SexTok with Tracey and Kelsey

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I just recently started finding interest in porn. But I’m not really finding anything female friendly. It’s very male driven and just gross and angry - not to mention, way too unrealistic. I’ve tried watching a couple of videos but they just make me want to shower afterwards because they are just awful. Do you have any suggestions for female-friendly porn sites that won’t make me feel dirty after I watch them?My previous girlfriend used to have G-spot orgasms easily but my new partner isn’t convinced they are possible because she doesn’t believe the G-spot exists. Does it? I used to quite enjoy watching my girlfriend experience one. It seemed much more intense.I always seem to end up with men who are a really bad match for me sexually. Is there a way to find your perfect sex match before you jump into bed with them? What should I be looking for if I want someone who is quite sensual and erotic and likes to take things slowly? And offers her sex tip of the week!To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

7 Sep 202125min

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I am a middle aged man, married, in good health. My question is, how can I last longer during intercourse? A typical session lasts only a matter of three of four minutes. Are there any exercises or techniques that I can use to gain more self control? I've tried things such as masturbating in advance to lessen the desire, extending masturbation to longer durations to better understand my response and ways to manage it, as well as doing Kegels. It’s something I’ve struggled with all my life.I keep reading about toys and condoms getting lost inside people. Is this true? It makes me nervous! What do you do if this happens?A very good friend of mine, who is married, confessed recently that she’s having an affair. It’s put me in a very awkward situation because my husband and I often hang out with her and her husband. I don’t approve but don’t know if it’s my place to tell her that? I’m terrified to tell my husband – who I tell everything – in case he slips up or decides we have to tell her husband. He’s aware I’m keeping a secret and that’s not helping either. What’s the right thing to do here? I get the impression it’s more a sex affair than love affair. And offers her sex tip of the week!To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

31 Aug 202128min

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My friends talk about their partners always hassling them for sex but I have the opposite problem. My husband is the one who doesn’t want it. Is he having an affair? Does it mean he doesn’t find me attractive anymore? I’m too embarrassed to talk to my friends.My partner of five months wants to know how many lovers I’ve had. Let’s say I have reinvented myself just a little and that number might be a lot higher than he’s expecting. Should I lie?My husband has a fantasy of seeing me with another man. When he told me about it, it really turned me on and I couldn't stop thinking about it. Am I crazy or selfish for wanting to indulge this in real life? My husband seems really keen to. Is this common and where would we even start with finding someone? And offers her sex tip of the week!To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

24 Aug 202120min

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My partner and I have been together for 6 years and haven't tried anything new in a while. You say things like ‘spice things up a bit’ - by doing what though? Can you spell out exactly what you mean by that and give some practical examples?My husband’s penis is on the large side...not so much length as girth. Sex is only comfortable in a couple of positions. Despite using lashings of lube anything other than side by side or missionary just doesn’t seem to work. We’ve been together decades and I know my husband is keen to try more positions but I’m reluctant. Any ideas?I'm experiencing problems having penetrative sex because of the menopause. My husband is complaining about the lack of intimacy, understandably. What he doesn't seem to get is that I am extremely turned off by the person he has become. He sits and burps really loudly all the time - even when we are out and about walking down the street. He's also become very racist and xenophobic which I am finding totally distressing. When I try to talk to him about it, he just ignores me and says he is who he is and I either like it or lump it. Why would I want to get intimate with such a man?And offers her sex tip of the week!To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

17 Aug 202125min

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:Is it normal for couples to have sex in the same position every single time? We only ever have sex in two positions: me on top and him on top. He has no problem having orgasms that way, but I do. He always gives me an orgasm through oral sex but I would like to at least try for one during intercourse. Any suggestions on which positions are best?I’m dating a much younger man. I’m 52 and he’s 41 and the sex is fantastic. I’m newly divorced and I wasn’t looking for much more than just fun but now I can feel myself falling for him. He says the age difference doesn’t worry him and he feels the same way, but does it ever work out? I feel like I’m just setting myself up for heartbreak.My partner and I don’t own any sex toys but would like to try some. Can you tell me what are the top three sex toys you would recommend for couples who are trying them for the first time? We’ve been together eight years and I feel like we’re in a bit of a sex rut. LINKS BELOW:BULLET VIBRATOR:https://bit.ly/3lGIdiWhttps://bit.ly/3lTGM0qMASTURBATION SLEEVE:https://bit.ly/3yB3yh9https://bit.ly/3Aw8CEpREMOTE CONTROLLED EGG:https://bit.ly/3yEojsshttps://bit.ly/37JjYZnBONDAGE KIT:https://bit.ly/3fMHj0yhttps://bit.ly/3ixCFFpGLASS DILDOS: https://bit.ly/2VHBLgRhttps://bit.ly/2VG9MxEAnd offers her sex tip of the week!To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

10 Aug 202125min

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:I’m a huge believer in soulmates and “The One’ and the idea that there’s one person out there for me. But some of my friends say this harms my prospects in the long run. Are they right?I want to send my partner a nude photo of myself but every time I take one, it’s unflattering. Do you have any tips? We're also quite interested in filming ourselves having sex but not if it's going to crush our egos watching it back!Can you discuss the pros and cons of erectile dysfunction drugs like Tadalafil/Cialis and how they compare to the traditionally available Viagra? I have read that there are differences between them but not sure what’s advertising and what’s real?And offers her sex tip of the week!To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

3 Aug 202125min

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My partner of 12 years wants me to ‘peg’ him. I didn’t even know what it was and had to google it. Now I’m worried. Not only don’t I want to do it, I’m worried it secretly means he’s gay.I found out my husband had sex with a hooker on his bachelor’s night just before we got married. What should I do now? That was five years and two kids ago. He deeply regrets it and swears he’s never cheated before or since and that his friends pushed him into it.I like getting quite wild and noisy in bed but it seems to freak men out. Should I calm it down? I don’t feel like I should but I don’t want to scare men off either! My previous long-term partner used to like it. And offers her sex tip of the week!To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

27 Juli 202125min

In this episode, Tracey answers these three anonymous questions:My husband of 13 years is suddenly wanting to try lots of new things in bed. Even more suspicious, he’s quite good at things I know he’s never done with me. I accused him of having an affair and he says he isn’t but what else could it be? He says he just wants to have more adventurous sex. But why now after all these years of quite boring sex?I’m really good at oral sex – it’s the thing I do best that really works on guys. So I was totally deflated to discover my new partner doesn’t enjoy receiving oral sex. He says he’s never really enjoyed it and only likes it when I use my hand. Now what?I recently found out my first and only real true love who I was with for seven years has now come out as gay. It was 20 years ago that we were together and I’m married now but it’s really thrown me. Does it mean he didn’t ever love me? Was it my fault? I am reasonably happy in my marriage but have always secretly hoped we’d end up back together. I don’t know how to deal with this.And offers her sex tip of the week!To have Tracey answer YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously on zibbyowens.com/sex.Want a copy of Tracey’s book, Great Sex Starts at 50? Enter code GREATSEX on ChronicleBooks.com for 30% off! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

20 Juli 202123min