123.How to Never Experience Failure Again with ONE Shift

123.How to Never Experience Failure Again with ONE Shift

For two decades I looked back on my life and saw a list of failures, the corporate job I left, the farm that folded, the marriage that ended, the masterminds I demanded refunds from. Black and white, right or wrong. Even the good stuff landed as proof I'd fallen short.

This episode is about the word "failure" and how much of a life changes when you stop using it. I go through my own examples, one at a time and what each was actually training me for, including the belief I carried into every room that quietly guaranteed the outcome. Pain is real; the suffering is the story laid over it. You get to choose the meaning, and you're not behind, no matter what your past looks like.

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Topics covered

  • The glasses that changed everything and the prescription glasses couldn't fix

  • Handed-down beliefs: the worldview you inherited without choosing

  • Naming the inner prescription and testing it instead of obeying it

  • Why evidence follows focus and how that keeps a belief alive

  • Ownership vs. blame: not your fault, still your responsibility

Chapters:

00:00 When everything looks like failure

00:33 Welcome to Real Influence

00:58 A quick thing before we start

01:20 The word I stopped using

02:20 Quitting hockey out of fear

03:46 The farm, the marriage, the "failures"

04:20 The masterminds and the refund clause

05:50 The moment I saw it was a choice

06:05 You're not behind — you're on time

08:28 Reframing each story for what it trained

13:33 Living your life as an experiment

15:00 Choosing the meaning from here


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About:

Joey Vaillancourt is the host of Real Influence, a show for high performers who can't turn it off. If you've built the life, hit the goals, and still feel the pressure, this is for you. Joey helps entrepreneurs and executives rewire the unconscious patterns driving the need to force, fix, and prove, so they can achieve more by leading with presence instead of pressure.

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