How to become emotionally strong and have healthy boundaries

How to become emotionally strong and have healthy boundaries

"It is life-changing, the results are very very compelling"

The words of Dr. David Lake, a medical practitioner, supervisor of therapists, and psychotherapist who has been in private practice since 1977.

He shares his views on energy psychology, tapping, creating boundaries, and when face to face therapy is necessary and the benefits of it.

He shares: I used to think that myself (that I would have to live with my fears for the rest of my life) as it was my evidence from the real world and it was also true in the psychological and medical profession in the usual sense. And it's been true for many many years. But, approximately 20 years ago things started to change; a whole new paradigm emerged. In this paradigm, the so-called energy psychology, it turns out that even though when you don't know exactly how it works, you can actually help three kinds of serious human emotion to minimise and even disappear.

One is most kinds of anxiety. Two is most kinds of fear. Three is most kinds of deep hurt, related especially to trauma. I don't mean right away, or in one go, or in 10 minutes, but over time the most astounding things can happen to those feelings that have been typically out of reach for other treatments.

Other treatments, which I call outdated, typically are cognitive treatments working in the mind and most people think that's where the problem lies, but I no longer believe that. I think the problem is not in your mind, I think the problem is in your feelings which is somewhere coded or logged or anchored in your body.

It is a brand-new day when you can actually reduce anxiety fear and hurt. Your body is processing these feelings away from where they are stored. And once they are gone they are gone

When I found out I could release the fear I could actually not believe it.

This is the reason I actually entered the profession (psychotherapy), to be able to get these kind of results, and for many years I never could, I was amazed. And now that you can get these kind of results I'm equally amazed the most of the profession doesn't want to know about it!

Needless to say, this is an absolute killer interview that is must listen, and also a must-share. Get ready to have your perspective shifted forever!

David's show notes page

My homepage (find the 12 shortcuts to social confidence here):
www.social-anxiety-solutions.com

Contact me directly:
www.social-anxiety-solutions.com/contact/

Warm regards,
Sebastiaan van der Schrier

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Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others?
And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself?

You're not alone.
I've been there. It sucks. Big time.
But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety...
... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it.

It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly.
And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free.
Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears.

Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence?

Here are your first steps:
1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes!

2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course.

3.) Let's connect!
• SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions
• FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions
• IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions
• Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb

All the best on your journey to effortless social ease.

Warm regards,
Seb

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"I can do tapping anytime, anywhere" [Testimonial]

"I can do tapping anytime, anywhere" [Testimonial]

In this Episode... Question: Where and when should you tap? That is the question that most people ask, especially when they are in a triggering situation. And in this episode, hear Valle share when and where does he tapping whenever something or someone is triggering him. PS: Valle is a member of the Social Confidence Club, which is currently closed at the moment. In the meantime, you can get the FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence Mini Course" by going to: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast Enjoy! ________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

10 Jan 20235min

Overcoming Social Anxiety By Achieving Social Ease

Overcoming Social Anxiety By Achieving Social Ease

In this episode, I explained what "Social Ease" is, and why you should aim for it in the Journey To Social Confidence. Know more on how you can completely overcome your social anxiety by going to www.social-anxiety-solutions.com PS: Go here for the show notes page. ______ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

7 Jan 202316min

"When someone gets angry with me, it doesn't always mean something about me as a person" [Testimonial]

"When someone gets angry with me, it doesn't always mean something about me as a person" [Testimonial]

In this Episode... Now, when we hear someone getting angry at us, we believe it has something to do with us as a person. We believe that they are judging us for who we are. We believe that they are looking out for more imperfections that they can throw against us when they have the chance. But that is not true. When someone is angry at you, it doesn't mean they judge you as a person. It might be something to do with your actions... It might be something to do with the words that you used... ...but your words and actions do not define who you are as a person. You know who you are better than anybody else. When you apply the tapping, you release any strong negative emotions from the past, and you let go of the old outdated way of seeing things. That will help you change the way you think. That will help notice a real lasting change. The process of change doesn't happen overnight, it's a journey...not a destination. PS: Go to my FREE Mini-Course called 'The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence' In it, you'll learn how to use EFT Tapping to release your Social Anxiety triggers. Go to: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast ________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

3 Jan 20236min

Solving Social Anxiety: Can You Do It Alone? A Solo Journey?

Solving Social Anxiety: Can You Do It Alone? A Solo Journey?

In this Episode... The most common question people have when they hear about EFT Tapping is... "Can I use tapping to overcome Social Anxiety on my own?" And if you are also one of the people who wants to know the answer, then go listen to the full podcast episode now! PS Social Confidence Club 4.0 will be open for registration in mid-Feb 2023 (for one week only). Do you want to make sure you don't miss it? Sign up for the early announcement list. Not only will you be the first to know when we open the doors, but you also get two of the most popular tap along from last year's SCC. Go here: https://bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub Go here for the show notes page. _______________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

29 Dec 20228min

"I realized that I can have a less intense emotional reaction when someone gets angry with me!" [Testimonial]

"I realized that I can have a less intense emotional reaction when someone gets angry with me!" [Testimonial]

In this Episode... Are you feeling bothered when someone gets angry at you? Are you experiencing strong feelings of shame and embarrassment when someone makes his/her voice loud? Do you feel overwhelmed when someone looks angry at you? These are the emotions that Anonymous felt before the tapping session with Sebastiaan began. They worked and tapped around this issue, together with the members of the Social Confidence Club. 2 weeks after the session, he reported that he felt calm, and no overwhelming feelings of shame when someone gets angry at him. That is a validation that some of his Social Anxiety issues were reduced. Do you want to get rid of your Social Anxiety triggers too? Do you want to start your journey to effortless social ease? Then go to my FREE Mini-Course called 'The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence' In it, you'll learn how to use EFT Tapping to release your Social Anxiety triggers. Go to: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast ________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

27 Dec 20228min

"EFT Tapping for Social Anxiety: How Often To Tap?"

"EFT Tapping for Social Anxiety: How Often To Tap?"

In this Episode... If you are new to tapping...or not, one question always pops into your mind - especially when we have triggering situations that need tapping. How often do I tap? When should I tap? Where should I tap? And in one of Sebastiaan's videos, Jose asked a similar question that goes like this: "Seb, I started tapping about 2 weeks ago, is there any recommendations for how often to do it?" . . . . . Curious to know what Sebastiaan's answer is? Then go listen to the full podcast now! PS: I've created a FREE Mini-Course for you called 'The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence In it, you'll learn a powerful anxiety release technique. That by now is applied by millions of people, delivering great results, and also meets the standards of evidence-based treatment set by the APA… I'll guide you through an experience of it on video. So you'll reduce your SA today. Additionally, you'll receive a series of brief emails where I explain why nothing has worked to beat your SA, and what actually will help you overcome it. It comes with inspiring interviews with top psychologists and practical instructions on how to use this amazing technique to actually get rid of it for good. Go get 'the 7 secrets to social confidence' for free right now at https://bit.ly/socialanxietysecrets Go here for the show notes page. ________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

23 Dec 202211min

"I started a new job...and I had no anxiety leading up to it" [ Testimonial]

"I started a new job...and I had no anxiety leading up to it" [ Testimonial]

New environment. New people to work with. I mean...honestly speaking, just the thought of it can be anxiety triggering, even for people who don't suffer from Social Anxiety" You might think: "How will I introduce myself?" "How can I adjust to this new environment?" And in this episode, hear Claudia's win as she shares that by working through her social anxiety issues, together with the support of the Social Confidence Club, she managed to have NO feelings of anxiety until the end of her first day in the job. An amazing progress indeed. PS Social Confidence Club 4.0 will be open for registration in mid Feb 2023 (for one week only). Wanna make sure you don't miss it? Sign up for the early announcement list. Not only will you be the first to know when we open the doors, you also get two of the most popular tap alongs from last year's SCC. Go here: https://bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub _______________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

20 Dec 20225min

BLUSHING: How long to overcome it?

BLUSHING: How long to overcome it?

"How long does it take for blushing to dissipate using tapping?" This is the question that Sebastiaan will be talking about in this video. PS Social Confidence Club 4.0 will be open for registration in mid Feb 2023 (for one week only). Wanna make sure you don't miss it? Sign up for the early announcement list. Not only will you be the first to know when we open the doors, you also get two of the most popular tap alongs from last year's SCC. Go here: https://bit.ly/socialconfidenceclub Go here for the show notes page. _______________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! • SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/@Social-anxiety-solutions • FB https://www.facebook.com/socialanxietysolutions • IG https://www.instagram.com/socialanxietysolutions • Twitter https://twitter.com/socialanxietysb All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. Warm regards, Seb

15 Dec 202212min

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