About Me

This will be a short About Me video and I hope you will learn something about me and maybe about yourself.

I have been in the lifestyle for 6 years, constantly learning and growing in my journey. I am a collared submissive married to my Sir, we are a monogamous couple.

For the most part I had a very limited knowledge of Kink or BDSM other than reading 50 Shades when it first came out. A friend had given me an electronic copy of me to read on my commute to and from work. It wasn’t until 5 years later that I was single for the first time in over 20 years. I have been a wife and mother since I was 17, I’m going to be 52 this year.

I spent a couple of years getting to really know myself. Who am I? I took the time to figure out my wants, needs, desires, what I will and will not allow in my life. I took time to fall in love with myself in the process.

I have learned more about my body in the last 6 years than I knew about myself over the last 45 years.

Things I have learned about myself: I can have multiple orgasms I have less anxiety because I communicate open and honestly with my Sir Self-care is critical for me to be my best self for my Sir I love most forms of sensation play (Wartenberg Pinwheel, Claws, Paddle, Feather, Tickler Whip, Neon Wand (electro play)) I want pleasure in all its forms (kissing, petting, touch, taste, intercourse, connection, and communication) I can embrace my sexuality and pleasure without fear of shame or judgment I need and want aftercare I have a voice I have soft and hard limits and I know my Sirs limits I am always learning I love bondage I am a submissive I enjoy experiencing edging I love when Sir plays with my hair I love being at Sir’s feet I love being in service to my Sir I am not a masochist I love rope (tying and being tied) I love restraints and my permanent collar I practice SSC (Safe, Sane and Consensual) kink I have experienced subspace and subdrop

Finding the BDSM lifestyle was the most eye opening and rewarding thing that has ever happened to me. I had to do the research and do the work before risking what lack of knowledge and education can buy you. I was old enough to know to be safe, practice safe sex, and always tell a friend where I was going and who I was going with. I have spent the last 6 years learning and growing in my submission and in my kink.

Sir and I have been a D/s couple for over 5 years. We Kink our way. Our pleasure starts from curiosity, curiosity about a new toy, new piece of furniture, a show we watched on Nexflix, a scene described in one of my erotica books, a topic on a sex podcast, etc. We discuss openly our interests, concerns, beliefs, desires all without shame. We research, we attend classes, toy shop together, we practice and grow our skills. We are present with each other.

While I was obtaining my certification as a Health and Life Coach, I attended the 2022 Thrive BDSM and Mental Health Summit. I immediately knew that I was being called to be a lighthouse for other curious, new or experienced kinksters and to share my experiences, knowledge, and education to help people live their best kinky life in and out of the bedroom.

I am a Kink Aware Professional Certified Health, Relationships, and Life Coach and BDSM and Kink Educator. My purpose is to provide education and coaching services to people who are curious, currently practicing, or need health and life coaching in all areas of life from a knowledgeable kink professional, and provide resources to other kink professionals.

If you would like more information about me, our kinky life, or my coaching practice, please check out my Linktree at Kink Your Way. https://linktr.ee/kinkyourway

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