53 How to be happier when big changes threaten your marriage
The many marriages model has helped us manage to stay both committed and independent over the long term. In this episode we are talking about what happens when a marriage goes through inevitable chang...
26 Dec 202134min
52 Sex parties? Yes, sex parties.
What makes for well-done casual play? In this episode we're talking about practical considerations for hosting or attending a sex party. How do we set up a safe place for people to share erotic play? ...
19 Dec 202141min
51 Let's optimize our sex lives!
No matter how good your sex life is, we're all growing, changing critters in a dynamic world. So something will change and we'll want to adapt so we can have the best sex we can. In this episode we're...
12 Dec 202134min
50 Where is envy secretly kicking your ass?
Envy is kind of like a feeling of want, except that it totally bites. In this episode we are digging into envy: how it can get in the way of our relationships and leave us feeling totally worthless at...
5 Dec 202134min
49 Using love languages to make the gift-giving season more pleasurable
Do you want to give gifts that inspire feelings of love and pleasure? In this episode we're talking about focusing on the feelings we create and understanding our people, so we know what and how they ...
28 Nov 202133min
48 Keeping sex hot over the long term
There are lots of disruptors to sex - kids, grief, burnout, pandemics... In this episode we're talking about ways to get the hotness back, or keep things hot, or make them even hotter. And how to deci...
21 Nov 202134min
47 Nuanced Conversations in Polyamory: Secondaries, Solos, and Couple's Privilege
Poly is not mono! Which might sound silly, but in this case we mean that polyamory is not monolithic. There are as many ways to have polyamorous relationships as there are people having them, and the ...
14 Nov 202146min
46 How, when, and why to CELEBRATE!
How do you celebrate? Do you wait for a holiday or for someone to tell you it's time to mark an occasion? Celebrations help us see and acknowledge the things that have meaning for us- in other words, ...
7 Nov 202129min
