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The Better Man: Redefining Masculinity and Sex with Dr. Eric Fitz Medrude

In this episode of The Better Sex Podcast, I talk with psychologist and author Dr. Eric Fitz Medrude about what it really means to be "a better man." Together, we explore how cultural conditioning, shame, and lack of real education have left so many men confused about sex, masculinity, and intimacy.

Eric shares how his Catholic upbringing and family's unusually frank conversations about sex shaped his perspective, and how those early experiences inspired his book, The Better Man. We dive into common myths about porn, testosterone, and what men are "supposed" to want—and how those beliefs often block real connection and pleasure.

Along the way, Eric opens up about the importance of platonic touch, the emotional cost of living inside "the man box," and what it takes to build relationships rooted in honesty and consent. We also talk about resentment, boundaries, and the hard truth that being a better lover starts with being a better human.

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Website: https://www.drericfitz.com/

Book: The Better Man https://www.drericfitz.com/the-better-man/

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Beyond Technique: The Art of Loving Dominance with Master Hines

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What It Means To Be A Man Right Now with Geoff Laughton

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