Ep 110: How to Have Better Sex Tips for Sex Mens Health, Women, and Couples

Ep 115: Miss Lola Bastinado, Media Personality, Sexpert Sex Educator, Sex and Relationship Advice Columnist, Radio Show Co-host, alternative lifestyle advocate, Businesswoman. Listen to this amazing, fun, exciting, entertaining interview I had with Lola Bastinado! We had such a fun chat! We discussed how she got her start in her career, and ironically to me as an erotica author myself, she got her start by being a ghostwriter for erotica and kink sites. She moved into giving sex and relationship advice. She focuses on shedding light and education on the LGTBQ+ and alternative lifestyles and kinks, fetishes, etc. We talked about how best to spread one's content as one who is a sexual content creator. She asked me questions! That was fun for me to have my guest question me! We also broached the topics of how hot VR porn is with an Oculus, the power of social media platforms and publishing to get our content out to the world as creators, and being a businesswoman owner. And oh, yeah, a woman, CEO of a man. Want to know what I mean? Listen to us chat about that, sex, everyone's needs/desires, her radio shows (including one highlighting indie musicians woohoo!), and more! Have a listen! And join in our fun! To connect with Lola Bastinado: https://www.lolabastinado.com/ Lola on Twitter: http://twitter.com/bastinado_lola Radio The Midday Grind on 95 FM with  music producer Sedeck Jean: http://twitter.com/TheMiddayGrind Instagram: http://instagram.com/lolabastinado All my links at https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Join Ruan on Medium! She's now posting erotic stories there. Affiliate referral: https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/membership Ruan's new book: DEBUT of Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains explicit lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link to book  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 Ruan's other books: all links are universal affiliate links worldwide. Ruan's Cabin Getaway: A MILF age gap story where Ruan and her love meet at a cabin for a fuck fest weekend: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1d745b60-73c9-11ec-b8a2-73116e75cbb3 The Mardi Gras Unmasking: a newly married couple experiments with the Dom/sub lifestyle and multiple partner sex. Read about their sexy night, an experiment in fulfilling her fantasy.  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1d745b60-73c9-11ec-b8a2-73116e75cbb3 Hello, I'm Ruan! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy for adults only,  and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

28 Jan 202254min

Ep 114: Getting Head at Work Erotic Story.  Oral sex at work is a deliciously naughty fantasy for many. A no-no that feels so damn good for being so damn wrong.  Sex at work is just plain hot! This story actually stems from a follower-fan-friend who asked me to write a story based on his erotic dream. He gave me a short paragraph describing the details of the dream and asked me to turn it into a story. He gave me the skeleton outline and I fleshed it out into an erotic short story. Johnny, the maintenance man, is turned on by his HR manager Lana. He dreamt of having sex with her in her office. One day, after flirting once again, Lana asked him to come to her office for a random drug test. What ensued was something right from his fantasies. I hope you enjoy this short erotic fiction story. This story will also be on Medium if you'd like to read it. Have you tried out Medium? It's a subscription site but the amazing thing is ... it's literally loaded with erotica authors who post frequently. Your subscription allows you to read as many stories as you'd like. Check out Medium today! https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/getting-head-at-work-573652dc6ddc Join at my referral link here: https://medium.com/@ruanwillow/membership All my links at https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's new book: DEBUT of Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains explicit lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link to book  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 Ruan's other books: all links are universal affiliate links worldwide.  Ruan's Cabin Getaway: A MILF age gap story where Ruan and her love meet at a cabin for a fuck fest weekend: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1d745b60-73c9-11ec-b8a2-73116e75cbb3 The Mardi Gras Unmasking: a newly married couple experiments with the Dom/sub lifestyle and multiple partner sex. Read about their sexy night, an experiment in fulfilling her fantasy.  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1d745b60-73c9-11ec-b8a2-73116e75cbb3 Femdom Anthologies Ruan has a story in: Femdom: Stories of Strong Female Characters and the submissive men who love them: He Will Obey https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 Horror erotic stories of strong female characters, femdom with a spooky edge, get enchanted by The Femdom Coven https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/8d4dfe86-7492-11ec-b3ef-dbe2da85bf64 Hello, I'm Ruan! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy for adults only,  and it is intended for the Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

26 Jan 202220min

Ep 113: Erotica Author, Sex Toy Inventor, Erotica Audio Artist, Narrator, and Editor Tabitha Rayne. I had such an amazing chat with Tabitha! I loved her sweet sexy voice and fun sensual personality! She narrates a sexy excerpt from one of her books for us; it's hot! We chatted about how special erotica audiobooks are, how it's a different, and immersive, experience unlike reading erotica or watching porn.  We talked about the censorship we all suffer from as erotica content creators. She shares the path and absolutely fascinating process to create her award-winning sex toy, The Ruby Glow. She also talked about her new sex toy coming out soon. It was very interesting to hear her speak about it. We talked about her erotic books, her audio narration, and being an editor on Frolicme dot com, an erotic platform with erotic films that are women-friendly, but for all. Tabitha also talked about her experience with audio for Girl on the Net. We discussed her writing process and what snacks we both enjoy, and must have, in order to write. We had a lovely time! Tabitha Rayne,  Best Erotic Author - ETO Awards and Winner Kinkly Consumer's Choice StorErotica Awards 2018. To connect with Tabitha: https://tabitharayne.com/ The book Tabitha reads an excerpt from Drenched (US affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3nIkwXA Worldwide link to Drenched: http://mybook.to/Drenched Book Baker's Wife (she mentioned this book in the podcast): https://amzn.to/3Kuy3f3 Worldwide link to Baker's Wife, A BDSM awakening http://mybook.to/Bakers-Wife Best Woman's Erotica of the Year https://amzn.to/3rFwVwR And many more books available on Amazon. Tabitha's Sex Toy: Rocks Off Ruby Glow affiliate link  https://amzn.to/33SSbXI Website for the Sex Toy: Use code RUAN for a discount (toy from UK)  https://www.therubyglow.com/ Tabitha on Twitter: https://twitter.com/TabithaErotica Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tabitharayne/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TabithaRayneAuthor/ Hello, I'm Ruan! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy for adults only,  and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. Thank you for listening! Have a fabulously sexy day! love ya, Ruan Promoting pleasure, I help people dream:) Ruan's links here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's new book: DEBUT of Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student...contains explicit lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link to book  https://storyoriginapp.com Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

21 Jan 20221h 17min

Ep 112: FFM FWB Spontaneous Sex Hook up Story.  Female/Female/Male Friends with benefits, a spontaneous sex hook up story, when friends decide to fuck.  They are sitting around, Ruan, her friend Maria, and you having some alcoholic drinks. Maria is horny. She's extra horny because she has no boyfriend. We've wanted a threesome for a while, multiple partner sex is a sexual wish of ours so we ask Maria to join us in an encounter of first time spontaneous sex. First time multiple partner sex and damn do we love it! Please note: This story contains female/female action, multiple partner threesome FFM action, lots of coming, and cum sharing through kissing. I hope you enjoy this story because YOU are in it! Have fun and enjoy! Ruan's new book: DEBUT of Magic In Her Kisses A woman loving woman age gap erotic romance, professor and student... contains explicit lesbian sex scenes: universal affiliate link to book  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 Ruan's other books: all links are universal affiliate links that work for access to the book worldwide. Just click through and it will bring you to the Amazon store of your country. Ruan's Cabin Getaway: A MILF age gap story where Ruan and her love meet at a cabin for a fuck fest weekend: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1d745b60-73c9-11ec-b8a2-73116e75cbb3 The Mardi Gras Unmasking: a newly married couple experiments with the Dom/sub lifestyle and multiple partner sex. Read about their sexy night, an experiment in fulfilling her fantasy.  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1d745b60-73c9-11ec-b8a2-73116e75cbb3 Femdom Anthologies Ruan has a story in: Femdom: Stories of Strong Female Characters and the submissive men who love them: He Will Obey https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1fd60b54-7493-11ec-b5c6-4712c13ec515 Horror erotic stories of strong female characters, femdom with a spooky edge, get enchanted by The Femdom Coven https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/8d4dfe86-7492-11ec-b3ef-dbe2da85bf64 Hello, I'm Ruan! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy for adults only,  and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. Thank you for listening! Have a fabulously sexy day! love ya, Ruan Promoting pleasure, I help people dream:) Find all Ruan's links here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

18 Jan 202221min

Ep 111: Blow Job at the Restaurant, an erotica excerpt by Ruan. This is an excerpt from a longer story I have on my website where a couple is visiting a hotel that is equipped with rental rooms for specialized sex. The couple is visiting the hotel to spice up their love life, which is already spicy, but more spice is always good! The hotel is geared towards promoting sexual pleasure and enjoyment for its guests. The couple has rented the pool sex room but before they go there, they stop for a bite to eat at the restaurant. The woman slips under the table where she gives her husband a blow job, while he uses a remote control vaginal toy on her. They both love the exhibitionism of sexual play in public, and they get that in this sex-focused hotel. To read the full story, please visit the link (please note: I changed the story a little bit for the podcast just for fun): https://ruanwillowauthor.com/hot-hotel-sex-one-couples-erotic-journey/ Hello, I'm Ruan! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy for adults only,  and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. Thank you for listening! Have a fabulously sexy day! love ya, Ruan Promoting pleasure, I help people dream:) Find all Ruan's links here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Podcast swag and merchandise! Get a shirt with Oh F*ck Yeah on it! Click here to see the podcast's store: https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/ Ruan's Books: Check out my new book Magic In Her Kisses! A lesbian age gap BDSM erotic novella, universal link:  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 Ebook (affiliate link): https://amzn.to/3eXmgr9 Paperback Book link to Amazon affiliate: https://amzn.to/3eZVizm New Lesbian age gap romance erotic novel Passion to Seduce Ruan narrated with adult star Leilani Lei (affiliate): https://amzn.to/34sSNn8 Ruan's Cabin Getaway: Book 1 Ruan's view. An Explicit Age Gap Romance: https://books2read.com/u/mB2A7D Affiliate link: https://amzn.to/3f1bd0h The Mardi Gras Unmasking by Ruan Willow book link: https://books2read.com/u/mZeWpE Affiliate link: https://amzn.to/3pZWqsP Ruan's author page on Amazon: Ruan's Beach Getaway book by Ruan Willow A spicy age gap erotic romance novel where the couple enjoys their sexy time at the beach. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

14 Jan 202216min

Ep 109: Erotic Shorts Imagine Sex by Ruan Willow. Enjoy these short little erotic readings written and performed by erotica author and podcaster Ruan Willow.  Ruan often reads these little snippets of erotica for social media posts on Twitter, Instagram, and Sharesome. Several short stream pieces are strung together here for your enjoyment. Listen and get hot with Ruan! Hello, I'm Ruan! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy for adults only,  and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. Thank you for listening! Have a fabulously sexy day! love ya, Ruan Promoting pleasure, I help people dream:) Find all Ruan's links here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's Books: Check out my new book Magic In Her Kisses! A lesbian age gap BDSM erotic novella, universal link:  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 Ebook (affiliate link): https://amzn.to/3eXmgr9 Paperback Book link to Amazon affiliate: https://amzn.to/3eZVizm New Lesbian age gap romance erotic novel Passion to Seduce Ruan narrated with adult star Leilani Lei (affiliate): https://amzn.to/34sSNn8 Ruan's Cabin Getaway: Book 1 Ruan's view. An Explicit Age Gap Romance: https://books2read.com/u/mB2A7D Affiliate link: https://amzn.to/3f1bd0h The Mardi Gras Unmasking by Ruan Willow book link: https://books2read.com/u/mZeWpE Affiliate link: https://amzn.to/3pZWqsP Ruan's author page on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Ruan-Willow/e/B08ZYW6B3K Support my podcast by joining my membership on Patreon that will give you extra content and early access. https://www.patreon.com/ruanwillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

7 Jan 202211min

Ep 108: Erotic Science Fiction MM Novel excerpt by author Gabriel Hargrave and author interview. Welcome to season 2 of the podcast! Gabriel reads chapter seven from his novel The Orchid and the Lion, which is also available to read on his website at https://gabrielhargravewrites.com/ After his amazing narration, we have an epically amazing chat about sex, life as a queer person and author, transgender challenges and triumphs, plus the self-publishing industry. Listen to find out why he chose to self-pub as an indie author rather than trying to get his book traditionally published. We discuss the state of acceptance for all, the hardships still encountered, and how best to write about erotica. Gabriel is also an editor for hire.  As authors, editing is a must! Hear Gabriel's take on why editing is paramount for all authors and especially self-published authors. Visit his website for more information: https://gabrielhargravewrites.com/ The Orchid and the Lion is a kinky, sensual novel about love, self-acceptance, and fighting for what you believe in. Link for the book: http://mybook.to/theorchidandthelion Connect with Gabriel: Twitter: https://twitter.com/GHargraveWrites Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/21854580.Gabriel_Hargrave Ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/gabrielhargravewrites Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gabrielhargravewrites BookBub: https://www.bookbub.com/profile/gabriel-hargrave I want to thank Gabriel for coming on my podcast to chat and for sharing his awesome book excerpt and insights with us! Hello, I'm Ruan! Welcome to my podcast! Listen to this reading to rage up your sexuality, entertain your brain, and enjoy! On my podcast, you will find romance, topics on relationships, romance and love, self-care,  intimacy for adults only,  and it is intended for the purposes of entertainment, your fantasy life, and the arts. Sexual health and fitness are important parts for a healthy sex life. Thank you for listening! Have a fabulously sexy day! love ya, Ruan Find all Ruan's links here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's Books: Check out my new book Magic In Her Kisses! A lesbian age gap BDSM erotic novella, universal link:  https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 Ruan's Cabin Getaway: An Explicit Age Gap Romance: https://books2read.com/u/mB2A7D Affiliate link: https://amzn.to/3trZVsh The Mardi Gras Unmasking by Ruan Willow book link: https://books2read.com/u/mZeWpE Affiliate link: https://amzn.to/3eAtUsg Inside Ruan Willow written with BD Hampton Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

5 Jan 20222h 5min