176. The Attachment Cycle Explained (Why We're Attracted to People Who End Up Hurting Us)

176. The Attachment Cycle Explained (Why We're Attracted to People Who End Up Hurting Us)

In this episode, I’m diving into why we keep getting drawn to the same types of partners, even when those relationships don't work out or we keep getting hurt. I’ll break down the psychology behind attraction, how our early experiences and attachment styles play a huge role, and why it’s so damn hard to break those familiar patterns. I’m also sharing my own journey of recognizing these dynamics in my life and what it took to finally shift from toxic cycles to healthier, more fulfilling connections. Plus, I’ve got some practical tips to help you do the same.


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215. How to Date with Intention and Find Your Person w/ Julie Krapfchick & Yue Xu (throwback)

215. How to Date with Intention and Find Your Person w/ Julie Krapfchick & Yue Xu (throwback)

This throwback episode (originally aired June 14, 2024) features Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick, hosts of Dateable Podcast, who've been sharing dating advice for 8 years. We cover practical tips for bette...

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214. Six Signs You’re On The Right Track With Dating

214. Six Signs You’re On The Right Track With Dating

Ever wonder if you’re actually making progress in dating, even when it doesn’t feel like it?I’m diving into how to tell you’re truly on the right track, even if you’re still single after A LOT of dati...

25 Nov 202531min

213. Keeping The Spark Alive In A Long Term Relationship w/ Tara LaFerrara

213. Keeping The Spark Alive In A Long Term Relationship w/ Tara LaFerrara

If you’re craving real talk and practical tools for lasting love, this episode is for you.I sit down with my trainer, Tara LaFerrera, for a deep, honest conversation about keeping the spark alive in l...

21 Nov 202551min

212. 4 Sneaky Red Flags You Wish You Caught Sooner (Dating Dilemmas)

212. 4 Sneaky Red Flags You Wish You Caught Sooner (Dating Dilemmas)

Spot the dating red flags you’re missing. In this episode, I break down 4 real dating dilemmas: mismatched intentions, situationships, messy family dynamics, and exes who want the perks without the co...

18 Nov 202529min

211. How To Flirt (Even If You’re “Bad” At It) w/ Francesca Hogi

211. How To Flirt (Even If You’re “Bad” At It) w/ Francesca Hogi

Why does dating feel so hard and can it be fun again? Dating feels messy right now, but I think it’s because it’s evolving. This week, I talk with love coach and author Francesca Hogi about the skills...

14 Nov 202555min

210. Five Communication Skills I Wish I'd Practiced Before Meeting The One

210. Five Communication Skills I Wish I'd Practiced Before Meeting The One

Everyone says communication is key, but what does good communication actually look like?I’m sharing the five most impactful communication tools I’ve learned so you can build trust, repair faster, and ...

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209. Why Self-Trust Is the Key to Feeling Safe in Love w/ Sarah Yudkin

209. Why Self-Trust Is the Key to Feeling Safe in Love w/ Sarah Yudkin

Are you overthinking your relationship? Do you ever wonder if it’s love or just anxiety?In this episode, I share my journey from relationship anxiety to building true inner safety and self-trust. I'm ...

7 Nov 202553min

208. Top 5 Tips For Dating When Your Biological Clock Is Ticking

208. Top 5 Tips For Dating When Your Biological Clock Is Ticking

If your biological clock is ticking and dating feels stressful, this episode’s for you! I share real-life dating advice and relationship tips for managing timelines, trusting the process, and a remind...

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