28: Autism Acceptance & PDA: When the “right strategies” don’t work | Solo Episode

What if the reason nothing is working… isn’t you?

In this deeply personal solo episode of Neurodivergent Pulse, Laetitia opens up about a turning point that changed everything — discovering PDA (Persistent Drive for Autonomy) and how it reshaped the way she understands, parents, and supports her child.

Through lived experience, research, and reflection, this episode explores why traditional strategies often fail neurodivergent families and what becomes possible when we shift from control to connection.

This is an invitation to rethink everything you’ve been told… and to finally feel seen.

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KEY TAKEAWAYS 👇

🧠 What PDA (Persistent Drive for Autonomy) really is — beyond the label

🧠 Why traditional parenting strategies can increase distress, not reduce it

🧠 Understanding behaviour through a nervous system lens, not compliance

🧠 How everyday requests (even choices!) can feel like demands

🧠 Why control creates crisis and what to do instead

🧠 The power of indirect language, play and shared autonomy

🧠 Why many parents feel unseen and why it’s not your fault

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ABOUT THE HOST 👇

Laetitia Andrac (Autistic & ADHDer) is an award-winning entrepreneur, international speaker, and podcast host.

She is the bestselling author of Light It: How to Trust Your Intuition and Build a Thriving Business. With over 15 years of experience in consulting, strategy, and innovation, Laetitia has worked with industry leaders like Deloitte and Telstra.

Inspired by my journey as a neurodivergent parent, she co-founded Understanding Zoe, an AI-driven solution dedicated to supporting caregivers of neurodivergent children.

Her passion is creating a more neuroinclusive world, where everyone can thrive—whether in their homes, communities, or workplaces.