50 Where is envy secretly kicking your ass?
Envy is kind of like a feeling of want, except that it totally bites. In this episode we are digging into envy: how it can get in the way of our relationships and leave us feeling totally worthless at...
5 Dec 202134min
49 Using love languages to make the gift-giving season more pleasurable
Do you want to give gifts that inspire feelings of love and pleasure? In this episode we're talking about focusing on the feelings we create and understanding our people, so we know what and how they ...
28 Nov 202133min
48 Keeping sex hot over the long term
There are lots of disruptors to sex - kids, grief, burnout, pandemics... In this episode we're talking about ways to get the hotness back, or keep things hot, or make them even hotter. And how to deci...
21 Nov 202134min
47 Nuanced Conversations in Polyamory: Secondaries, Solos, and Couple's Privilege
Poly is not mono! Which might sound silly, but in this case we mean that polyamory is not monolithic. There are as many ways to have polyamorous relationships as there are people having them, and the ...
14 Nov 202146min
46 How, when, and why to CELEBRATE!
How do you celebrate? Do you wait for a holiday or for someone to tell you it's time to mark an occasion? Celebrations help us see and acknowledge the things that have meaning for us- in other words, ...
7 Nov 202129min
45 Silent agreement - One person's perspective on a sexless marriage
Every marriage, every relationship is different. In this episode we talk about Ken's first marriage, his experience of infertility, and what he wishes he'd done differently, and why. As we mentioned i...
31 Okt 202131min
44 Three ways porn has brought us closer together
Have you ever wondered how other people use porn? In this episode we talk about our own personal answers to that question, including de-stigmatizing porn, sharing it with each other, and ensuring that...
24 Okt 202142min
43 The missing ingredient in boundary work with guest Melissa Hite
"Our relationships with others can only be as strong as our relationship with ourselves." That's just one insight we hear about in this episode during our talk with Melissa. We talk about how to tell ...
17 Okt 202133min
