
How Resentment Destroys Intimacy, and 3 Steps to Repair It
Is there a disagreement with your partner that you are still hanging onto? Is the lingering resentment getting in the way of your love? Today Robert and Sharla are talking about resentment – and provi...
19 Apr 202321min

5 Ways To Better Intimacy
What is the minimum commitment level you need to achieve if you don't want things to deteriorate in your relationship? How many dates are enough? And how much time should you spend talking to each oth...
12 Apr 202324min

Stop Escalating Fights With This Secret Weapon: Repair Attempts
What can you do to stop a fight from escalating? Surely there’s a better way to argue? If you feel like your communication with your partner sometimes takes a disrespectful turn, then today’s episode ...
5 Apr 202324min

What's the #1 Relationship Poison?
Have you ever felt put down, mocked, belittled, shamed, or called names in what you thought was a 'loving' relationship? Or have you perhaps been guilty of sarcasm, eye-rolling, and passive-aggressive...
29 Mars 202329min

Signs of a Failing Marriage (Criticism)
Saying 'I need help with the dishes' to your spouse is far better than saying 'you are so lazy.' Asking 'why are you always on your phone at dinner?' is not as helpful as expressing that you miss the ...
22 Mars 202323min

How To Stop The Cycle of Fighting In a Relationship
Is marital conflict normal? How about natural? Could it even be necessary? Sharla and Robert are here to prove to you that it's a resounding 'yes' to all three questions – and that after this episode,...
15 Mars 202324min

The Secret to Staying in Love
How do we keep that early, ‘in love’ feeling alive? If the romance has started to taper off in your relationship, fear not! Robert and Sharla are here to breathe life into your relationship with an in...
8 Mars 202320min

How Trust and Vulnerability Can Save Your Marriage
If trust is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship, how do we get it back when it starts getting eroded? Robert and Sharla are playing with a delicious paradox today: the idea that trust requires u...
1 Mars 202321min



















