43: The Power of Subconscious Programming & How to Rewire It

You aren’t broken. You’re on autopilot.

Up to 97% of your day is driven by subconscious patterns. And guess what? Those patterns didn’t start with you—but they’re absolutely affecting how you parent, how you speak to yourself, and how you show up under pressure.

In this episode, we’re naming what’s actually behind your spirals, shutdowns, and snap moments—and why it’s not a lack of love, but a brain that’s been running the same script since you were seven.

💥 The good news? That script is editable.

This is your crash course in mental reprogramming, emotional patterning, and how to consciously take back control of your reactions—using the SHIFT framework.

🔍 In This Episode, You'll Learn:

• Why up to 97% of your behavior is unconscious—and how to shift that
• What it really means to be on autopilot
• How to spot the inner voice that’s not yours (but still runs the show)
• The science behind your thought loops, self-talk, and stress spirals
• How to talk back to your programming and rewrite your response
• How to use the SHIFT framework to rewire your day-to-day
• The role of confirmation bias in keeping you stuck
• Why it’s not your fault—but still your responsibility

💭 SHIFT Rx (Tuesday) → “We only deserve grace when we’ve suffered enough”: busting that lie wide open.

🎙️ Guest Interview (Thursday) → Therapist Leslie Lindsey Davis joins us for a powerful conversation on identity, reparenting, and emotional leadership.

🚨 Want to stop parenting from old code?

Join the Parental SHIFT and learn how to stop reacting from your past—and start leading from your actual self.

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