95: How to Stop Delaying the Changes You Want to Make

95: How to Stop Delaying the Changes You Want to Make

In this episode of Talk Tovey To Me, we’re unpacking the common yet self-defeating habit of waiting for a major setback—whether it’s a breakup, burnout, or financial stress—to finally take action in our lives and businesses. Why do we postpone change until we have no other choice? And more importantly, how can we break that cycle?


We dive into the psychology behind this mindset, exploring how fear of discomfort, loss aversion, and self-doubt keep us from proactively pursuing growth. Meg shares an eye-opening ChatGPT revelation about her own blind spots, Jess reflects on overcoming perfectionism in business, and we discuss the power of self-awareness in making decisions from a place of intention rather than reaction.


If you're ready to take ownership of your growth—before life forces you to—this episode will challenge and inspire you to take action now.


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Chapters:

  • 00:00 - Introduction

  • 03:15 - Navigating Life’s Uncertainties: Meg’s Cyclone Experience

  • 07:30 - ChatGPT’s Insights on Blind Spots & Personal Growth

  • 12:42 - The Psychology of Avoiding Change: Fear, Comfort, & Control

  • 17:18 - How Pain Becomes a Motivator for Action

  • 22:07 - The “I Don’t Have Time” Myth & What It Really Means

  • 27:54 - Fear of Success vs. Fear of Failure—What’s Holding You Back?

  • 33:30 - Identity & Self-Concept: The Silent Barriers to Growth

  • 38:12 - Moving from Reaction to Intention: How to Take Action Now

  • 43:05 - Final Thoughts


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