Episode 63: Fisting Is Not Sex? BottomGuyNYC on Sport, Open Love & Flagging at Work

Episode 63: Fisting Is Not Sex? BottomGuyNYC on Sport, Open Love & Flagging at Work

In this episode of Brolapse, HungerFF sits down with BottomGuyNYC—NYC bar manager, shameless fister, and proud red-hanky flagger—to talk about why, for him, fisting isn’t sex… it’s a sport.


They dig into what it means to “train” for play, why a hand in someone can feel less intimate than dick-and-butt sex, and how he balances a 21-year open relationship where his husband is his emotional home—but the kink happens elsewhere.


From nervously sitting in the car before his first Fist Fest to organizing fisting meetups on Atlantis cruises and Telegram, BottomGuyNYC breaks down the bond between fisters, the power of living openly at work, and how mentorship in kink still survives in the age of algorithms.


If you’ve ever felt “weird” for how you experience sex, intimacy, or kink, this conversation might make you feel a little less alone.


In this episode:


  • Fisting as a sport vs. “real” sex

  • Navigating an open relationship after 20+ years together

  • Flagging red at work and stripping away shame

  • Fist Fest as the “Olympics” and family reunion of kink

  • Telegram, cruises, and building offline community in an online world

  • Mentorship, safety, and why only showing the extreme 45 seconds can be dangerous



Follow BottomGuyNYC:


  • X (Twitter): @bottomguynyc

  • BlueSky: @BottomGuyNYC

  • JustFor.Fans: https://justfor. fans/bottomguynyc1




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Episode 47: From Storytime to Stardom: FitnessPapi on Fame, Fetish, and Fisting

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From fisting rookie to one of the most recognized names in fetish porn, FitnessPapi has built a career on raw authenticity, unapologetic sexuality, and an uncanny ability to connect with fans. In this...

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Episode 46: Hole Mommy Knows Best with Lena Vesper

Episode 46: Hole Mommy Knows Best with Lena Vesper

This week on Brolapse, I’m joined by the electrifying Lena Vesper—a trans cam queen, fetish performer, and self-described “hole mommy” who’s flipping the script on what femme dominance looks like in t...

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Episode 45: When the Lights Go Out: Brian Bonds on Burnout, Sobriety, and Survival

Episode 45: When the Lights Go Out: Brian Bonds on Burnout, Sobriety, and Survival

This week on Brolapse, I sit down with one of the realest, rawest, and most resilient legends in the industry—Brian Bonds. From his early days getting fisted in a bathroom before shooting a scene, to ...

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Episode 44: VersAssPunk on Body, Identity, and Letting Go

Episode 44: VersAssPunk on Body, Identity, and Letting Go

What turns you on when the taboo becomes your truth?In this unflinching and deeply personal episode, HungerFF welcomes VersAssPunk, a prolapse-loving nullo whose devotion to radical embodiment has no ...

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Episode 43: The Numbers Game with Apollo Fates

Episode 43: The Numbers Game with Apollo Fates

“You start second-guessing everything—your looks, your choices, your value… all because of a number.”In this unfiltered episode of Brolapse, I sit down with Apollo Fates—content creator, Club Inferno ...

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Episode 42: Training Day with FFireBoy

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In this week’s episode of Brolapse, I sit down with New York-based fisting trainer and content creator FFireBoy for an unfiltered conversation about kink, community, and building a practice around sex...

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Episode 41: “My Hole Didn’t Kill Me”

Episode 41: “My Hole Didn’t Kill Me”

This week on Brolapse, I open up like never before—emotionally and medically. As I head into my colon reconnection surgery, I’m reflecting on everything this experience has taught me: from suicidal fe...

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