3591: How to Downsize Your Life from Negative People by Renee Benes of The Fun Sized Life

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3389: Mark Manson challenges us to rethink what we truly want in life, urging us to consider not just the pleasures we seek but the struggles we're willing to endure to achieve them. True fulfillment, he argues, stems from our capacity to embrace pain and difficulty, as it shapes the quality of our lives and our success. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://markmanson.net/question Quotes to ponder: "Happiness requires struggle. The positive is the side effect of handling the negative." "What determines your success isn’t 'What do you want to enjoy?' The question is, 'What pain do you want to sustain?'" "What we get out of life is not determined by the good feelings we desire, but by what bad feelings we’re willing and able to sustain to get us to those good feelings." Episode references: The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F: https://www.amazon.com/Subtle-Art-Not-Giving-Counterintuitive/dp/0062457713 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

13 Nov 20248min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3388: Living in the fast-paced world of Silicon Valley, Kat Medina reflects on the importance of balancing ambition with fulfillment. After a life-changing event, she and her husband chose to follow their dream of living in nature, embracing the unknown in Lake Tahoe. Her story encourages us to pause, evaluate our priorities, and ask ourselves, "What are we waiting for?" Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.katmedina.com/article?id=whywait Quotes to ponder: "Achieving success without fulfillment is the ultimate failure." "The key to accomplishing the elusive combination of fulfillment and success is to strive to compete with the best version of yourself and to be grateful for the growth along the way." "If there is something you feel called to do in your heart, a dream so vivid it practically haunts you, I beg you to have an honest conversation with yourself and ask why not now?" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

12 Nov 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3387: Amy Slenker-Smith shares her ongoing struggle with screen time and the steps she’s taken to regain control in a world dominated by digital devices. Through screen-free mornings, setting app limits, and creating night-time phone boundaries, she offers simple habits to reduce distractions and be more present. Her candid reflections remind us that small changes can make a big difference in our relationship with technology. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.simplyenough.net/screen-time/ Quotes to ponder: "I wake up early and start with my devotional and coffee. Then, I plan my day, write, or work on a large project. I don’t feel compelled to check my phone." "I am embarrassed by the statistics and how much time I waste. I’m a work in progress." "It’s so easy to get distracted and miss out on this world around us. Is a screen stealing your time?" Episode references: Uncluttered Program by Joshua Becker: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/uncluttered Courtney Carver’s 5-Day Digital Detox Challenge: https://bemorewithless.com/less-phone Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

11 Nov 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3386: Allison Carmen reflects on Jane “Nightbirde” Marczewski’s powerful message about living through hardship with grace. Despite battling cancer, Nightbirde reminded us to appreciate the miracles in life, even when they don't come in the form we expect. Her wisdom encourages us to see beauty in our current reality, with all its imperfections, and to realize we may already be living our dreams. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.allisoncarmen.com/living-in-the-miracle-jane-nightbirde-marczewski/ Quotes to ponder: "If we only take the miracles that taste sweet, I don’t think we’ll ever taste one." "I thought the miracle would make me scar-free, brand new. I did get a miracle just not the one I wanted." "We are in the miracle; we are in the dream." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

10 Nov 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3385: Living authentically opens the doors to job satisfaction, financial success, and deeper personal connections. Chris Reining explains that by embracing imperfections, speaking the truth, and doing what feels right, you can align your life with who you truly are and begin to achieve your goals. Authenticity brings self-respect, and the courage to stand up for yourself ultimately creates lasting success. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://chrisreining.com/get-what-you-want-the-3-keys-to-being-authentic/ Quotes to ponder: "Once you learn to live with your mistakes and flaws on display, to tell the truth, and to do what feels right, only then are you truly okay being yourself." "Don’t be afraid to do what feels right, no matter what the consequences are." "Anyone worth knowing is inevitably also going to be exasperating: making the same obvious mistakes over and over, dating imbeciles, endlessly relapsing into their dumb addictions." Episode references: The American Psychological Association Study on Lying: https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/stress/2022 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

10 Nov 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3384: In a world that constantly demands more of our time and energy, Adi Redzic offers three practical strategies to boost productivity while maintaining peace of mind. By focusing on what truly matters, decluttering your thoughts, and aligning tasks with long-term goals, you can work smarter not harder and achieve meaningful results without burnout. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://letslevelup.me/3-ways-to-become-crazy-productive Quotes to ponder: "Important is not the same as urgent. A lot of things may feel urgent, but they’re not important." "When you focus on less, you actually achieve more." "Being busy isn’t the same as being productive. It may give you a feeling of accomplishment, but not the accomplishment itself." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

9 Nov 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3383: Kathy Robinson explores the transformative power of a solo road trip, highlighting how the journey itself can foster self-reflection, stress reduction, and personal growth. By embracing a minimal, mindful approach, road trips offer a break from routine, allowing for deep contemplation and a renewed sense of self, even without a set destination or plan. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://athenawellness.com/blog/2023/6/15/the-medicinal-power-of-the-open-road Quotes to ponder: "There’s the rhythm of the road that invites transformation." "At the end of road trips, it wasn’t unusual for me to return with a better understanding of myself, a sense of lightness, and a detailed plan for the future." "My big takeaway was less about doing and more about being." Episode references: The New York Times article on transcontinental touring: https://www.nytimes.com/1910/10/09/archives/transcontinental-tour-starts-from-here-tomorrow-touring-club.html Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

8 Nov 202413min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3382: Ryan Frederick highlights the growing trend of geographic mobility and its impact on our sense of community. While moving frequently offers new opportunities, it can diminish our connection to place. He introduces the concept of "supercitizens" individuals who commit deeply to their communities through volunteering who not only strengthen social cohesion but also experience longer, healthier lives as a result. By fostering altruism where we live, we can transform our place into a true home. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.here.life/blog/calling-all-supercitizens Quotes to ponder: "Supercitizens are people who routinely devote significant amounts of their time, energy, and talent to make their communities better." "When more people volunteer, communities get stronger, and strong communities entice people to volunteer more." "Your future self and your neighbors may thank you if you become a supercitizen where you presently live." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

7 Nov 20249min