Ep 154: Sex Confessions, A Sexy Chat with Podcaster Dear Nikky

Ep 222: Tit F*ck: His and Her Thoughts & Stories of Titf*cking. In this episode, we get to hear from both men and women about their feelings, thoughts, experiences, and stories of titty f*cking. The first guest is Lala, who I had on the podcast before. She's a podcaster at Lala's Bedtime Tales. Then there's the hilarious guys from The T & A podcast, followed by a hotwife in real life Casey Donatello, then we get two stories from men, and then finally my thoughts and feelings about this topic, and why titf*cking is like a pepperoni pizza! Get all the fun, hilarious, hot, sexy, and steaminess of this episode in your hot little ear today! Connect with Lala of Lala's Bedtime Tales Podcast: https://lalasbedtimetaleseroticstories.buzzsprout.com/ Her website: http://www.lalasbedtimetales.com/ Connect with Sam and Jason of The T & A Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-t-a-podcast/id1576169889 Their website: https://www.thetandapodcast.com/ Casey  Donatello Hotwife IRL https://linktr.ee/inbedwithstrangers Ruan Willow: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Podcast Sponsor: Thank you to my sponsor Authors Help Service! Connect with them for awesome author services at: https://authorshelpservice.com/ The Car Sex Challenge: New release! In this short spicy erotic novella, book three in The Sex Challenge Series, where two consenting adults enjoy some secretive sexual play while in semi-public, the day of play continues for Brad and Anna, the second-marriage newlyweds. Brad had all the advantages in the last two rounds when the play happened in the kitchen and then the grocery store, but Anna is struck with an idea to win this next challenge. She suggests they play their sex games in a car wash to see who caves and climaxes first before the car emerges from the car wash. Even if they get caught with their pants down, Anna still intends to win. She knows her lover's deepest desires and plans to seduce Brad to a loss. They end this round both optimistic for the rest of their day of play, their intimacy is growing as are their libidos because the day isn't over yet! Check out the first two books in this series: The Kitchen Sex Challenge and The Grocery Store Sex Challenge, both available in ebooks and audiobooks narrated by Ruan Willow herself. This is book 3 of 6. Get the book here: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/5411396c-6519-11ed-8688-3b084a1c7e29 Get the Ruan Willow Discount https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Podcast Merch! Wear Oh F*ck Yeah! Get Oh F*ck Yeah Podcast Merch T-shirts, tank tops, long sleeve shirts, mugs! Wear it sassy and hot! Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

30 Dec 202231min

Ep 221: Harnessing the Hidden Power of Wikipedia for Sexuality, Erotica, and Gender Topics. This very intriguing and informative episode illustrates how people can instigate social change, propagate education, and provide access to information for people around the world about sexuality, gender, LGTBQ, and all things erotic (& erotica) via publishing on Wikipedia. Lane Raspberry is a Wikimedian in Residence at the University of Virginia. He supports professors and students sharing knowledge on Wikipedia. He helps moderate and ensures community content accuracy and governance of several Wikipedia communities. What he shares in this episode could help you create content on Wikipedia that has the potential to influence, educate, and provide erotic culture to people around the world. He talks about how people can instigate social change and sex education by posting facts and citing sources on Wikipedia, including that of one's own books if they are used as cited references of the articles added to Wikipedia. There are actually people who watchdog several of the communities to make sure the information is accurate. This means there's actually great power accessible to everyone on the giant site of Wikipedia. Connect with Lane Rasberry: profile on Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User:Bluerasberry YouTube https://www.youtube.com/lanerasberry twitter https://twitter.com/LaneRasberry website https://bluerasberry.com/ A big thank you to this episode's sponsors: The amazing intriguing podcast Read by Daylight, a podcast about the lore behind characters from the game Dead by Daylight. Check it out here: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/read-by-daylight-4940226 Read Ruan's new erotic story "She Triggers His Dom Mode with a Blowjob & Titfuck" on Medium: https://medium.com/erotic-fantasies/she-triggers-his-dom-mode-with-a-blowjob-a-titfuck-7efc162ba925  The Car Sex Challenge Book 3 of 6 from The Sex Challenge Series, A Day of Play https://amzn.to/3iPH21l Connect with podcast host Ruan here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Get the Ruan Willow Discount on sex toys/intimacy products from sponsors and affiliates, and get pleasure at a lower cost!  https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Thanks for listening! Love ya! Ruan Ruan's Beach Getaway book by Ruan Willow A spicy age gap erotic romance novel where the couple enjoys their sexy time at the beach. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

28 Dec 202257min

Ep 220: Stag & Hotwife Revealing Interview Living the Dream. I was fortunate to interview the amazing Stag & Hotwife couple Casey and her Stag husband Jason. They shared their journey, their hardships, and their joys & triumphs. They are living the dream, doing what they want without shame, enjoying the glory and freedom of doing what they want in life. I admire them immensely. The synergy of their relationship is both intriguing and intoxicating. Listen as they reveal all the good, the bad, the difficulties, and the wins of their Hotwife/Stag life. Both have lived the lifestyle in some way shape or form for many years. One of my favorite parts was hearing how they desire to please each other, plus how they know each other so well that they can literally read each other's expressions during a play session. And how they debrief afterward and it's a joy to them. I loved his line, "She's my porn star." Did you miss Casey's solo interview? Check it out here: https://ohfckyeahwithruanwillow.buzzsprout.com/1599808/11804787-real-hotwife-casey-donatello-tells-all Connect with Casey and Jason here:  https://linktr.ee/inbedwithstrangers Get Casey's books: In Bed with Strangers https://amzn.to/3XVPADC Scarlet Swings Higher https://amzn.to/3B4G0oe Scarlet Surrenders (affiliate links) https://amzn.to/3gZ1zjl Thank you to my sponsor! Connect with them for awesome author services at: https://authorshelpservice.com/ GET A ZUMIO sex toy! One of Ruan's fave sex toys: Your Orgasm Is Yours - Shop Zumio Now For $36 Off Your Zumio Using Code: ohyes  https://shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1815950&u=3101443&m=98393&urllink=&afftrack= Get the Ruan Willow Discount on sex toys, pleasure products, and free ebooks (on Smashwords through 1/1/23): https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day: affiliate buy link https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/e617d304-772d-11ed-8d22-b3c1aa31b336 Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a woman loving woman erotic age gap  affiliated buy linkshttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 In ebook and paperback: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 The Car Sex Challenge Book 3 of 6 from The Sex Challenge Series, A Day of Play https://amzn.to/3iPH21l Connect with podcast host Ruan: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

23 Dec 20221h 50min

Ep 219: The Women of The Goochie Dolls Online Party Number 1. It's The Goochie Dolls takeover on the podcast! Featuring by Twitter @ handle @FryPeggy1, @Sensual1425, @thegoochiemama, @MissFS74, @Sprinkles 1969, @RaunchysIs (aka @RuanWillow, @ruan_willow), Who are The Goochie Dolls? We are a group of women who value and champion body positivity regardless of age or size. We all see the beauty of each other, support one another, and celebrate the expression of our individual creativities and sexualities based on our own terms, desires, and visions through selfies we take based on the day's voted on theme. Yes! We vote! The Goochie Dolls group is about the empowerment of women... as one Doll said, "Women have power when they take it." The Goochie Dolls helps women own their own power, and take full ownership of it. We had so much fun at the virtual party! We chatted about our favorite themes for photos/videos, how we come up with pic ideas, various sex toys, & why glass is an amazing sex toy, pussy clamps, nipple clamps, and our fans... whom we love very much!!! And so much more! This is the first online party of many planned. Enjoy! Find The Goochie Dolls on Twitter here: http://twitter.com/TheGoochieDolls A big thank you to this episode's sponsors: The amazing intriguing podcast Read by Daylight, a podcast about the lore behind characters from the game Dead by Daylight. Check it out here: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/read-by-daylight-4940226 Sponsor: Scorned: A Legend of the Carolyngian Age (Legends of the Carolyngian Age Book 4) by Joseph Samaniego (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3Hy1Y74 https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B078Z3SNQT/allbooks Get the Ruan Willow Discount on sex toys/intimacy products from sponsors and affiliates, and get pleasure at a lower cost!  https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Connect with podcast host Ruan Willow here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Ruan's newest releases: affiliate links New audiobook live Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day: affiliate buy link https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/e617d304-772d-11ed-8d22-b3c1aa31b336 Free audiobook codes: https://www.patreon.com/posts/arc-skinny-at-on-75681153 Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a sapphic erotic age gap professor/student BDSM Domme/sub novelhttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 In ebook and paperback: Ruan's Beach Getaway book by Ruan Willow A spicy age gap erotic romance novel where the couple enjoys their sexy time at the beach. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

20 Dec 20221h 33min

Ep 218: How to Get Out of Your Head in Bed with Dr. Alison Ash.  Check out my epic and amazing discussion with Dr. Aly. We chatted about how you can get out of your head in bed (she has a course on this too) including such things as shedding performance anxiety, being present and embodied (rather than in our heads), ways to ignore our to-do list, and non-sexual roles, so we can be more present, and lots of tips and advice to do all of this the best way possible. We talked about masturbation, sex toys, sexual and emotional intimacy and so much more. She explains her many courses, including a course on how to eat pussy!  Dr. Alison Ash, aka Dr. Aly, is a trauma-informed intimacy coach and educator, Stanford University Lecturer, author, and founder of TurnON.love. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, she has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. She designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. Dr. Aly invites you to TurnON pleasure, intimacy and love at www.TurnON.love Links to connect with Dr. Alison Ash: https://www.turnon.love/ http://www.facebook/turnon.love http://www.instagram/turnon.love Thank you to my sponsor! Connect with them for awesome author services at: https://authorshelpservice.com/ Get the Ruan Willow Discount on sex toys/intimacy products from sponsors affiliates, get pleasure at a lower cost!  https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ New audiobook live Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day: affiliate buy link https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/e617d304-772d-11ed-8d22-b3c1aa31b336 FREE ARC copy on my free public Patreon page (several free books there): https://www.patreon.com/posts/arc-skinny-at-on-75681153 Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a woman loving woman erotic age gap professor/student BDSM Domme/sub novel affiliated buy linkshttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 In ebook and paperback: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 The Car Sex Challenge Book 3 of 6 from The Sex Challenge Series, A Day of Play https://amzn.to/3iPH21l Connect with me here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

16 Dec 20221h 12min

Ep 218: The Amazing Work of Dominatrix Inanna Justice. I welcome this episode's guest, Inanna Justice, to the podcast. Inanna Justice is an expatriate Dominatrix living in Paris. She has distinguished herself through her outreach to the local kink community, her writing about BDSM, expressing her love of the scene through creating the "Innanapoly" board game, and writing "The Heart of the Dominatrix," which showcases intimate interviews with 21 Dominatrices from around the world, get the book here (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3Bu9Fav. We had a fantastic conversation! It was so much fun! We chatted about her work, her life, and her heart, why she's a dominatrix, and what she does for people, to them, and how she helps them. So many people have misconceptions about being a dominatrix. Let her clear things up for you! Have a listen! Connect with Inanna here: https://inannajustice.com/ Sponsor: Scorned: A Legend of the Carolyngian Age (Legends of the Carolyngian Age Book 4) by Joseph Samaniego (affiliate link) https://amzn.to/3Hy1Y74 https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B078Z3SNQT/allbooks Get the Ruan Willow Discount on sex toys/intimacy products from sponsors and affiliates, and get pleasure at a lower cost!  https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ New audiobook live Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day: affiliate buy link https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/e617d304-772d-11ed-8d22-b3c1aa31b336 Help me launch my new audiobook where you get a FREE ARC copy on my free public Patreon page (several free books there): https://www.patreon.com/posts/arc-skinny-at-on-75681153 Check out the newly released erotic NSFW audiobook! Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a woman loving woman erotic age gap professor/student BDSM Domme/sub novel affiliated buy linkshttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 In ebook and paperback: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 My new anthology is getting five stars! Check it out here: Decadent Erotica: the newly released anthology of ten erotic short stories: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ The Car Sex Challenge Book 3 of 6 from The Sex Challenge Series, A Day of Play: Five star reviews!  https://amzn.to/3iPH21l Connect with me here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

13 Dec 20221h

Ep 216: Sex Positivity, Sex Ed Now and for the Future, Women of Color & Sexuality with Sex Educator Bianca Laureano. I was fortunate to have an enlightening and interesting chat with certified sex educator Bianca, the supervisor and founder of the Ante Up Professional development course for sex educators and sexuality professionals. She teaches sexologists and other professionals. She shared her amazing experiences, insights, and wisdom. She discussed how she works a lot with the youth and learning about gender. She discussed how we all need to unlearn cis supremacy and shame, and all the poor sex ed we all received as kids. I love her statement "Sex positivity has no space for shame." She elaborated on the topic of shame. She also talked about abortion topics and the need for proper sex education for workers to provide appropriate care. We talked about women of color and sexuality for today and some history around this topic as well.  She also shed light on how disabled and elderly people are excluded from body autonomy and sexual expression and/or enjoyment. She also pointed out how therapy has changed from a view of needing to change people with regard to their sexual orientation to a way of acceptance and support. She also talked about cultural views on sex and sex positivity. There is still so much work to be done. Connect with her on Instagram at: http://instagram.com/latinegrasexologist Get Ante Up Certified http://www.anteuppd.com/ All Bianca's links: https://linktr.ee/Dr.Bi A BIG thank you to the sponsor for this episode: author DE Love with the newly released book Amateur Night affiliate link https://amzn.to/3V7L2YD Get the Ruan Willow Discount on sex toys/intimacy products https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ New audiobook live Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day: affiliate buy link https://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/e617d304-772d-11ed-8d22-b3c1aa31b336 Get a FREE ARC copy on my free public Patreon page (several free books there): https://www.patreon.com/posts/arc-skinny-at-on-75681153 Check out the newly released erotic NSFW audiobook! Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a woman loving woman erotic age gap professor/student BDSM Domme/sub novel affiliated buy linkshttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 In ebook and paperback: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 My new anthology is getting five stars! Decadent Erotica: the newly released anthology of ten erotic short stories: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

9 Dec 20221h 3min

Ep 215: The Oral King, An Interracial Story of Oral Sex. Listen to this hot sexy intense erotic story of Malcolm who loves to give his girlfriend Kelly amazing oral sex. Well, they do more than that, but that's the first part of their at-home date movie night fun.  Come along on their orgasmic ride! Thank you to my sponsors for this episode: Christmas in the Sack! By Ian Snow https://amzn.to/3GDOA0R For the cynical Christmas romance lover comes Christmas in the Sack! Over one crazy Christmas in not-so-dreamy small town Sacktown, four spicy stories play out. Here's a taste of the goodies you'll find inside this holiday collection from Ian Snow! The amazing intriguing podcast Read by Daylight, a podcast about the lore behind characters from the game Dead by Daylight. Check it out here: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/read-by-daylight-4940226 Get the Ruan Willow Discount! See all the deals from my affiliates and sponsors, get pleasure products at a discount! Peruse discounts on sex toys, sex products, &  ....get access to all the deals here: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/get-the-ruan-willow-discount/ Help me launch my new audiobook where you get a FREE ARC copy of Magic In Her Kisses on my free public Patreon page (several free audiobooks there): https://www.patreon.com/ruanwillow Check out the newly released erotic NSFW audiobook! Magic In Her Kisses Audiobook: a woman loving woman erotic age gap professor/student BDSM Domme/sub novel affiliated buy linkshttps://storyoriginapp.com/universalaudiobooklinks/67b1bcfa-5a09-11ed-9be7-37bad9f71680 In ebook and paperback: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/4ab14756-58c0-11ec-b4f3-470dd2b4fb47 TRY AUDIBLE FOR FREE AND GET THE BOOK MAGIC IN HER KISSES FOR FREE: US https://www.audible.com/pd/B0BL1WVFNG/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-326578&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_326578_rh_us Leave me a voicemail message & I'll respond to you:  https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow Find me on the Wisdom app: https://wisdom.app/ruanwillow Connect with me here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Check out this new Giantess lesbian audiobook just released Our Massive Day at the Fair: Please enjoy one free audio review copy of Our Massive Day at the Carnival, now available on Audible. Redeem the one-time use code below at https://www.audible.com/acx-promo 459KF45KUALNM Try Audible for free and get a free audiobook too! (affiliate link) https://www.audible.com/pd/B0BKR6SND6/?source_code=AUDFPWS022318 Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

6 Dec 202240min