Ep. 308 - How to stop feeling on the edge of tears after your breakup

In today’s episode we talk about the damaging effects of worry and why it's particularly common during breakups. Worry is often an unproductive behavior, yet it's something many of us engage in regularly. Our braveheart community has shared their worries about breakups, ranging from the fear of being alone forever to concerns about future relationships, settling for less, and more. We explore practical methods to stop worrying. Leave this episode knowing exactly what you can do to end all worry in your breakup for good.

16 Okt 202318min

Today’s episode offers a straightforward yet effective strategy for alleviating breakup pain and propels individuals into action when they’ve been feeling stuck. Discover the simplicity of this technique as we guide you through its steps and share real-life examples of its effectiveness, providing you with an immediate sense of relief and empowerment. Tune in to equip yourself with this valuable tool and take your first step toward healing—because you don't have to face heartbreak alone. Subscribe now and let's embark on this journey together.

9 Okt 202319min

In today’s episode we explore a topic that has a significant influence on our life. Breakup Coach Dorothy encourages you to embrace a tool that fosters empowerment and personal growth rather than falling victim to a very common collective idea. Prepared to shift your focus from problems to solutions by emphasizing the control we have in influencing ourselves and taking decisive action towards neutrality and indifference. Learn the counterintuitive technique that has you going from disappointed in yourself to in control of yourself.

2 Okt 202318min

In today’s episode, Breakup Coach Dorothy and her client, Delanie, talk about finally asking for help, giving herself more credit, acceptance, self-love, letting go of the pain, and getting over an ex who struggled with addiction. Join them as they discuss Delanie’s healing journey and her personal ways of rewriting her story. Want individualized support, help, and coaching on your specific breakup? Join us in the Get Over Your Ex program: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourex Karilyn Ivers: https://www.karilynivers.com/ Podcast: Your Partners Addiction

25 Sep 202350min

Have you ever found yourself asking, "Why do I feel so addicted to my ex?" Well, today, we've got answers and a roadmap to help you break free from those compulsive behaviors that seem to take over your life. Breakups have a unique way of turning even the most empowered and resilient individuals into someone they don't recognize. Join us in this eye-opening episode as we delve into the profound psychology of post-breakup attachment and the reasons behind those persistent, seemingly uncontrollable actions that are anything but characteristic of you. Whether it's the relentless calls to your ex, the incessant checking of your phone in hopes of their message, or the constant scrutiny of your social media stories for their engagement, if you're struggling to move on, this episode was crafted with you in mind. In this transformative conversation, we'll equip you with practical steps and strategies to understand, cope with, and ultimately overcome your ex addiction. It's time to regain control over your emotions, thoughts, and actions and embark on a journey toward healing and self-empowerment. Previous episode: Ep. 131 - When your ex is struggling with addiction w/ Karilyn Ivers Karilyn Ivers Podcast: https://www.karilynivers.com/podcast Biology of Desire: https://www.amazon.com/Biology-Desire-Why-Addiction-Disease/dp/1610397126

18 Sep 202346min

Ever wonder why breakups often leave us feeling embarrassed? Join Breakup Coach Dorothy as she shatters the silence surrounding this emotion. In this episode we explore how pursuing our desires garners more cheers than jeers, and dive into practical strategies for coping with embarrassment, including intentionally stepping out of comfort zones to befriend rejection and understanding that our self-perception matters more than imagined judgments.

11 Sep 202312min

In this episode, the Breakup Coach Dorothy addresses the complex emotions that follow a breakup when you’re the one who initiated it. She dives into the feelings of doubt and regret that can arise and outlines how to release regret and make decisions from calm clarity. Whether you’ve already made the decision to break up and you’re feeling regret or you’re worried about breaking up because you might feel regretful and second guess yourself, you’re going to want to tune in!

4 Sep 202320min

Breakup Coach Dorothy interviews her client Caitlyn, about her journey from struggling to take up space in her relationship, dealing with anxious attachment and breakup regrets, thinking they’re meant to be, to being over her ex. Listen in to learn more about her journey.  Caitlyn’s blog: https://journeytodpt.com/ Want individualized support, help, and coaching on your specific breakup? Join us in the Get Over Your Ex program: https://dorothyabjohnson.com/getoveryourex

28 Aug 202342min