When Someone You Love Is Kinky: Love, Fear, and the Power of Acceptance with Janet Hardy

Where or how did you get your female or sissy name?”That’s the question posed by Veronica in Lipstick to the members of our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.Today’s episode is all about gender, identity, feminine names and what those names represent.Topics include:Does a sissy Mistress always choose the femme name?How does a Femdom feel about being asked to pick the feminine name for a submissive?How does feminization change someone’s outlook on labels?You’ll hear how a variety of ladies and sissies got a name that better represents who they are now. Dive into the origin stories of femme names and so much more.Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

19 Maj 29min

Our celebration of Masturbation Month continues with questions from listeners who want to know about our Mistress masturbation. Yes, your lovely Femdom hosts thoroughly enjoy self-love all the time, not just in Masturbation May. Duh! In this episode we answer questions like:What are your favorite topics or themes you get off to?        Dominating men? Women? Straight sex? Prior hot encounters? Switching?FOLLOW UP to that question: Is there anything new and exciting that gets you going these days that’s different from the usual?Do you ever fantasize/think about members of the Enchantrix Empire, Mistresses or subs? Do you ever masturbate thinking about famous people? What media, if any - do you prefer? Porn? Audio Porn? Books or erotica? Still images or thoughts and the throbbing buzz of a toy?   What’s your favorite way to enjoy yourself when you have unlimited time? Setting? How about when you need to rub out a quickie? Do you ever like to be watched or listened to while masturbating - could be face-to-face or long distance?When do you get the urge the most to masturbate?Does Ms. Olivia ever masturbate while watching baseball?How frequently do you masturbate? Did you ever limit or test yourself? Female edging? Number of consecutive orgasms?Or maybe it works completely differently? Squirting experience? Ever got caught?What or who do you think of most frequently/regularly, like a famous person, significant other, sexual activity / something different every time?Favorite place to masturbate? You’ll hear personal stories, lots of laughter and surprises galore!Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireHow to get a private session with your sexy Femdom podcast hosts.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

12 Maj 38min

Have you had a sissygasm? If you haven’t, then let’s make having a sissygasm your goal for this Masturbation May. In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about self-love while feminized or en femme:What is a sissygasm?How does a p-spot, prostate, or anal orgasm feel and how do you know you’re having one?Topics include:Subspace aka femme-spaceRole of submission in your feminine journeyMistress guidance or control to enhance your sissy trainingTrying to have a sissygasm on your own versus with guidance from your MistressWhy experts say to have patience when learning how to sissygasmMedical issues that might change your ability to have a sissygasmRole of chastity in sissy playImportance of getting into the right sissy mindsetHow the ritual of dressing in sexy lingerie sets the moodSpecific tips to move from stroking to feminine masturbation styles:Hand positionsBody positionsLube suggestionsSex toys like butt plugs, prostate massangers, dildos and vibratorsFinding the best angle to stimulate your prostateHappy Masturbation May — what a fun month!Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

5 Maj 32min

Are you ready for Masturbation May? It’s the month-long celebration of all things involving self-love. Your Femdom hosts certainly don’t need permission to extol the pleasures of masturbation, but we do think this month is special because everyone ELSE is talking about flying solo. Mistress Olivia starts off asking about masturbation habits: Are there studies?How much do people masturbate?What is normal?Why is there something called a gender gap in masturbation?Can you guess what percentage of people masturbate at work?Do you masturbate at work?Since your hosts are Femdoms, we'll talk about some of our plans for Masturbation May and we hope you'll try them on your own or even play with us!Practical ways to spice up your masturbation include:Ideas for new hand positions or lubeHow to involve your whole bodySpecific sex toys we love Tell us what you think of these tips for having a playful and exciting Masturbation May.Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

28 Apr 29min

What do you think of when you hear the term cock control? Mistress Erika says there are very few things more powerful than a man’s biological directive. She’s right and this episode is all about Femdoms who enjoy controlling a man by controlling his orgasm (or lack thereof). But, we’ve had questions asking if cock control automatically means chastity. Short answer, no, but the longer answer is much more fun!Let’s talk cock control:What does this term mean?What is the difference between cock control and guided masturbation?Is edging and JOI (jerk off instructions) considered cock control?Are remote controlled sex toys part of cock control?Where does gooning fall in these various types of masturbation sessions?What about the role of chastity or even a ruined orgasm for controlling that cock (and man)?What are some examples of cock control in a session?What makes someone a fun playmate for a Mistress? Why would a man want to turn his orgasm over to a woman?What is it about orgasm control that makes it so much fun for women?Hear personal stories about kinky playmates including how one man went from “if I’m paying, I’m spraying” to hands off orgasm control by Mistress Erika.Does someone have to be submissive to enjoy edging on command? We want to hear your stories and experiences so get in touch!Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

21 Apr 32min

BDSM: Are you a switch?   Are you a switch?In BDSM, what exactly ‘is’ a switch? What is the difference between power exchange in a Dominant/submissive relationship and someone who is a Top or a bottom. A chance comment by a podcast listener inspired this episode. Since Ms. Olivia and Ms. Erika are Femdoms - Dominant only and don't switch - we needed to have a guest who ‘does’ switch. Meet Miss Eden. She’s a switch and we have a great time on this episode.The ladies use quotes from podcast listeners and playmates to spark the conversations about:Does someone choose to be submissive or is that behavior from innate traits?How does someone find out they like to switch?If someone is submissive, what happens if they try to be dominant?Is it possible for someone to act dominant if they don’t feel that way?How does Miss Eden move between roles of Mistress and submissive?Can someone be 100% submissive or 100% Dominant?Why is there debate in some of the BDSM world about the validity of being a switch?Can someone be submissive when presenting feminine and then Dominant when in male mode?Does being feminized increase feelings of submission?Are all sissies submissive?We love our smart, kinky listeners and really appreciate your comments and questions. Listener inspired episodes are awesome!  Keep the ideas and inspiration coming.Find the ladies of LDW on Discord by doing a search with the letters LDW in the search bar. Our names should pop up: LDWEden, LDWErika, and LDWOliviaMiss Eden:eden@enchantrixEmpire.comTwitter X:  @SultryInEdenMistress Olivia:olivia@enchantrixempire.comTwitter X:  @MistressOlivia1    BlueSky:  MsOliviaPersonal Blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika:Erika@enchantrixempire.comTwitter X and Blue Sky:  @ErikaEnchantrix  Personal blog:  Intelligent Phone FantasyOur free adult social networking site:  Enchantrix Empire

14 Apr 34min

In this episode, your Femdom hosts talk about one of the most popular roleplay fantasies: the tricked, trapped, and transformed sissy fantasy. There are a variety of scenarios and options in this feminization fantasy and that’s what makes it so fun.(( There's a blooper that we hope will make you laugh as hard as we did. ))Today’s points include:What Ms Erika did on a Saturday night - hint, it’s not what you might think.What happens when a sissy is nervous about being transformed.Why does a Domme love to increase nervousness during some coerced feminization scenes?How does each woman create the sissy salon transformation fantasy.Is feminization always a submissive act?Why are most of us attracted to things that are taboo or looked upon as naughty?Switching gender roles and expectations as a way to take a break from “masculine” life and the responsibilities of non-femme life.Does sissy transformation ever get to the point of no return? What happens?Will feminization automatically mean coerced bi scenes?How does a Mistress manage the mindset of a sissy?This episode is full of ideas for roleplays about sissification and coerced feminization. Find out behind the scenes info about how these fantasies are created and performed.The episode ends with one of the most important reasons why it’s important TO YOU to have a Mistress skilled in feminization and sissy training.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyOur adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire

7 Apr 32min

Today’s episode is inspired by someone who is new to phone sex and stumbled across the LDW Enchantrix Empire of adult sites. He sent an email to Ms Erika asking if he can still do a call if he’s not submissive. That’s a great question! It’s true that most of the LDW sites have a Femdom focus. The Weekly Hot Spot podcast concentrates on BDSM, kink, feminization, and things like sissy training. But, do you have to be submissive to call us?  The short answer is no but that answer is too short for a full podcast episode so the hosts discuss talking with people who simply call for an intimate conversation with a smart, beautiful woman.Did you know that one of the most popular LDW sites is called VoxErotic? That means Voice Erotic or sexy voices. Which we do have no matter what we’re talking about.Mistress Olivia and Ms Erika almost take for granted that our most popular skill set includes things like being an engaging, well-rounded conversationalist. Even those who identify as submissive for the erotic roleplay don’t want to be the sub for the conversation after the play.This is a look behind the scenes of what we do and how we do it. Candid conversation, funny stories of epic sex fails and ideas for your future call with us. Speaking of joking around about sex ... remeber sex doesn’t need to be all serious all the time - it’s fun to be frisky with friends without the Femdom focus.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyVox Erotic

31 Mars 26min