The Ultimate Guide to Fisting (ft. Jamie Joy)
In Bed With Alexa: Have Better Sex26 Juni 2025

The Ultimate Guide to Fisting (ft. Jamie Joy)

In this very juicy and educational episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with Jamie Joy, a queer, trans certified sex educator and full-blown fisting aficionado. We dive deep (literally and figuratively) into the world of fisting, from how to prep and practice it safely to the surprising aftercare and emotional intensity it can carry.

We also discuss:

  • How to prep for fisting (from hygiene to headspace)

  • Differences between vaginal and anal fisting

  • Safety tips, including glove use, nails, and douching

  • Why fisting is more emotional and intimate than you’d think

  • What to do if you're curious about trying it

  • Debunking myths about poop, pain, and gay panic

  • The role of breath, communication, and pleasure in anal play

  • The stigma around anal play—especially for straight men

  • Jamie's favorite techniques and their own mold of their fist (yes, really!)


    • You can check out more of Jamie's work here!

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