The "Love Account" Principle: One of the Most Critical Actions That's Easily Forgotten as You Get Busy and Are Together For Years: Episode 201

The "Love Account" Principle: One of the Most Critical Actions That's Easily Forgotten as You Get Busy and Are Together For Years: Episode 201

Every interaction is either a deposit or withdrawal from your partner's "love account". Meaning, every little remark you make or thing you say either deposits love and connection or it takes some away. The thing is, less "love deposits" are made for couples who are together a while or find themselves in busy seasons of life.

Most couples will go through seasons like these where they need to be making more deposits but they are actually making more withdrawals unconsciously. This isn't just a relational "nice idea" because the level of your love accounts determines how on edge, reactive, and snappy you are to each other. The hardest thing about having a low account is that you are much less willing to do the thing you need, to fill it back up…

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If You've Felt Discouraged Lately, Listen to This One to Feel Different: Episode 124

If You've Felt Discouraged Lately, Listen to This One to Feel Different: Episode 124

Can this be true, do you really feel discouragement or difficulty in life and within your relationship? Absolutely. If you have listened to this podcast before, you know that the point is not to avoid...

21 Jan 20219min

When Your Partner Gets Triggered: The Do's and Don'ts Episode 123

When Your Partner Gets Triggered: The Do's and Don'ts Episode 123

When your partner gets triggered, what do you do?... #1: Do you react back, get defensive, and it triggers an argument? #2: Or do you lovingly hold space and help them process what came up for them? ...

19 Jan 202130min

I'm an 'Assertive' Woman With a 'Reserved' Partner: How I Learned to Not Make Him Feel Dominated: Jocelyn Solo Episode 122

I'm an 'Assertive' Woman With a 'Reserved' Partner: How I Learned to Not Make Him Feel Dominated: Jocelyn Solo Episode 122

I'm an assertive woman and Aaron tends to be more reserved. This used to lead to him feeling dominated or overpowered when communicating, even about seemingly simple matters. In this episode, I share ...

14 Jan 202117min

How to Bring Up Challenging Conversations Without Triggering an Argument or Defensiveness: Episode 121

How to Bring Up Challenging Conversations Without Triggering an Argument or Defensiveness: Episode 121

When you bring up a challenging/hard conversation, does it tend to trigger defensiveness and lead to an unintended argument? You could have every intention of just trying to share how you feel and get...

12 Jan 202132min

4 Steps to Help Men Identify What They're Feeling and Be Comfortable to Share It: Aaron Solo Episode 120

4 Steps to Help Men Identify What They're Feeling and Be Comfortable to Share It: Aaron Solo Episode 120

Is there any place in your relationship that you shutdown and isolate from your partner by saying nothing or getting away from them? Are you even on the other side of things where you lash out at your...

7 Jan 202120min

The 4 Elements of True Love (They're Not What You Think): Episode 119

The 4 Elements of True Love (They're Not What You Think): Episode 119

Love is kind of the point of a relationship right? We know that you felt a lot of love for your partner early in your relationship and now that love probably feels different or maybe less. As you prog...

5 Jan 202133min

Differentiate What Your Partner is Saying vs What They Actually Need: Episode 118

Differentiate What Your Partner is Saying vs What They Actually Need: Episode 118

Let's be honest, we all have said to our partners one of these statements: "that's not what I said, that's not what actually happened, what you are saying doesn't make sense". Especially for those par...

29 Dec 202027min

Our Ritual for Reviewing Life and Creating New Aligned Goals Before Starting the New Year Episode 117

Our Ritual for Reviewing Life and Creating New Aligned Goals Before Starting the New Year Episode 117

Whether you can't wait to end this year or you are just excited to keep the momentum you have going, this is the episode for you. The end of the year just so happens to be a "made up" time that you ca...

22 Dec 202031min

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