THE "O.N. CONTACT" RULE: Handling a Narcissist When You Can't Walk Away completely 🛡️🤝

THE "O.N. CONTACT" RULE: Handling a Narcissist When You Can't Walk Away completely 🛡️🤝

"Just go No Contact!" feels like a slap in the face when you have shared custody, a business, or legal ties to a narcissist.For many survivors, complete severance isn't an option. But that doesn't mean you have to remain their emotional punching bag. As a self-aware narcissist, I know exactly how we use children, finances, and property as leverage to keep getting "supply" long after the relationship ends.In this video, I’m introducing the "O.N. Contact" (Only Necessary Contact) method. This is the strategic evolution of "Gray Rock," designed specifically for those who are forced to communicate with their abuser.All My Links (Coaching, Courses, Merch): https://link.me/mentalhealnessIN THIS VIDEO, WE DISCUSS:The Narcissist’s Leverage: Why they use the kids or money to bait you into emotional arguments.Defining "Necessary": How to strip every ounce of personality and emotion out of your communication.The "Hostile Coworker" Mindset: Shifting from "ex-partner" to "business associate that I hate."Communication Protocols: Why you must move everything to email or parenting apps (and never phone calls).The Extinction Burst: How they will react when you stop feeding them supply through co-parenting chaos.You can't always leave the situation, but you can leave the dynamic.RESOURCES & SUPPORT: 📚 Self Love Journal: https://a.co/d/70L3zKb 📖 Kid’s Book ("It's Not Your Fault"): https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ 📧 Newsletter: subscribepage.io/mentalhealnessWHO IS LEE HAMMOCK? I am a diagnosed narcissist who has spent over 8 years in psychotherapy to understand my own mind and help you protect yours. On this channel, I take the mask off to show you how narcissists think, why we do what we do, and how you can heal from the damage.Join the Community: www.youtube.com/channel/UCm1vYQOEQRo6X4Dy8KoGPMw/join

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The Valentine’s Fallout: Why they ruined it (and what I'm thinking today)

The Valentine’s Fallout: Why they ruined it (and what I'm thinking today)

The high is over. The "holiday" is gone. Now comes the fallout.If you woke up today to the silent treatment, a cold shoulder, or a partner who is acting like the chaos of yesterday never happened—you ...

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When Gray Rocking a narcissist no longer works

When Gray Rocking a narcissist no longer works

When you stop giving a narcissist "supply," they don't just walk away quietly. They enter an "Extinction Burst." As a self-aware narcissist, Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness) explains why the behavior get...

15 Helmi 12min

Why I HAD To Ruin Your Valentine’s Day (A Narcissist's Confession)

Why I HAD To Ruin Your Valentine’s Day (A Narcissist's Confession)

In this video, we discuss:The Spotlight Struggle: Why your joy feels like a threat to my ego.The Obligation Trap: Why being "forced" to be romantic makes a narcissist want to rebel.Devaluation as a To...

14 Helmi 14min

What Happens to a Narcissist Who Loses Their Power? (The Aging Narcissist)

What Happens to a Narcissist Who Loses Their Power? (The Aging Narcissist)

What happens when a narcissist can no longer rely on their looks, their money, or their status to control people? As a self-aware narcissist, Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness) explains the shift from "Gra...

13 Helmi 12min

What They REALLY Meant: Live Translation of Narcissistic Insults

What They REALLY Meant: Live Translation of Narcissistic Insults

"You’re too sensitive." "I never said that." "You're lucky to have me." 🚩Most of you heard these words and felt like they were a report card on your value. You felt small. You felt like you had to ch...

12 Helmi 29min

How to Force a Narcissist to Back Off | A Self-Aware Perspective

How to Force a Narcissist to Back Off | A Self-Aware Perspective

Why do narcissists ignore your boundaries? Because they don't respect feelings—they respect consequences. In this video, Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness) provides a raw, self-aware look at what actually ...

11 Helmi 12min

How a Narcissist Treats You is How They Feel About Themselves

How a Narcissist Treats You is How They Feel About Themselves

Why a Narcissist's Treatment of You is Actually a Confession 🪞ConfessionHave you ever wondered why someone who "loved" you could treat you so poorly? In this video, self-aware narcissist Lee Hammock ...

10 Helmi 13min

The 5 Biggest Regrets of Narcissistic Abuse Survivors (And How to Heal)

The 5 Biggest Regrets of Narcissistic Abuse Survivors (And How to Heal)

"I wish I would have known." 🥀If you’re feeling the weight of the years you "lost" to a toxic relationship, you aren't alone. Regret is often the final trauma bond that keeps you tied to a narcissist...

9 Helmi 14min

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