176. The Attachment Cycle Explained (Why We're Attracted to People Who End Up Hurting Us)

176. The Attachment Cycle Explained (Why We're Attracted to People Who End Up Hurting Us)

In this episode, I’m diving into why we keep getting drawn to the same types of partners, even when those relationships don't work out or we keep getting hurt. I’ll break down the psychology behind attraction, how our early experiences and attachment styles play a huge role, and why it’s so damn hard to break those familiar patterns. I’m also sharing my own journey of recognizing these dynamics in my life and what it took to finally shift from toxic cycles to healthier, more fulfilling connections. Plus, I’ve got some practical tips to help you do the same.


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186. Signs It's Time For A Dating Break & How To Do It (Without Getting FOMO)

186. Signs It's Time For A Dating Break & How To Do It (Without Getting FOMO)

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185. Breaking Free From Codependency and Building Self-Trust w/ Caroline Winkler

185. Breaking Free From Codependency and Building Self-Trust w/ Caroline Winkler

In this episode of Dating Intentionally, I’m joined by Caroline Winkler, one of my favorite YouTubers with nearly 1M subscribers! Caroline is also the co-host of the Not For Everyone podcast. I reache...

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184. Chasing vs Pursuing: When To Show Interest (And When To Move On)

184. Chasing vs Pursuing: When To Show Interest (And When To Move On)

In this episode, I’m breaking down the difference between healthy pursuit and unhealthy chasing in dating, because yes, there’s a big difference. I share personal stories of times I chased and was cha...

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183. What to Wear on Dates: Confidence-Boosting Style Tips w/ Cassandra Sethi

183. What to Wear on Dates: Confidence-Boosting Style Tips w/ Cassandra Sethi

What you wear on a date matters, but not how you might think! In this episode, I’m joined by professional stylist Cassandra Sethi, founder of Next Level Wardrobe, to talk about how to dress with confi...

8 Juli 202552min

182. Sparks vs Chemistry: How To Build Chemistry & Stop Chasing Instant Attraction (throwback)

182. Sparks vs Chemistry: How To Build Chemistry & Stop Chasing Instant Attraction (throwback)

In this throwback episode, I’m breaking down the difference between sparks, chemistry, and compatibility and why chasing the spark can actually hurt your dating life. We’ll talk about what the spark r...

1 Juli 202518min

5 Lessons About Dating & Money From "Materialists" (Bonus Ep!)

5 Lessons About Dating & Money From "Materialists" (Bonus Ep!)

In this bonus episode, I'm sharing my thoughts on the new movie, "Materialists." I'm breaking down what this film says about love, money, capitalism and dating for the long term, and what it got righ...

27 Juni 202520min

181. Modern Meet Cutes: How & Where Folks Are Meeting IRL (Listener Stories)

181. Modern Meet Cutes: How & Where Folks Are Meeting IRL (Listener Stories)

In this episode, I’m diving into the magic of the real-life meet-cute (yes, it still happens)! You'll hear voice notes from listeners sharing stories about how they met people off the apps, plus my ow...

24 Juni 202542min

180. Dating A Friend Without "Ruining It" &  Friendship Advice w/ Anna Goldfarb

180. Dating A Friend Without "Ruining It" & Friendship Advice w/ Anna Goldfarb

Ever fallen for a friend? Struggled to balance dating and maintaining your closest connections? In this episode of Dating Intentionally, I’m joined by friendship expert and journalist Anna Goldfarb, a...

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