3813: Why You're Afraid to Commit to Your Goals by Cylon George of Spiritual Living For Busy People

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3368: Dr. Kelly Flanagan explores how, over time, many of us stop asking for what we truly want, burdened by guilt and shame. Drawing on heartwarming stories of children’s selfless desires, he argues that reconnecting with our ability to ask is essential to uncovering joy and love. Rediscovering our wants can lead to more meaningful connections and a more joyful life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drkellyflanagan.com/when-did-you-stop-asking-for-what-you-want/ Quotes to ponder: "Our wants, in the end, reveal the depths of love within us." "As children, we learn our asking is forbidden." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

26 Okt 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3367: By slowing down and simplifying your life, you can reduce stress and rediscover joy in everyday moments. Clare Devlin offers practical tips to create more space in your day, from getting more sleep and leaving time-buffers in your schedule to engaging in meaningful conversations. These small adjustments lead to a calmer, more intentional life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://nosidebar.com/enjoy-simple-life/ Quotes to ponder: "By making conscious decisions to slow down and declutter aspects of the day, your day today can become more simple." "Removing the excess in your life often results in having more to share: whether that is your money, talents, or time." "The simple fact that our hearts need to change if we want our lives on the outside to change." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

25 Okt 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3366: David Cain emphasizes the unmatched value of attention, showing how it often surpasses time in importance. While time is a finite resource, how we direct our attention determines its true quality. Cain encourages readers to focus more deliberately, underscoring that attention can transform even ordinary moments into meaningful experiences. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.raptitude.com/2009/03/the-only-resource-more-precious-than-time/ Quotes to ponder: "Attention is the only real currency in life, and we spend it constantly." "Time and attention are not the same resource; they merely tend to appear together." "Moments of living become precious when we invest our attention fully into them." Episode references: Deep Work: https://www.amazon.com/Deep-Work-Focused-Success-Distracted/dp/1455586692 The Power of Now: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

24 Okt 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3365: David Cain explores the concept that attention, not time, is our most precious resource. By understanding how attention drives productivity and well-being, Cain encourages readers to rethink how they spend their focus daily. His reflections offer a compelling reminder to guard and direct our mental energy for a more fulfilling life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.raptitude.com/2009/03/the-only-resource-more-precious-than-time/ Quotes to ponder: "Time passes whether you’re paying attention to it or not, but attention is the ultimate currency in terms of how we experience life." "Attention is your actual life it’s what you are immersed in at any given moment." "If you aren’t deliberate about what you pay attention to, your mind will fill your time with whatever gets its hooks into it first." Episode references: "Getting Things Done": https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Things-Done-Stress-Free-Productivity/dp/0143126563 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

23 Okt 202411min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3364: Daneika Glenn shares five habits to help you master fear and transform your life. From taking small, consistent steps to embracing discomfort, these practical strategies show that fear doesn't have to hold you back. By confronting worst-case scenarios and making fear an ally, you can begin to create the life you truly desire. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://learning2fly.org/5-habits-you-need-to-master-your-fears-and-leap-into-a-new-life/ Quotes to ponder: "You don't need to do the impossible by bedtime, but you do need to build habits that support you and increase your confidence." "Fear loses its grip on us if we are willing to embrace many new experiences, just for the fun of it." "It's not about big wins. It's about taking small steps consistently to win big." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

22 Okt 20249min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3363: Joshua Fields Millburn explores how jealousy is a destructive emotion, rooted in societal competition and consumer culture. He argues that we can choose not to experience jealousy, offering simple methods to eliminate it, ultimately leading to greater emotional well-being and freedom from comparison. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.theminimalists.com/jealousy/ & http://www.theminimalists.com/die/ Quotes to ponder: "Jealousy is ugly: it is never a way to express we care, it’s only a channel through which we broadcast our insecurities." "Jealousy, no matter how jealous we get, will never help." "Like our televisions, we can choose to turn it off." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

21 Okt 20248min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3362: Richard Paterson explores the idea that true happiness can't be achieved through our ever-changing self-image. He contrasts the restless, unsatisfied self with our unconditioned self, which is inherently peaceful and content. By shedding attachment to our self-image, we can connect with our true nature and experience lasting joy and peace. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.thinklessandgrowrich.com/self-image/ Quotes to ponder: "True happiness will always be a work in progress." "You don’t have to create it. You don’t have to fix or change anything about yourself. Your true nature is peace however unlikely that may seem." "Don’t strive to be a peaceful person. Be peace." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

20 Okt 202410min

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3361: Andy Hill shares how increasing his income didn’t solve his financial problems, despite earning more over time. He highlights the importance of focusing on net worth rather than just income, as building wealth is about managing the gap between earnings and expenses. Hill’s story emphasizes that lasting financial security comes from reducing debt, controlling lifestyle inflation, and investing wisely. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://marriagekidsandmoney.com/why-increasing-your-income-wont-solve-your-financial-problems Quotes to ponder: "My net worth was -$50,000. So it was really my Net 'Unworth.'" "We grow the gap by increasing income and reducing expenses; we protect the gap by avoiding lifestyle inflation." "Income can go away in an instant. My income would be gone, but my net worth would still be intact." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

20 Okt 202410min