The Divorce Course Podcast9 Feb 2022

5 legal tips to help limit the freak out moments during your divorce proceedings

Are you freaking out about your divorce proceedings? At some point during everyone's divorce there may be a moment of panic or a feeling of hopelessness. This is the episode to listen to if you are worried. Let Lyn, a family law specialist of over 35 years experience explain the legal things she explains to her clients to calm them down when they are panicking. And some great tips you can use to eliminate more worry later down the track. Divorce and court isn't as scary as you think it is. We've got your back. Press play and feel better today.

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Five points to remember when freaking out in divorce proceedings
Your ex isn't special, the family court has seen it all before
Why keeping notes of your divorce proceedings can help calm you in a moments of panic of your divorce
What happens if mediation fails?
How long it takes from initial application to final trial
What are the new family court directives
How to stop your ex from freaking you out.
How to be proactive in your divorce proceedings instead of reactive.
How to make plans before you ask for a response to something so you don't have to worry about what their response will be, if any.
How to speed up your divorce process.
Consequences and how to use them to help progress the matter forward.
Drafting letters as your next response as a way to calm yourself
Why setting your own divorce goals are important
Why creating a action plan of steps needed is important
Why you need a plan a, plan b and plan c to eliminate the panic
How not to let the new year make you upset about your divorce.
Divorce songs and how they can help you get the confidence to face the legal stuff.
Why do you need to focus forward and live your life during the divorce process?
How what you focus on can affect how you cope with your divorce process.
How to reclaim your power after separation.
You don't need your ex to do a thing to get your divorce finalised
Why threats don't always end up in reality
Why getting a psychologist can really help your mental health during your divorce proceedings.

If you need emergency help you can also contact:

WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE
LEGAL AID
Lifeline 13 11 14
Mensline Australia 1300 789 978
Kids Help Line 1800 551 800
Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline 1800 019 123
Relationships Australia
Police on 000
DVConnect Womensline on 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) Note: This number is not recorded on your phone bill
DV Connect Mensline on 1800 600 636
National DV line on 1800 737 732.1800RESPECT 1800 737 732

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Please note this is general advice only. Please always seek independent legal advice as everyone's situation is different.

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