Breaking the Cycle: How to Stop Protest Behaviors from Destroying Your Marriage

Breaking the Cycle: How to Stop Protest Behaviors from Destroying Your Marriage

Learn how to break destructive protest behavior cycles before they destroy your marriage! In Part 2 of the protest behaviors series, marriage therapy expert Christa Hardin explores why these patterns escalate from mild criticism or withdrawal to explosive fights and emotional shutdown. Discover childhood origins of each Enneagram type's specific protest strategies, from Type 8s who learned vulnerability was dangerous to Type 5s who learned people drain them. Learn general and type-specific ways to create emotional safety that prevents protesting, how to respond during protest episodes to de-escalate rather than inflame, and repair strategies that actually heal after damage occurs. Includes the escalation pattern most couples miss and practical tools for building marriages where direct communication feels safer than protesting. Watch on YouTube! Get healthy together as a couple this Fall! Get early bird rates right here for your personal healing journey in the Enneagram Relationship Intensive with Christa⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠ Listen to Christa on The Allender Center Podcast here! Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your phone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a podcast review so others can find us, too⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Transforming Through Trials, Grief, and Loss Together

Transforming Through Trials, Grief, and Loss Together

We know you're working so hard to make a great life and legacy for future generations together both in the world and in your family. But what do we do in marriage when trials and losses hit, as they i...

25 Maj 202023min

The Big 3 Issues in Marriage: Part 3, Sex

The Big 3 Issues in Marriage: Part 3, Sex

Listen in as Christa uses the Enneagram to openly discuss sexual needs and desires, as well as the ways they have been stifled, shamed, and overexposed. This episode is critical for you to listen to o...

25 Maj 202030min

The Big 3 Issues in Marriage: Part 2, Finances

The Big 3 Issues in Marriage: Part 2, Finances

Whatever their socioeconomic status, couples continue to report that arguing about finances is one of the three biggest issues in their marriages. In this vital episode, we're talking about the effect...

18 Maj 202044min

Mini Episode: When to Come Out of Quarantine - Together

Mini Episode: When to Come Out of Quarantine - Together

Couples we're surveying are talking about a new topic of communication that's currently at hand. The question is about when and how to individually and jointly emerge from quarantine, especially where...

14 Maj 20207min

The Big 3 Issues in Marriage: Part 1, Communication

The Big 3 Issues in Marriage: Part 1, Communication

Tired of running around the same marriage stumbling blocks? Join us for another episode where we tackle not just the rhetoric but the actual roadblocks of marriage communication issues! Whatever your ...

11 Maj 202028min

The Parenting Tendencies of Each Enneagram Type

The Parenting Tendencies of Each Enneagram Type

Just how does your Enneagram type inform your parenting at best and at worst? This is a special episode that's full of grace for parents, and one that we're finally releasing from the pre-quarantine t...

8 Maj 202035min

Important Routines for Every Type in Marriage

Important Routines for Every Type in Marriage

Even if you're an assertive type and you don't like to be controlled by another person, human relationships need not only connections, but routines together to thrive, especially married couples. Don'...

4 Maj 202037min

Creating Healthy Emotional Self Care for Each Enneagram Type

Creating Healthy Emotional Self Care for Each Enneagram Type

Tune in to hear about the importance of emotional self-care for each Enneagram type. Listen to hear how Christa and the couples she's been working with have been taking steps to get more in touch with...

27 Apr 202042min

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