All about chastity: Including using chastity for sissy training.
In this episode we continue our conversation with the Chastity Queen and explore using chastity for sissy training and feminization. Now, just because we’re talking about putting a sissy in chastity, much of the conversation about chastity will apply to many people who are curious about this form of submission to a Dominant Woman.Chastity Queen has a live-in sissy submissive named Bunny. The ladies start off asking for a reality check about being a full-time, live-in sub to a Femdom. Some of these answers will likely surprise folks who have a fantasy about being a live-in sub or slave to a Domme.What does it mean when the Chastity Queen says, “Chastity is freedom.” This can include:The chastity cage focuses the attention of a submissiveBeing locked promotes devotion to MistressThe cage is a constant reminder that they have a higher purposeThe chaste sub is freed from mindless masturbation“There is nothing more feminizing than to not have a cock available.” That’s a great comment about using chastity for sissy training and feminization.Chastity cages that mimic a vaginaBeing caged increases feminine feelings The role of humiliation in BDSM and chastity playUsing small chastity cages to shrink the clitty of a sissyCrossdresser purging and cycles of interest in feminizationYou’ll hear personal stories, suggestions and ideas as well as tips for interactions with a Mistress. Even if you have no interest in chastity, this episode will give you a peek inside the interior worlds of three Femdoms.Chastity Queen Linktree Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
2 Dec 202442min
Inside the mind of a Domme: Meet the Chastity Queen
Today’s guest, the Chastity Queen, talks about her personal experiences being a Domme and so much more. This is your chance to listen in as 3 Dominant Women talk about life, love and power.Topics include:The role of women in society and the trad wife phenomenonHow men treat wives versus DommesThe dynamics of power and what power exchange really looks likeHow serving a Femdom can make a man a better husband to his wifeCommunication, kink, and intimacyTeaching men how to serve womenWhy treating women well actually benefits the manThe value of having a BDSM kink communityHow people learn kinky skillsWhy experience and knowledge is so important with BDSM (and life!)This is a wide ranging conversation that gives you a peek into the minds of these Dommes. Chastity Queen Linktree Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
25 Nov 202432min
So you want to be a service submissive. What does that mean to a Femdom Mistress?
Every Femdom hears this: “Mistress I want to serve you.” What does that mean? There are many ways for a sub to serve a Mistress. There is no arbitrary ‘right’ way to have a D/s relationship. Part of BDSM negotiation means making sure that each person is in agreement about roles, expectations, activities, etc. Topics in this podcast episode include:The difference between fantasy BDSM roleplay and lifestyle kink relationships.A discussion of some things that help different people to feel submissive.The role of chastity, orgasm denial and/or suffering for your Mistress.Does a service submissive automatically mean sexual service?What are some non-sexual things that a service sub provides?Since your podcast hosts do Distance Domination, the role of a service sub is a little different but the fundamentals are the same as an in person play partner. What can someone do for their Goddess? The ladies have some specific suggestions:Visit our blogs and stay on the blog for at least 3 minutes, click on several pages, staying on each page for several minutes.Write comments on our blogsFollow us on social media; comment on and share our posts.What does the sub get out of serving a Mistress?Hear what other submissives say about being a service sub.Have you ever wanted to be a real service sub? What does that phrase mean to you?Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
11 Nov 202431min
Do trans women get you horny?
We hear all your secrets and sexual fantasies. A lot of our callers fantasize about sex with a transwoman. Today’s episode explores this.Topics include:How popular is the sex with a transwoman fantasy?Many men ask, am I straight if I want to suck the cock of a transwoman?To start off, a quick overview of names for transwomen and how to be respectful with the terms you use to talk about these people. For example, some of the outdated and terms are:She maleTrannyTransvestiteT girlTranssexualThis conversation covers:Gender identity, sexual orientation, sexual desiresWhat to call genitalia? What is cis gender?BDSM, erotic humiliation and submission.The role of a Femdom or Dominant woman who says, you will suck her cock for me.You’ll hear quotes from men who want to suck the cock of a transwoman, a transwoman who experienced her first sexual experience with another transwoman, and so much more.Do YOU have a fantasy of being with a transwoman?What is your fantasy?Have you done this in person? What happened?We want to hear everything!Mistress Oliviai’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyOur free adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire
4 Nov 202429min
What does it mean to be submissive?
This episode is inspired by a blog post written by our friend and fellow Mistress, Ms Demi.Listen in as three Pro Domme’s talk about the submissives in our lives. What do Femdoms have to say about power exchange and those who need to submit to powerful, dominant women?Mistress Olivia kicks off the conversation with a quote by Mistress Demi:“Submission isn’t merely about obeying orders or bending to another’s will. It’s a profound journey into the depths of one’s own desires. Learning to trust, to yield, and to find freedom in the embrace of another’s dominance.”Topics include:BDSM and trust between the Dominant and the submissive.The difference between a fantasy roleplay BDSM scene and wanting to be a lifestyle submissive.The importance of BDSM communication.How to do BDSM negotiation of needs, desires, and limits.What are the five words that you should never say to a Femdom?The answer might really surprise you.The ladies dispel the myth that submissives are weak or damaged. Submissives must have power in order for there to be power exchange.Is submission a gift to the Domme?What do these women think of those who submit?Lots of insight into the submissive journey from the perspective of three Femdoms (who are always, of course, right about everything LOL).Mistress Demi’s blog: Sensual Cock TeaseMs Demi’s blog post that inspired this episode: What Does It Mean To Be Submissive?Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress
28 Okt 202430min
How to talk to your partner about crossdressing, feminization, and sissy desires
Today’s episode is inspired by a listener who wants help talking with a partner about feminization desires. Anita wants us to say something that will change the minds of wives or girlfriends who don’t like feminization with their partner. We don’t know that we can change minds, but this episode covers topics like:What do cisgender, heterosexual women think about crossdressers or sissies?What might be going on in the minds of the cis female partners?Here are some of the questions female partners of crossdressers might have:My boyfriend wears lingerie, what does that mean?Does wearing women’s clothes mean he is gay or bi?If I encourage him to explore his femme side, will he leave me?What does this desire to be a submissive sissy mean for us as a couple?How does a woman attracted to men feel about a partner who wants to dress as a woman?Other topics include:The difference between Drag Queens, crossdressers and sissies.Why do both of your Femdom hosts like crossdressers, sissies and men in panties?How to have conversations about erotic desires, boundaries and intimacy.Have you tried to talk with your female partner about feminization?What happened? If you haven’t had that kind of talk but you want to then this episode will hopefully help you have that conversation.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
21 Okt 202431min
It’s LOCKTOBER: are you ready for chastity?
Basically, Locktober is a month-long chastity challenge. Typically, it involves those who identify as submissive and wear a chastity cage the entire month of October. This episode is about orgasm delay, orgasm denial, chastity training, and why a Femdon enjoys having a chastity pet.Topics include:What is chastity?What is Locktober?Why would someone want to go a full month without an orgasm? Can you participate in Locktober if you can’t or don’t want to go a whole month without an orgasm?Does Loctober always require a chastity cage?Are there ways to experience orgasm denial without a cage?What is chastity by will?What is Mistress Olivia’s workaround when someone can’t wear a chastity cage?How to use Locktober to break bad habits like chronic masturbation or to install good habits like achieving fitness or other personal goals.What is panty chastity?How to use chastity as part of sissy training or feminization.How to someone in a very small chastity cage to emphasize the emasculation of a sissy.This episode is all about submission, cock control, and the various ways a Femdon can use chastity for some wicked fun. If you’re curious about Locktober, chastity or sissy training using denial, this episode is for you!Previous episodes about chastity:Chastity Interview with Mature MetalHow do I get my vanilla wife to put me in chastity? Meet Mrs. Mature MetalMistress Olivia’s blog Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog Intelligent Phone FantasyEnchantrix Empire: our free adult social networking site
14 Okt 202425min
Are you worried about topping from the bottom? BDSM advice from your Femdom hosts.
We hear from a lot of subs who are worried about topping from the bottom.That’s a BDSM term that means a submissive who flips the power dynamic in a way that is disrespectful, rude or otherwise irritating to the Dominant. Some subs hear that and worry that they are topping from the bottom if they make ANY requests of the Domme. We don’t want you to worry so this episode is all about how to communicate your needs to your Femdom Mistress.This is inspired by someone who wants to know how to request a Pro Domme to be creative without acting like he is trying to be “in charge” of the session. Topics include: What is topping from the bottom?Some relationship dynamics and other issues to consider when deciding what is bad BDSM behavior from a submissive.Insight into the role of vulnerability and trust in BDSM power exchange relationships.How to communicate with a Dominatrix or Femdom MistressDifferences in communication with a Pro Domme versus an unpaid kink player that you meet in BDSM circles.Differences between fantasy submission and power exchange.Your Femdom hosts give examples of how to communicate your desires in appropriate ways.Remember communication, trust and honesty about what you need are the most important aspects of any BDSM relationship. This podcast will give you some of the tools to feel confident that you are not topping from the bottom.Mistress Olivia’s blog Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog Intelligent Phone Fantasy
7 Okt 202434min
