58 Anxiety when you are consensually non-monogamous
Can anxiety can be an opportunity? Consensual non-monogamy is not simple, and it can lead to anxiety. In this episode we talk about how that anxiety can be an opportunity and a guide to learn more abo...
20 Feb 202241min
57 Affection and Non-sexual Intimacy
What if we want to show affection without being sexual? In this episode we talk about some of our experiences with difficulties that can come up around expressing and engaging in intimacy outside sexu...
13 Feb 202224min
56 Creative Monogamy
It sounds kind of weird, but monogamy isn’t necessarily the opposite of non-monogamy. In this episode we talk about how we decide what the boundaries of our relationships are, and share some ideas abo...
6 Feb 202236min
55 Parenting While Polyamorous
Talking with your kids about your relationships as a parent can be really beneficial for all of you, but it does take some care and attention. In this episode we talk about our experiences talking wit...
30 Jan 202245min
54 Where do we learn the skills of adult friendships?
Are you married to your best friend? Do you have several best friends? Do you have friends that aren't best? In this episode we're talking about the nature of adult friendships, about the skills of fr...
2 Jan 202234min
53 How to be happier when big changes threaten your marriage
The many marriages model has helped us manage to stay both committed and independent over the long term. In this episode we are talking about what happens when a marriage goes through inevitable chang...
26 Dec 202134min
52 Sex parties? Yes, sex parties.
What makes for well-done casual play? In this episode we're talking about practical considerations for hosting or attending a sex party. How do we set up a safe place for people to share erotic play? ...
19 Dec 202141min
51 Let's optimize our sex lives!
No matter how good your sex life is, we're all growing, changing critters in a dynamic world. So something will change and we'll want to adapt so we can have the best sex we can. In this episode we're...
12 Dec 202134min
