Metaphysics of Porn

Sobriety is not the opposite of addiction, and Chandler Rogers shows us how the power of connection has helped him get through it. As the founder of an app called Relay, he shares how it creates a healthy community through group-based programs. Its main purpose is to help people who are struggling with addiction stay connected and accountable, all while maintaining anonymity. Let’s listen to Chandler’s story and get rid of your guilt and shame![00:00 - 08:00] Opening SegmentWelcoming Chandler to the showChandler’s addiction and the power of mindfulnessAttending group-based programs[08:01 - 20:25] Healing Through CommunitiesChanging your perspective about yourselfChandler shares his cycles of improvement and regressionHow connection is the opposite of addictionYour family nor your significant other should not be your coachThe importance of teamwork and finding your accountability partner[20:26 - 31:07] The Relay AppHelps in finding accountability partnersHelps connect people with similar goalsTo provide emotional support and guidanceThe red flag feature[33:39 - 34:54] Closing SegmentSee links below to connect with ChandlerFinal wordsQuote/s:"It's okay that I was still learning and working on myself. It doesn't mean I have to be perfect before I can start reaching my goals and helping other people." - Chandler RogersConnect with Chandler through LinkedIn, or email him at chandlerr13@gmail.com. You can visit www.joinrelay.app to know more about his work.Click here to join Relay now! Use this link: https://form.typeform.com/to/vXGmNRSnIf you want to be accountable to Powerful Eric using relay and join his PRIVATE Relay Group, then contact eric@powerfuleric.com.Connect with me (Powerful Eric) on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook. Email me at eric@powerfuleric.com. Love what you heard? LEAVE A REVIEW + and SHARE this episode with other men who want to live an empowered life free of addiction. Listen to previous episodes on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

30 Touko 202234min

Pornography addiction is a serious problem that can control and limit a person's life, and it's killing a part of ourselves. In this episode, Eric shares how he overcame pornography addiction by changing the way he saw himself. He talks about how using your triggers to help achieve your goals can be a helpful tool in battling addiction. This podcast is helpful for anyone struggling with pornography addiction, as it provides insight and guidance on how to overcome this problem.[00:00 - 08:54] Opening SegmentPorn addiction is killing a part of yourselfDestroys relationshipsReduces tolerance for violence[08:55 - 20:04] Porn Kills DreamsEric provides a personal anecdote about how porn has impacted his life, decrease in energy, confidence, and self-esteem Finding your purpose in lifeTaking steps towards achieving itHow to break free from porn addiction with help from your triggers[20:05 - 22:11] Closing SegmentYou are designed for success, and you have the seeds of greatnessResources Mentioned:Finding Your Own North Star by Martha BeckQuotes:"Porn addiction is isolating. It's just you and a machine." - Erick Zuzack "It's not possible. If you don't know what your purpose is on this planet, then that is your purpose. Your purpose is to find your purpose. And when you do that, rest assured, somehow, some way, you'll end up helping other people." - Erick Zuzack“You really are designed for accomplishment. That’s why you’re here, and you have it in you. You are engineered for success, and yes. You are endowed with the seeds of greatness.” - Erick ZuzackIf you’re looking to break your online sex addiction and live a life of integrity, go to https://solo.to/powerfuleric and let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me (Powerful Eric) on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook. Email me at eric@powerfuleric.com. Love what you heard? LEAVE A REVIEW + and SHARE this episode with other men who want to live an empowered life free of addiction. Listen to previous episodes on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

23 Touko 202222min

In today’s episode, we welcome back Bill Renshaw [00:00 - 03:53] Anger, Rage, and PornographyHow it starts with porn and then goes down to everything in your lifeTrusting the processHow porn addiction can develop in young peopleLeads to negative emotions such as fear, depression, and sadnessPorn as a trigger to different addictions[07:25 - 20:43] Side Effects of Pornography and Bill’s Recovery from AddictionEffects of erectile dysfunction drugs to mental healthDepression and lack of motivation in lifeBill shares how quitting his job has helped him with his addictionsRefocusing on your purposeMeeting a new significant other[20:44 - 24:06] Closing SegmentWatch out for my live show together with Bill on May 18th!See links below to connect with BillQuote/s: "Wherever you feel like you're at right now, you're worth the effort to put into it" - Bill RanshawTo connect with Bill, visit his YouTube channel or you can email him at bill@billwilderment.org. Also visit https://www.billwilderment.org/ to know more. LEARN THE SECRETS TO A PORN FREE LIFE! Catch me and Bill on our live show this May 18. Click here to know more. If you’re looking to break your online sex addiction and live a life of integrity, go to https://solo.to/powerfuleric and let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me (Powerful Eric) on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook. Email me at eric@powerfuleric.com. Love what you heard? LEAVE A REVIEW + and SHARE this episode with other men who want to live an empowered life free of addiction. Listen to previous episodes on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

14 Touko 202224min

You're not alone. Millions of people are struggling with addiction, and according to personal empowerment and behavioral addiction coach Bill Ranshaw, mindfulness can help you break free. In today’s episode, Bill will share his story of addiction and how porn has affected his life. He will talk about the different methods that will help you get clean, and ultimately gain energy, clarity, and focus. We’re fighting together for a better tomorrow. So let’s jump right in and gain confidence and wealth! [00:00 - 06:17] The Power of MindfulnessMindfulness in combating addictionBill and I share some of our past struggles in addictionWatching pornography as an unspoken thing that people do [06:18 - 16:59] Impact of PornographyHow porn can lead to a lack of self-confidenceDeveloping various conditionsBill shares some of his past experiences leading up to addictionDisconnect with real intimacyHow getting in touch with other people helps cure addiction [17:00 - 26:20] Turning Over A New LeafChanging your mindsetPersonal development teachingsTrust in what is working for you [26:21 - 28:08] Closing SegmentWatch out for my live show together with Bill!May 18thSee links below to connect with Bill Quotes: "Once I finally surrendered the thought that I'm never going to have the life I want, I started going back and really absorbing what true personal development and true reflection upon yourself is. It all started opening up. The floodgates open for the feelings and attachment." - Bill Ranshaw To connect with Bill, visit his YouTube channel or you can email him at bill@billwilderment.org. Also visit https://www.billwilderment.org/ to know more. If you’re looking to break your online sex addiction and live a life of integrity, go to https://solo.to/powerfuleric and let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me (Powerful Eric) on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook. Email me at eric@powerfuleric.com. Love what you heard? LEAVE A REVIEW + and SHARE this episode with other men who want to live an empowered life free of addiction. Listen to previous episodes on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

8 Touko 202229min

This week, Eric Zuzack interviews William Duffin about the impact of social media on society, and how Elon Musk's new purchase of Twitter aims to make it a platform of free speech again. They also discuss the dangers of pornography addiction, and how this has become intertwined with sexual exploitation. With that, let’s break our chains and empower ourselves today![00:01 - 07:55] Social Media and PornographyWe talk about the state of the current social media giantsJeff Bezos and Elon MuskHow Facebook and Twitter handles pornographyElon Musk’s purchase of Twitter and its implications[07:56 - 13:58] Regaining Our Free Speech through Social MediaEliminating censorshipJordan Peterson’s take on pornographyWe talk about how free speech relates to angerWe talk about Chris Rock’s opinion on the recent Oscar’s incident[14:59 - 22:11] The Unseen Side of PornographyPornography’s legality in certain placesHow the government could not keep up with technology in regulating pornographyThe youtube channel called “Soft White Underbelly”[22:11 - 247:29] Is There a Positive Side to Pornography?How there are universities that offer pornography classesImplications of when the government regulates pornographyWe talk about the negative aspects of pornographyAddictiveness Leads to sex trafficing and money laundering[27:30 - 30:45] Closing SegmentElon Musk’s future plans for free speechHow metaphysics can help people improve themselvesFinal wordsSee links below to connect with WilliamQuotes: "The money goes back to drug lords, money laundering, and sex trafficking. People need to know that when they click on pornography." - William Duffin “Sacred selfish service. What does that mean when you work on yourself? It's a sacred act when you improve yourself. When you learn it may seem selfish to other people." - William Duffin Connect with William on Facebook and LinkedIn. Reach out to 314-403-4744. If you’re looking to break your online sex addiction and live a life of integrity, go to https://solo.to/powerfuleric and let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me (Powerful Eric) on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook. Email me at eric@powerfuleric.com. Love what you heard? LEAVE A REVIEW + and SHARE this episode with other men who want to live an empowered life free of addiction. Listen to previous episodes on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

2 Touko 202230min

In this episode, we welcome back April Seekins to share her story of how pornography and prostitutuion her down this dark path, and how the book "Spirit Driven Success" helped her find redemption. By learning how to change her mindset and change her behavior, April is able to leave the life of prostitution behind and start fresh. April is now a trauma coach, entrepreneur, and speaker that helps other victims of trauma find their way back into the light.[00:00 - 08:58] Finding RedemptionRelief and empowerment through mindfulnessHow divorce affected April's traumasThe importance of finding a support system[08:58 - 18:33] The Bible is Your GuideThe Spirit Driven Success by Dani JohnsonHow studying the bible has helped AprilApril's photography business and its transition to entrepreneurship[18:33 - 24:06] Being in the Right CommunityThe importance of surrounding yourself with like-minded peopleThe difficulty of forgiving yourselfHealing and building positive self-esteem[24:06 - 25:55] That's a wrap!Connect with April with the links belowFinal wordsResources Mentioned: Spirit Driven Success by Dani JohnsonYou can connect with April by visiting www.aprilseekins.com.If you’re looking to break your online sex addiction and live a life of integrity, go to https://solo.to/powerfuleric and let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me (Powerful Eric) on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook. Email me at eric@powerfuleric.com. Love what you heard? LEAVE A REVIEW + and SHARE this episode with other men who want to live an empowered life free of addiction. Listen to previous episodes on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Quotes:"What you focus on gets bigger, and what you neglect gets smaller." - April Seekins"You can't change somebody. They have to want to change for them to change." - April Seekins"When you have addiction, the number 1 thing to do is learning how to forgive." - April SeekinsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

25 Huhti 202225min

Welcome to another episode of Porn Talk! In this episode, we hear the story of how entrepreneur, speaker, and trauma coach April Seekins got started in the world of prostitution. As a single mom of three boys, April tells us about her struggles with anxiety and how it led her to start stripping and then eventually turning to prostitution. There is always a way for growth and recovery, and today's episode will teach us how to get back up,no matter the trauma we may have experienced.Key Highlights:[00:00 - 16:43] Deep Rooted Anxiety and Trauma I welcome April to the showApril's childhood and upbringing[16:43 - 26:29] Recovery and ReconnectionReconnecting with GodHow pornography influences self-esteem and how to fix it[26:31 - 30:24] Effects of Emotional TraumaShame and guilt as the key emotions to reclusivityApril talks about how long it took her to go out of her shellThe long process of recovery due to mental and emotional changes[30:24 - 31:34] That's a wrap!Watch out for the next episode to see how April redefined herself!You can connect with April by visiting www.aprilseekins.com.If you’re looking to break your online sex addiction and live a life of integrity, go to https://solo.to/powerfuleric and let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me (Powerful Eric) on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook. Email me at eric@powerfuleric.com. Love what you heard? LEAVE A REVIEW + and SHARE this episode with other men who want to live an empowered life free of addiction. Listen to previous episodes on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Quotes:"It even desensitizes you to violence. And it's violence against women." - April Seekins"Now, the whole prostitution to entrepreneurship, entrepreneur, speaker, trauma coach. It shows that the stuff that we put in our brains and our minds, it changes us." - April Seekins"So the goal is just is to go every day to another cubicle and to either introduce yourself or just say Hi." - April SeekinsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

19 Huhti 202231min

Have you ever gone through a “12 step program” only to come out the same as before? I’ve been there time and time again, and let me tell you; there is a better way. See, most of these programs have a fundamental flaw. They force you to define yourself by your problem. While identifying the issue is important at first, I’m going to introduce you to the 13th step that changes everything in this episode.Dive right in, and let’s unpack the power of changing the way you see and identify yourself![00:01 - 06:21] Better, Faster, Stronger A quick explanation of the reason for my absence Background of my journey as a “12 stepper” If something isn’t working for you, it’s time to find a new way[06:22- 14:35] Step 13: Change the Way You See YourselfWhy most 12 step programs fail - there is no graduation Constantly defining yourself as diseased doesn’t workStop labeling yourself and start seeing this as a challenge to move through Slipping after day X doesn’t negate the previous days of success[14:36 - 18:36] Redefining Yourself by Your Power Define yourself for what you do well, not what you do wrongWe are the “Golden Buddha/Christ” It’s time to change the way we see ourselves[18:37 - 23:31] Closing SegmentIt’s time to graduate to Step 13 Define yourself as powerful and become that more and more each dayYou can’t do it alone - reaching out is a sign of strength “You are designed for accomplishment, you are engineered for success, and you are endowed with the seeds of greatness.” Key Quotes:“Stop labeling yourself. Perhaps an alternative view is that ‘I am moving through this challenge where I’ve chosen to use pornography to numb, cope, and escape from the pains of life.’” - Powerful Eric“Just because you had a slip or a relapse does not negate all the successful days that you had… That’s day 11, day 12, keep counting!” - Powerful Eric “Shame is the lowest vibrational emotion on the scale of emotions… Don’t let this addiction define you as a human being - you are MORE than this.” - Powerful EricIf you’re looking to break your online sex addiction and live a life of integrity, go to https://solo.to/powerfuleric and let’s keep the conversation going! Connect with me (Powerful Eric) on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Facebook. Email me at eric@powerfuleric.com. Love what you heard? LEAVE A REVIEW + and SHARE this episode with other men who want to live an empowered life free of addiction. Listen to previous episodes on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/porn-talk--2930866/support.

12 Huhti 202223min