Dildo Whisperer

Advocating for your sexual health in a medical setting shouldn't feel scary — but for many of us, it does. In this episode, we break down how to speak up for your body, your pleasure, your identity, a...

18 Feb 1h 4min

Pain doesn't always mean suffering — sometimes, it means connection, trust, and unexpected pleasure. In this  third episode of Finding Pleasure in Pain series, we explore the many types of pain play w...

11 Feb 55min

What does it actually mean to date a trans person—and how is gender identity different from sexual orientation? In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we break down the basics without dumbing it down...

4 Feb 1h 6min

Your Dildo Whisperer is still dealing with her cross country move. Which means this week's episode is an encore episode! Enjoy this encore and we will be back with new episodes soon.  ENCORE Episode T...

28 Jan 44min

The Dildo Whisperer is wrapping up the 3rd season of the show with a look back at Romaine and Ajay's top 3 episodes of 2025. This is a fun look back on episodes that were both serious and comical but ...

14 Jan 50min

In part 2 of our Finding Pleasure in Pain series we will focus on why pain can be an erotic, intimate, empowering — and deeply pleasurable part of sex — when it's done with care, clarity, and consent....

7 Jan 48min

Why do some people find pleasure in pain? In this educational, sex-positive series, we are going to explore the science and psychology behind erotic pain—how certain sensations activate the brain's pl...

31 Dec 202529min

The holidays aren't just about twinkling lights and cozy sweaters—they're also a perfect chance to spark intimacy, reconnect with your body, and bring a little extra spice into the season. In this epi...

24 Dec 202527min