163. How to Figure Out What You *Actually* Want From Your Life and Stop Living for the Weekend

163. How to Figure Out What You *Actually* Want From Your Life and Stop Living for the Weekend

Do you have a life that looks completely fine on paper but doesn't actually feel good to be in? In this episode I walk through the three key pillars - your personal life, your professional life, and your relationships - and give you specific reflection questions and action items to start figuring out where the misalignment is coming from and what to do about it.


What I cover:

👉🏻 Why optimizing and doing more will never fix a life that isn't built on the right foundation

👉🏻 The real story behind my decision to leave Chicago and move back to LA - and what it taught me about environment

👉🏻 Pillar 1: Your personal life - how to audit your daily environment and figure out what's actually making your days feel heavy

👉🏻 Pillar 2: Your professional life - reflection questions to get honest about whether your career is aligned with what you actually value

👉🏻 Pillar 3: Your relationships - how the people around you are shaping your life more than you realize


Subscribe to Beyond Your Budget:

https://breakyourbudget.substack.com/


Personal Finance Starter Kit:

https://breakyourbudget.substack.com/p/your-personal-finance-starter-kit


BREAK YOUR BUDGET RESOURCES:

💸 Personal Finance Dashboard:

https://breakyourbudget.com/personal-finance-dashboard

💸 Basic Budgeting Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/basic-budgeting-template

💸 FI/RE Template:

https://breakyourbudget.com/fire-template

💸 RENT VS. BUY CALCULATOR

https://breakyourbudget.com/rent-vs-buy-calculator


💳 Tools I Use:

Rakuten Cash Back: https://shorturl.at/w0PcH

SoFi HYSA: https://secure.money.com/pr/pa5344bfc4f2

Try Classpass: https://classpass.com/refer/UKLV6BN026


All Other Resources:

https://breakyourbudget.com/links

👩🏼‍💻 Inquiries: michela@breakyourbudget.com

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📲 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breakyourbudget

📸 Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/michela_alloccaa

💸 My ShopMy:

https://shopmy.us/shop/michelaallocca


00:00 — The feeling nobody has language for

02:00 — Why productivity will never fix a misaligned foundation

04:00 — The Chicago to LA story and what it taught me

09:00 — How to use this episode as a life audit

11:00 — Pillar 1: Your personal life

19:00 — Pillar 2: Your professional life

25:00 — Are you building toward something you actually want?

27:00 — Action items for your professional life

29:00 — Pillar 3: Your relationships

35:00 — Wrapping up: paying attention is the whole thing

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