The Divorce Course Podcast2 Apr 2025

Are You a Victim of FINANCIAL Abuse? Signs You Shouldn't Ignore & What the New Laws Might Mean for You

Are you? Learn about the signs of economic or financial abuse, hear some real-life examples of how economic abuse manifests in relationships and practical steps you can take to protect yourself and your financial future. Find out how it is legally recognized under the Australian Family Law Amendment Act 2024, and why it's considered a form of coercive control. Also find out about the new laws effective from June 2025 and how they impact property settlements and financial disputes.

🚨 Trigger Warning: This episode discusses economic abuse and coercive control, which may be distressing for some listeners. If you need support, please contact 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732) or Lifeline for confidential advice and assistance.

🎧 Listen to This Episode If You:

✅ Feel like your partner controls your money or financial decisions
❓ Have been told you're "bad with money" or pressured into signing financial documents
💡 Are worried that financial abuse is continuing after separation
🛡 Want to understand how the new legal changes address economic abuse
📚 Need advice on documenting financial control and seeking help
💔 Are experiencing financial stress during or after separation

DISCLAIMER: THIS IS NOT LEGAL ADVICE just a discussion about Australian Family Law and Divorce or DeFacto Separation.

Key Topics Discussed in This Episode:

What is Economic and Financial Abuse?
Signs and Red Flags of Economic Abuse
How Economic Abuse Is a Form of Coercive Control
Legal Changes: Economic Abuse Recognized as Family Violence
Impact on Property Settlements and Financial Outcomes
How to Protect Yourself from Economic and Financial Abuse
Support Services and Resources for Victims

📌 Links & Resources Mentioned:

🔗 1800 RESPECT – Support for family and domestic violence:

Website: 1800respect.org.au
Phone: 1800 737 732

🔗 National Debt Helpline – Financial counselling and support:

Website: ndh.org.au
Phone: 1800 007 007

🔗 Men's Referral Service – Support for men using or experiencing violence:

Website: mrs.org.au
Phone: 1800 943 539

🔗 Understanding Coercive Control – Australian Government Resource:

Website: Australian Government Resource on Coercive Control

🎙️ Related Episodes:

Recognizing Coercive Control: How to Protect Yourself https://open.spotify.com/episode/12jgZw1IwIFLK5oPlp0its?si=CvxdW85YRJ6e9pX1katgPQ
Navigating Financial Disclosure in Family Court https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/disclosurechecklist
Understanding Emotional Abuse: Signs, Impact, and Recovery https://open.spotify.com/episode/2bSCQ3JdcU4xxW7D4LJUxG?si=ujMpXOD8QzeLbeA_rlC4Ew
How to Tell Your Story and Communicate Coercive Control in Your Documents https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Ci0M4DqznBf1L1kcZM3vY?si=rO-DnFixQqKTPMCbkpe3jA

⚠️ Emergency Contacts & Support Services:

💜 Women's Shelter Service: Call 1800 811 811
⚖️ Legal Aid: Visit Legal Aid Website
📞 Lifeline (24/7 Crisis Support): Call 13 11 14
👨‍👦 Mensline Australia: Call 1300 789 978
👧 Kids Help Line: Call 1800 551 800
🚨 National Domestic Violence Hotline (1800 RESPECT): Call 1800 737 732
🖤 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: Call 1800 019 123

⏳ Episode Timeline:

00:00 Introduction to Economic Abuse

00:24 Recognizing the Signs of Economic Abuse

01:09 Trigger Warning and Support Resources

01:57 Understanding Economic Abuse in Family Law

02:28 Examples of Economic Abuse

04:23 Subtle Forms of Financial Control

12:12 Post-Separation Financial Abuse

15:25 Questions to Identify Financial Abuse

21:30 Coercive Control and Financial Dependence

24:29 Understanding Coercive Control and Financial Abuse

25:34 Real-Life Examples of Financial Abuse

27:06 Legal Definitions and Changes in Family Law

30:37 Proving Financial Abuse in Court

32:03 Steps to Escape Financial Abuse

40:39 Support and Resources for Victims

42:53 Encouragement and Final Thoughts

Are You a Victim of FINANCIAL Abuse? Signs You Shouldn't Ignore & What the New Laws Might Mean for You

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