Breaking the Cycle: How to Stop Protest Behaviors from Destroying Your Marriage

Breaking the Cycle: How to Stop Protest Behaviors from Destroying Your Marriage

Learn how to break destructive protest behavior cycles before they destroy your marriage! In Part 2 of the protest behaviors series, marriage therapy expert Christa Hardin explores why these patterns escalate from mild criticism or withdrawal to explosive fights and emotional shutdown. Discover childhood origins of each Enneagram type's specific protest strategies, from Type 8s who learned vulnerability was dangerous to Type 5s who learned people drain them. Learn general and type-specific ways to create emotional safety that prevents protesting, how to respond during protest episodes to de-escalate rather than inflame, and repair strategies that actually heal after damage occurs. Includes the escalation pattern most couples miss and practical tools for building marriages where direct communication feels safer than protesting. Watch on YouTube! Get healthy together as a couple this Fall! Get early bird rates right here for your personal healing journey in the Enneagram Relationship Intensive with Christa⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠ Listen to Christa on The Allender Center Podcast here! Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your phone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a podcast review so others can find us, too⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Reaching Romantic Depths for Each Enneagram Type

Reaching Romantic Depths for Each Enneagram Type

As we move into Valentine’s Day weekend we’re talking about all things romance and the Enneagram! Whether you approach the world from your head, heart, or body, we’re covering how to go the distance w...

10 Feb 202036min

Enneagram Stances & Getting Healthier in Your Conflict Style

Enneagram Stances & Getting Healthier in Your Conflict Style

Aggressive, Withdrawing, Compliant…Depending on your Enneagram type, you’re probably prone to any one of these in relation to your partner, especially during a heated battle. In this episode, we exami...

3 Feb 202025min

Developing a Healthy Personal Identity in Marriage

Developing a Healthy Personal Identity in Marriage

In this episode, we talk about the concepts of leaning in to make sure you're listening to and loving your spouse well but also that you're balancing your own self-care and personality with it. Being ...

27 Jan 202033min

Feeling Safe Together: Understanding & Negotiating Enneagram Instincts in Relationship

Feeling Safe Together: Understanding & Negotiating Enneagram Instincts in Relationship

We all want to feel safe and yet sometimes marriage rips open our vulnerability in a way that nothing else can. Whether you lean towards self-preservation, social, or an intimate way of feeling safe i...

20 Jan 202025min

The 9 Enneagram Types in Marriage: The Ups & Downs and In-Betweens

The 9 Enneagram Types in Marriage: The Ups & Downs and In-Betweens

Join in the fun as we briefly review each Enneagram type in the individual and marriage setting! Hear your type’s strengths, hardships, and redeeming qualities too, so you can make sure your aim is on...

13 Jan 202054min

Ep 2: Debunking Marriage Myths Using the Enneagram

Ep 2: Debunking Marriage Myths Using the Enneagram

In this week's episode, Christa Hardin explores and disproves popular marriage myths. From identifying Enneagram types that work well together, to learning how to manage expectations within marriage b...

6 Jan 202035min

Ep 1: Welcome to the Enneagram and Marriage Podcast!

Ep 1: Welcome to the Enneagram and Marriage Podcast!

In this inaugural episode, Christa Hardin, MA, shares about the purpose of the Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, her background in clinical psychology, how the E and M Instagram came to be, why the Enne...

29 Dec 201924min

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