Getting Comfortable: What Happens When We "Let Ourselves Go" in Relationships?
What does it really mean when people say someone has "let themselves go" in a relationship? In this episode, we unpack the complicated mix of comfort, attraction, body changes, and effort that comes w...
15 Apr 1h 1min
Sexual History & Dating — Does Your Number of Previous Partners Matter?
Does your number of previous partners matter when it comes to dating? In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we talk about body count, sexual history, double standards, insecurity, and how past exper...
8 Apr 1h 2min
Music To Bang To- ENCORE
In this encore episode- One of our listeners sent in a topic idea and this week the Dildo Whisperer and Ajay discuss how music can enhance the sexual experience. Find out what makes a great sex playli...
1 Apr 36min
Finding Pleasure in Pain – Part 6 Aftercare: Physical and Emotional Care After Pain Play
Aftercare is not optional—it's part of the play. In Part 5 of the Finding Pleasure in Pain series, we're talking about aftercare: the physical and emotional support that helps bodies and minds recover...
25 Mars 39min
Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 5- What It Means Emotionally
Pain doesn't just live in the body—it can move emotions, unlock release, and create powerful moments of connection. In this episode of Finding Pleasure in Pain, we explore what it means emotionally to...
18 Mars 57min
Taking a Sex "Time Out" in a Relationship: Helpful Reset or Risky Move?
Taking a break from sex while in a relationship can feel scary, relieving, confusing—or all three at once. In this episode, we explore the idea of a sex "time out": what it is, why couples choose it, ...
11 Mars 45min
Finding Pleasure in Pain: Part 4- Safety and Risk-Aware Play
Pain can be powerful, erotic, and deeply connecting — but only when it's grounded in safety, consent, and awareness. In this fourth episode of Finding Pleasure in Pain series, we explore what risk-awa...
4 Mars 51min
Valentine's Day Ideas When You've Just Started Dating
Valentine's Day can feel awkward when you've just started dating. Is a card too much? Is doing nothing a red flag? And does the holiday automatically come with expectations around sex? In this episode...
25 Feb 54min
