationship satisfaction.
  • It's important to recognize and address emotional triggers in relationships.
  • Men benefit from learning in a supportive group environment. Men need connections to learn from their experiences.
  • The community can provide support and accountability.
  • Experiencing a men's group can be transformative.
  • Boundaries are about self-empowerment, not control.
  • The 'ouch' method helps communicate feelings effectively.
  • Healthy boundaries invite deeper relationships.
  • Men are wired to be part of a tribe.
  • A near-death experience can change your outlook on life.
  • Setting boundaries can lead to healthier interactions.
  • Men's retreats offer invaluable experiences for growth.

Glover' s Links

Website: drglover.com

Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy: No More Mr. Nice Guy

Dating Essentials for Men: Dating Essentials for Men

Social Media:

X: dr_r_glover

Facebook: drrobertglover

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77: Investing in Yourself, Your Family, Your Business Ideas, & Real Estate with AJ Asgari

77: Investing in Yourself, Your Family, Your Business Ideas, & Real Estate with AJ Asgari

In this episode of The Modern Man, I welcome AJ Asgari, a pharmacist, entrepreneur, real estate investor, husband, father, and CEO and founder of Drugstore2Door. Today, AJ and I talk about the greatest lessons he’s learned about becoming an entrepreneur, investing in real estate (and yourself), and navigating business growth as a family man.   AJ shines a light on what you need to do to turn your ideas into a successful business, find and keep momentum in your entrepreneurial pursuits, and balance your side hustle with quality family time. He also shares the challenges he had to overcome while transitioning through multiple different industries as a rising entrepreneur.   If you’re looking to start investing your money wisely, turn your knowledge into results, or finally take action on your big ideas, tune in (and then share with a friend!) because AJ is giving advice you need to hear. Let’s grow!   “I could always go for faster, but it was an accumulation of 15 years prior to starting this tech company that led us to nailing a real problem, creating a solution, and then getting our hands really dirty in building it out.” – AJ Asgari   Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn: [00:54] About AJ Asgari. [03:11] From fat kid to pharmacist: How AJ realized he could be something more. [06:51] Applied knowledge = results. [12:28] The challenges of transitioning through different industries as an entrepreneur. [19:18] How to start investing in real estate, even while you’re in debt. [22:20] Investing/entrepreneurship advice for risk-averse people and family men. [32:24] About AJ’s mission: Making healthcare accessible. [38:00] How to connect with AJ Asgari. [39:09] As a man, what has shaped your view of the world?   “Try to make most of your days fun or happy or light because you don’t know when your last one’s gonna be. So, no matter how big the problem, how big the challenge, how down and out you feel, you’re not here long so it’ll pass.” – AJ Asgari   If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify!   Resources Mentioned: Join The Noble Knights: https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights   Connect with AJ Asgari: Visit his website: https://ajasgari.com Follow him on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ajasgari Follow him on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ajasgari Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/a-j-asgari-a4693a69 Connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/arrash.asgari Subscribe to his YouTube channel:https://www.youtube.com/@drugstore2door21   Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820 Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg

15 Nov 202345min

How to Develop a Growth Mindset | The Power of Personal Growth and Self-Improvement

How to Develop a Growth Mindset | The Power of Personal Growth and Self-Improvement

📖 Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine - https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/MI8IYd7wpmYAsDAcqiMW 📖 🔥 Hey there, gents! 👋 In this episode, we’re diving into the world of mindset – a topic that defines a man’s journey. 💪 Develop a growth mindset, challenge biases, and embrace opportunities. Failure is your path to success; seek challenges and learn to level up. Anyone can choose this mindset; it’s all about making the choice. 🚀 Ready to master the art of grit, unlock personal growth, and embrace self-improvement? Hit like, subscribe, and let’s embark on this journey together! 🎉 🔑 Share this video with fellow your fellow man and join our community. Stay tuned for more content to become the best version of yourself. Let’s keep raising the bar, gentlemen! 💼🔥 #GrowthMindset #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #MasteringGrit #MindsetMatters #LevelUp #SelfDevelopment #TheModernMan 📖 Free eBook Here: [Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine - https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/MI8IYd7wpmYAsDAcqiMW 📖 ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com/ Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernman Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast/ Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg

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76: Dismantling Victim Mentality, Imposter Syndrome, & Other Unhealthy Mindsets with Mark England

76: Dismantling Victim Mentality, Imposter Syndrome, & Other Unhealthy Mindsets with Mark England

In this episode of The Modern Man, I’m joined by Mark England, TEDx Speaker and Co-Founder and Head Coach of Enlifted, a coaching company that trains and empowers world-class coaches. Mark and I are talking about how our words and stories powerfully influence our personal and professional development, for better and for worse. We discuss how to get out of the victim mentality, break out of imposter syndrome, and change your unhealthy mindsets for good.   Mark highlights the power of storytelling and how your words create stories (mindsets) that influence all aspects of life, from how fulfilled you feel in your career to the relationships you have with people.   If you want to use your words to create better stories so you can stay focused, eliminate the drama in your life, unlock your inner power, and feel like a true Modern Man instead of an imposter, this one’s for you.   “The thing that makes or breaks people on the path is the story they tell themselves while they’re on the path, also known as their mindset, and if you put your words together in a certain way, you’re going to make this shit way harder.” – Mark England   Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn: [00:57] About Mark England & his mission. [07:43] Victim mentality, why your breath so important, & The 30/50/80 Rule. [15:29] How to change your mindset (the stories you tell yourself). [18:20] What keeps people in the victim mentality? [21:53] What happens to your relationships when you get out of the victim mentality. [25:17] How breath control leads to radical mindset shifts. [29:16] Implementing mindset changes on a daily basis + The “Soft Talk” Challenge. [36:31] The power of abracadabra. [44:38] How to connect with Mark England & Get Enlifted. [46:58] As a man, what has shaped your view of the world?   “When we learn to think about our thinking, we become alive in a new way.” – Alan Watts   If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify!   Resources Mentioned: Join The Noble Knights: https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights   Connect with Mark England & Enlifted: Visit his website: https://enlifted.me Follow Enlifted on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enliftedcoaches   Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820 Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg

8 Nov 202354min

Building the Foundation of Self Development: Unleashing Your Potential

Building the Foundation of Self Development: Unleashing Your Potential

🚀 What’s up, Knights!⚔️ Today we’re diving deep into the world of self-development and unlocking your full potential! 🌟 In this video, I’ll walk you through the essential building blocks of self-improvement, while giving you actionable tips and insights that will set you on a path to becoming the best version of yourself. 📚💪 ✨ I’ll also give you a sneak peek into our upcoming episodes, where we’ll cover the elements and principles that set the foundation for self-development 🔥 I’ll share resources for men on harnessing masculine energy, maintaining a strong masculine frame, and adopting high-value habits. 🔑 Don’t miss out on the chance to supercharge your journey of self-development and personal growth. Hit that subscribe button, turn on notifications, and let’s embark on this exciting quest together! 🚀💼 Hop into today’s video and take that next step today! 🙌💯 #SelfImprovement #PersonalDevelopment #LevelUp #Motivation #HighValueLife #UnlockYourPotential #WayOfTheSuperiorMan 📖 Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/MI8IYd7wpmYAsDAcqiMW 📖 ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com/ Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernman Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast/ Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg

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075:  Becoming a Man With Purpose: How to Live & Grow Through Purposeful Action with Alain Dumonceaux

075: Becoming a Man With Purpose: How to Live & Grow Through Purposeful Action with Alain Dumonceaux

In this episode of The Modern Man, we’re joined by Alain Dumonceaux, a Purposeful Action (Men)tor, Host of The Revolutionary Man Podcast, and Founder of The Awakened Man movement. Alain shares incredible insights on becoming a man with purpose and what it means to grow through purposeful action.   As men, we often struggle to find that safe space where we can be vulnerable, share what’s on our minds and hearts, and free ourselves from shame and blame. That’s why Alain developed The Awakened Man and what drove him to start doing this powerful, introspective work.   Listen in to gain actionable advice on what to do if you feel lost in life, if you’re not sure how to fill up your cup, or if you want to get aligned with your values and lead a purposeful life each and every day.   Purposeful action is all about following the intentions you set for your day. Are you following your intentions? As Alain says, when you have purpose behind you, you have reason to be.   “There’s so many different ways of approaching how to do men’s work… and there’s so many of us out here, trying to do our piece to raise the level that we show up as husbands and fathers and leaders in our communities.” – Alain Dumonceaux   Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn: [00:55] About Alain Dumonceaux and the purpose behind The Awakened Man. [04:45] Why is it hard for men to find deep connections and relationships? [10:49] What are modern men lacking? What should we be filling our cups with? [15:45] Feeling lost, unsure of what your next step is? Here’s what to do… [19:01] What does purposeful action look like in daily practice? [20:43] Why is it so important for men to have a purpose? [22:09] Alain’s biggest advice for young men. [24:38] 3 Ways to Learn: Reflection, Imitation, and Experience [26:30] How to connect with Alain Dumonceaux & Book a Clarity Consultation. [27:28] As a man, what has shaped your view of the world?   “When we recognize we can get in alignment with our values, it’s a huge step forward in progress.” Alain Dumonceaux   If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify!   Resources Mentioned: Join The Noble Knights: https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights Listen to The Revolutionary Man Podcast with Alain Dumonceaux: https://www.theawakenedman.net/therevolutionarymanpodcast   Connect with Alain Dumonceaux: Visit his website: https://www.theawakenedman.net Connect with him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theawakenedman.net Follow him on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theawakenedman2020 Subscribe to his YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg8DCH78anx-r7KZEU8Eclw   Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820 Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg

1 Nov 202332min

The Foundation of Motivation: Your Inner Drive for Success

The Foundation of Motivation: Your Inner Drive for Success

⚔️ Hey, knights! ⚔️ Ever wondered what truly motivates us? 🤔 🎥In this video, I’m peeling back the layers of motivation and laying down the foundation for your journey to success. We’ll revisit some key concepts, including Ikigai, Autonomy, Mastery, and Purpose, and I’ll share some top-notch resources to supercharge your motivation. ➕Plus, stay tuned for the next section on self-development, where we’ll boost our abilities and seize every opportunity that comes our way. 🚀If you’re ready to unlock your inner drive and lead your best life, hit that like button, subscribe, and turn on notifications. And hey, don’t forget to snag your free eBook! Let’s dive in! 💪📚 📖 Free eBook Here -Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/MI8IYd7wpmYAsDAcqiMW ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com/ Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernman Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast/ Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@TheModernManPodcast #MotivationMatters #SuccessFoundation #SelfDevelopment #UnlockYourDrive #TheModernMan

30 Okt 20235min

074: Rising From Rock Bottom & Pushing Through the Highs and Lows of Entrepreneurship with Don McLaughlin

074: Rising From Rock Bottom & Pushing Through the Highs and Lows of Entrepreneurship with Don McLaughlin

In this episode of The Modern Man, I welcome Don McLaughlin, a father of 3, recovering lawyer, best-selling author, ultra-endurance athlete, CEO coach, and Founder of Pure Power Botanicals. Today, Don and I talk about his rock bottom moment and the changes that came soon after it, highlighting the grit and grace it takes to pivot in life and in business.   Don talks about the highs and lows of being a successful entrepreneur, how to use painful experiences as catalysts for growth, and his favorite tips and tools for boosting mental and emotional wellness while rising up from rock bottom. He emphasizes the power of radical self-acceptance and self-love, accepting your past so you can embrace your future, plus the benefits he’s seen from ultra-endurance running.   “As men, we’ve got to look for ways to test ourselves… Historically, we were tested just surviving and so much of that survival has been taken care of for us. I think we’ve got to recognize there’s a price to that comfort and convenience and pleasure. It robs us of our own strength and inner force.” – Don McLaughlin   Remember, there’s no shortcut to success.   Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn: [00:45] About Don McLaughlin. [04:32] The peaks and valleys of entrepreneurship. [12:05] What are the costs of high-level success? [16:35] Climbing up from rock bottom: Helpful tips for mental and emotional health. [27:41] How hemp and CBD can benefit mental and physical health, especially in athletes. [37:34] Easy ways to intake CBD. [41:57] How to connect with Don McLaughlin. [43:45] As a man, what has shaped your view of the world?   If you enjoyed this episode, please SHARE it with a friend, then RATE/REVIEW The Modern Man on Apple Podcasts or Spotify!   Resources Mentioned: Join The Noble Knights: https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself by Dr. Joe Dispenza:https://bit.ly/3ZVqaaP Born to Run by Christopher McDougall: https://www.chrismcdougall.com/born-to-run Finding Ultra by Rich Roll: https://www.richroll.com/finding-ultra The Rich Roll Podcast: https://www.richroll.com/all-episodes Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach: https://www.tarabrach.com/books/radical-acceptance Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It by Kamal Ravikant: https://bit.ly/3ZUAik4   Connect with Don McLaughlin: Visit his website: https://livepurepower.com Follow him on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/donmclaughlinjr Connect with him on Facebook: https://facebook.com/rango.don.92 Buy Don’s book, Plant, Performance and the Endocannabinoid System: 21st Century Sports Medicine by Don McLaughlin: https://amzn.to/3p53Cqg Get coaching from The Dream Exit Collective: https://www.thedreamexit.com   Connect with The Modern Man: Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/244885633101820 Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnyA3-wtyv7xVqUbPyB0eOg

25 Okt 202350min

Your Life’s Purpose: Thoughts for Men on Purpose

Your Life’s Purpose: Thoughts for Men on Purpose

⚔️Hey Knights! Ever wondered if you’re on the right path in life? 🤔 Me too! In this video, we’re diving into the art of finding your purpose, complete with some practical "how-to’s" on how to find it. 🌟 🧭 Let’s navigate the benefits and strategies of finding life’s purpose and figure out how we can live life to the fullest. 🌍 Join me in today’s Monday modern moment and let’s discover our purpose together, and maybe, just maybe, redefine our lives in the process. 🚀💪 ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernman.gumroad.com/l/NobleKnights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: https://themodernmanshow.com/ Join our Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/themodernman Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themodernmanpodcast/ Subscribe to our YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/ @TheModernManPodcast

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