235 I Think I'm Polyamorous, But I'm in a Monogamous Marriage
Discovering your polyamorous identity while in a long-term monogamous relationship can feel both liberating and terrifying. It's a moment of personal truth that can shake the foundations of your partn...
20 Dec 202541min
234 How to Figure Out What You Want (And Why It’s So Damn Hard)
There’s one really important prerequisite for a whole lot of juicy relational goodness… but it sounds deceptively simple… figuring out what you want. Whether it's day-to-day preferences or deeper desi...
13 Dec 202539min
233 The Case for ‘Boring’ Polyamory
When we're in the thick of navigating non-monogamy, especially in the early stages, it can feel like an endless emotional workout. The jealousy, the NRE highs and lows, the constant communication—it's...
6 Dec 202533min
232 How to Keep Going When Non-Monogamy Feels Too Hard
Feeling exhausted by non-monogamy? You're not alone! Even when we know why we chose this path, the day-to-day reality can sometimes feel overwhelming. But before you throw in the towel, let's explore ...
29 Nov 202540min
231 The Holiday Survival Guide for Polyamorous People
Holidays can be a joy-filled time, but they can also become incredibly complicated when you're navigating non-monogamous relationships. How do you balance time between partners, metamours, family memb...
22 Nov 202536min
230 Can Trauma Survivors Do Non-Monogamy?
Many people wonder if their trauma history means they can't successfully navigate the complex emotional terrain that comes with open relationships. When we step away from default monogamy into conscio...
15 Nov 202546min
229 Shadow Work in Relationships: What We Keep From Ourselves
Secrets, privacy, and the journey to authentic relationships can be a complex terrain to navigate. When one partner keeps secrets—whether consciously or unconsciously—it creates ripples that affect tr...
8 Nov 202538min
228 “I Only Get the Hard Parts”: Living with Asymmetry in Polyamory and Life
Ever feel like your journey into non-monogamy is all about hard work? You're not alone. Many people reach a point where they wonder if all the emotional regulation, self-reflection, and relationship m...
1 Nov 202547min
