BREASTFEEDING WITH CONFIDENCE | Pregnancy Tips, Postpartum Wellness, Milk Supply, Tongue Tie, Latch Pain13 Touko 2025

31 | The Double Standard No One Talks About: Circumcision vs. Tongue Tie Release

Why are so many new moms quick to consent to circumcision—an elective surgical procedure—but deeply hesitant about something as therapeutic as a tongue tie release, even when it's sabotaging breastfeeding?

As an IBCLC, nurse, and mom of five, I’m sharing both personal stories and professional insight to challenge this growing double standard. If you’ve ever felt pressure, confusion, or guilt around these choices—this is the permission slip to think deeper.

Inside this episode:

A compassionate but honest look at the circumcision vs. tongue tie debate
What most people don’t understand about how oral ties impact milk transfer, maternal pain, and long-term development
Why choosing not to release a tongue tie often leads to unnecessary formula supplementation
A call to mamas to trust their intuition, question the status quo, and lead their families with clarity and courage

This isn’t about shame—it’s about empowerment. Let’s stop avoiding the hard conversations and start making decisions that actually support exclusive breastfeeding and lifelong wellness.

RESOURCES: Your Whole Baby Circumcision Resource

Blood Stained Men

Breastfeeding Resources

Fix Your Latch Guide

6 Week Postpartum Concierge Breastfeeding Support Package

Concierge Breastfeeding Prep & Thrive Package (Prenatal Prep + 6 weeks Postpartum Support)

🕒 Episode Breakdown:

00:00 | A personal note from Jamie – Why this episode hits close to home
00:16 | Welcome – Setting the tone for an honest, thought-provoking conversation
01:07 | Introducing the controversy – Circumcision vs. tongue tie release
02:38 | Breastfeeding struggles no one connects to tongue ties
06:00 | My personal story – What I chose for my sons, and what I’ve learned since
08:44 | Critical thinking in motherhood – Are we really making informed decisions?
10:22 | Encouragement and support – You’re not alone if this stirs something in you
12:19 | A teaser for next time + final thoughts

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