The Hidden Drama: Why Protest Behaviors Sabotage Love

The Hidden Drama: Why Protest Behaviors Sabotage Love

Uncover the hidden drama sabotaging marriages everywhere! Marriage coach Christa explores protest behaviors - the unconscious patterns where spouses criticize, withdraw, create drama, or become passive-aggressive instead of directly communicating their needs. Discover why your partner acts out instead of speaking up through specific protest behaviors for each Enneagram type, from Type 1 criticism when feeling unappreciated to Type 9 passive resistance when feeling unheard. Learn why we protest instead of asking directly (fear, past rejection, learned patterns) and discover the "protest to request" translation guide that ends sabotage and creates real connection. Includes practical solutions for recognizing your own hidden drama patterns and responding to your partner's underlying needs rather than their difficult behavior. Watch on YouTube! Want to get healthy together as a couple this Fall? Get early bird rates right here for your personal healing journey in the Enneagram Relationship Intensive with Christa⁠⁠⁠ here! ⁠⁠⁠ Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your phone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a podcast review so others can find us, too⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Life & Marriage with an Enneagram 9, Emily Wingfield, Enneagram with Emily

Life & Marriage with an Enneagram 9, Emily Wingfield, Enneagram with Emily

Join us for a cup of coffee and convo as we drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing an Enneagram Type 9 speaker and coach, Emily Wingfield, about all the nitty ...

20 Feb 202342min

An Enneagram Valentine's Day Mystery Mini-Episode

An Enneagram Valentine's Day Mystery Mini-Episode

In this fun shortie episode, Christa invites listeners to join her in a personality-type excavation to find the Enneagram types of a couple in a brief, light case study as we welcome listeners to a Va...

14 Feb 202311min

Loving Each of the Enneagram Types in Marriage w/Dani Cooper of Deep Waters Enneagram

Loving Each of the Enneagram Types in Marriage w/Dani Cooper of Deep Waters Enneagram

As we explore the heart of romance together, one of the most important ways we can connect hearts together is by really understanding the deepest needs of our spouse. As we walk through today's episod...

13 Feb 202346min

The Heart of True Marriage Connection with Elizabeth Overstreet

The Heart of True Marriage Connection with Elizabeth Overstreet

February can be a tough month of disillusionment and regret because of a lack of expected romance, a break of connection due to stress, or even finding ourselves alone and misunderstood because of gen...

8 Feb 202328min

Revving Up Your Romance with Relationship Coach Dana Che, Enneagram 3 (3-9 Pairing)

Revving Up Your Romance with Relationship Coach Dana Che, Enneagram 3 (3-9 Pairing)

We begin a month of romance with our fresh and fun first February guest relationship coach Dana Che, Enneagram 3! Dana is witty, articulate, hilarious, and fun, and she has not only been coaching coup...

6 Feb 202348min

An E + M Short: Celebrating & Reflecting on One Million Podcast Downloads With You!

An E + M Short: Celebrating & Reflecting on One Million Podcast Downloads With You!

When we started the podcast just around the time of the pandemic, we had no idea what was in store; so many systems for healthy relationships have developed since then as a result of the collective of...

1 Feb 202316min

How Christ Relates to Each Type w/Jesse Eubanks, 3w4 of Love Thy Neighborhood & The Enneacast

How Christ Relates to Each Type w/Jesse Eubanks, 3w4 of Love Thy Neighborhood & The Enneacast

In this darkest time of the year, it's so important we have good ways to wrestle with the things keeping us from hope, from faith, and from light. In this episode, Jesse Eubanks of Love Thy Neighborho...

30 Jan 202335min

E + M Shorts: Why & How Anger Must Be Addressed in Marriage for a Healthier You

E + M Shorts: Why & How Anger Must Be Addressed in Marriage for a Healthier You

In this short but essential episode, Christa talks about how critical anger processing is for your marital and physical health for individuals of every Enneagram type, especially those most prone to b...

25 Jan 202315min

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