When Someone You Love Is Kinky: Love, Fear, and the Power of Acceptance with Janet Hardy

We get lots of questions about feminization. A question that is on the minds of many a crossdresser, sissy or transwoman is about self-confidence in appearance. We get it. Your physical appearance is very important but it’s your mind and heart that will end up having the most influence over your experience of being feminized.In this episode, you’ll hear personal stories from the Femdom hosts about building confidence, self-acceptance, and resisting the urge to compare yourself to others. What do you do when your reality doesn’t live up to the fantasy?That’s a common question for many kinky people and it’s especially true for those exploring feminization.Don’t worry!  We’ve got you covered (pun intended).Like always, along with the sexy stories, you’ll get practical tips, advice and instructions to reinforce your sissy training. Remember, confidence is the sexiest attribute you can have — well that and some really cute panties. Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

27 Jan 30min

Are you a naughty sissy? Maybe you’re simply someone who needs a firm hand with your feminization training. Perhaps you are someone who is new to sissification and curious about what might be involved. This episode is all about using BDSM protocols, pain, and firm control for sissy training.What is petticoat discipline?Petticoating and its origin in Victorian England (TLDR those people were very kinky!)Discipline can be used for behavior modification, correction, and more.Maintenance spanking to ensure submission and obedience.Mistress Erika points out that the training might not involve any form of physical pain - it can be things like:Erotic humiliation which we call pain for the brainBDSM high protocol used to reinforce roles of power exchangeFeminization as part of a FLR - Female Led RelationshipsHow a Femdom Mistress can use tasks and rewards to reinforce feminization goalsThe hosts give specific scene examples that call for:Locking clothing and shoesCBT: ball slapping, etc.ChastityHave you ever thought about how many ways there are to train a sissy? We have (as you can tell) - now we want to hear from you! Do you need a firm hand? Let us know.Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

20 Jan 31min

What do you do when you have kink desires and you can’t get involved in the kink community or go, in person, to a Pro Domme? For many people, the solution is finding an online Mistress or someone who specializes in online domination.The ladies first talk about different places where someone might find a Femdom. Unless you happen to ‘run across’ a Dominant Woman in the wild, so to speak, we tend to be in the kink community, Pro Domme spaces, or available for online Domination. Those categories are not mutually exclusive; many ladies belong to more than one group. What are some of the benefits of having an online Mistress? Your hosts are both with LDW Group femdom phone sex so our experience is only with this elite company. This episode talks about some of the unique benefits of what we do:PrivacyThe caller controls his or her anonymity by choosing what to share.That anonymity allows for a discrete exploration of erotic fantasiesPlaying with a professional means an affair gone wrong won’t blow up your lifeSpur of the moment sessionsKeeping the various aspects of your life separateMistress Erika mentions a pet peeve of hers and Ms Olivia agrees! Listen to behind the scenes stories and learn about phone sex reviews, Mistress recommendations and more.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyMistress recommendation form: My Perfect Mistress

13 Jan 38min

This episode is inspired by several sissy sluts who have a fantasy about being a porn star. That is the perfect career for a sissy slut, isn’t it? LOL The Femdom hosts talk about transwomen who are porn stars right now. Do you have a favorite trans porn star? We do and you’ll hear some of our top picks who are in the adult entertainment business right now.The ladies talk about a sissy gurl they know who is exploring this as part of her sissy training and feminization. What are some of the possible roleplay options for a sissy:The sexy girlfriend with a special something extraThe submissive sissy The slutty bimbo - which often involves humiliation and emasculationAnything that includes a sissy maid - what kind of clean up will happen? The cuckold husband turned into a sissySPH - small penis humiliation and/or chastityThe role of BBC in sissy pornCum eating and CEI to train a sissy to love to eat cumWhat kind of script or scene would you want to be in? Hmmmmm?Let us know!Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

6 Jan 32min

We’re posting this just before the New Year because we want to give you a chance to hear our kinky New Year’s ideas before you finalize your goals list. LOL We’re so helpful.Right at the top, the conversation veers into an odd kink goal for Mistress Olivia.  Mistress Erika has a New Year’s goal of getting a specific kind of submissive pet. Could you be the one? You might hear about the goal for Ms. Erika’s ignore pet - or you might just hear the sounds of silence that thrill someone with an ignore fetish.Speaking of requests, Ms Olivia wants to do a sex train in 2025 using a universal remote control app. This goal should go nicely with another goal: A submissive sissy who wants to be a porn star!As always, this is a conversation between Femdoms about BDSM, kink, life and love.So …. Join in!What things do YOU want to explore in the New Year?Mistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

30 Dec 202428min

This is not your traditional Christmas theme, this is more of an end of year look at some of the top episodes of The Weekly Hot Spot. We owe our growth and success to you, our listeners, so this episode is also a personal thank you to each of you for joining us on our kinky journey of BDSM education, sissy training, sex work and general naughtiness.Mistress Olivia talks about the number of downloads in the past year. Apparently, the numbers put us in the top 10% of podcasts - not just sex podcasts or BDSM kink podcasts – but all podcasts. That boggles our minds when we think about it.What category is number one? Sissy training and feminization shows rule the top podcast episodes. The number one download is from January of this year: Should All Sissies Learn to Masturbate Like A Woman? Today your Femdom hosts talk about sissygasms, sex while feminized, and more.The second largest category is cock control. Now, we know that cock control can mean everything from JOI, guided masturbation, tease and delay, tease and denial all the way to total orgasm control with chastity. There are so many options and we’re really glad to see this category is extremely popular.Other popular podcast episodes feature conversations about: cock sucking, cuckolding, strapon play or pegging and more. The ladies have a great time doing the podcast and this one is full of laughter, sidetracks called going on safari, and general shenanigans.Thank you for joining us for this kinky journey! We’re so glad you’re here with us!Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

23 Dec 202430min

We listen and we hear you. Many of our feminization friends talk about needing structure, support and practical tips. In fact, we have so many requests that we’ve created something special just for you!This episode is all about a year long feminization calendar from your favorite sexy podcast hosts. Don’t feel alone! Use the calendar as a way to stay on track with your feminization and find inspiration to go to the next level.This feminization training calendar is a budget friendly way to bridge the gap between feeling all alone and being under strict, personalized guidance from a Femdom Mistress.52 weeks of feminization Fun assignmentsSexy training Feminine affirmationsPractical adviceAnd so much more.Are you ready to begin?Here’s the link to the Year of Feminization by Mistress Erika and Mistress Olivia.Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

16 Dec 202430min

There is an art to tease and denial games. It makes sense to think that the woman is the leader of T&D and that’s true but, there is also the relationship between Mistress and her submissive. Today’s episode asks the question: Do you have what it takes to be a Tease Toy for a Femdom Mistress?First, the ladies talk about tease toys. Who are they, what does this phrase mean?The ladies share insights into what they both appreciate about someone who is a tease toy. You’ll hear what turns them on about YOU!The ladies, of course, find the control thrilling.You'll hear conversation about power exchange and energy.Both really adore the sounds a man makes when being teased - moaning, gasping, and pleading.Do you love to be teased?Are you a fan of edging and orgasm delay?Ms Erika mentions chastity and teasing.Is there a difference between being a tease toy or a submissive man?Do you have to be submissive or into BDSM to be a tease pet?What are some of the teasing techniques?How does a Mistress push your boundaries, come up with creative ideas and guide you to some of the most explosive orgasms ever?How does distance domination work when doing tease and denial?What does a Mistress look for in a tease toy?What will happen if you come to each woman for teasing?The answers might surprise you!Mistress Erika’s personal blog:  Intelligent Phone FantasyMistress Olivia’s personal blog:  Experienced Mistress

9 Dec 202434min